Kutaura "Kuramba zvakanaka" mumaziso kwakaoma zvikuru, kuitora mukunyora kwakajeka. Tsamba yekuendesa kune munhu wekare-kare inofanira kuita mabasa akawanda: kuzivisa, kutsanangura nekunyaradza. Nzira yekusarudza mazwi akakodzera, inotaura chiremba wepfungwa dzedu.
Ronga shoko rekuparadzanisa kune waunoda
Tsamba haifaniri kunge yakawanda, usanyore kupfuura peji imwe yeA4 format. Iwe unotanga kutanga nechinhu chikuru chawakasarudza kumisa ukama hwako, nyora pakati pebhuku kuti utsanangure zvinangwa zvako, uye kupedza shoko neshoko raunoda kuona hukama hwako munguva yemberi. Mune mamwe mazwi, unoona murume ari pedo newe seshamwari, shamwari, kana kuti akasarudza kuibvisa kubva paupenyu hwako kune zvimwe zvikonzero. Usaedza kunyora moto, usashandise mifananidzo yakawanda uye kuenzanisa, zvinongoparadza zvinoreva shoko.
Nzira yekutangira tsamba yekurega sei?
Tsamba imwe neimwe inofanira kutanga nekukumbira, uye haifaniri kuregererwa, ndizvo zvinogonesa shoko redu. Usatanga tsamba nemashoko ekuti "Hello, Zai" kana kuti "Sawa, mudiwa!" Yeuka kuti iwe unotaura zvakanaka, usatsauswa nemurume, nokuti iye atova wako wekare, zvakanaka, uye yekare haazi kudanwa. Nzira yakanakisisa ndeyokutaura nayo nezita. Usave wepamutemo uye usadzike matampu, tsamba yacho ndeyega.
Nzira yekuudza sei murume "Goodbye" pane zuva, verenga pano .
Nzira yekutaurei pamusoro pekuparadzanisa?
Zvose zvamunogona kuita zvinotapira piritsi inorwadza zvishomanana, kudana zvinhu nemazita avo pachavo vacharamba vachichiita pakarepo. Kwete mumutsara wokutanga, hongu, asi muchikamu chekutanga chetsamba yacho inotenderwa. Nyora kuti unoonga nguva yakashandiswa pamwe chete uye yekare-mukomana anoramba ari iwe munhu wepedyo, asi wakasarudza kuenderera mberi. Uye yeuka kutendeseka. Muudze kuti nei vakasarudza kuenda, zvichida izvi zvichabatsira wako wekare-mukomana kuti arege kukanganisa mune ramangwana kana chikonzero chiri mavari. Kana iwe ukadanana nomumwe munhu, taura iwe zvakananga. Usashandisa cliche kubva kumafirimu, zvinoita kuti murume wako zvakare akatarisa kwavari uye pakarepo anoziva kuvepa. Edza kutsanangura zviri mupfungwa dzako. Zvakaoma uye zvinorwadza kwauri here? Bvuma! Kana, pane zvinopesana, iwe unonzwa sokuti iwe wakakura mapapiro, unofunga kuti munhu wekare akafanana.
Chii chinoreva kubvisa?
Pedzisa tsamba, sezvamakatanga iwe - mumutsetse wekona. Usataurira kumashoko okuti "Zvakadaro, yako nokusingaperi ..." kana kuti "Ndichakuda nokusingaperi", saka iwe uchaparadza, zvose zvakanyorwa kare. Kuguma kwakakwana kuchava chikumbiro chekusagumburwa uye kuedza kukunzwisisa.
Wadii kunyora mune imwe tsamba yekufuratira?
Vakadzi vazhinji vanoita chikanganiso chakafanana, vachisiya varume - kubva pamusuwo wakazaruka. Iwe haufaniri kupa munhu tariro dzenhema. Kana ukasarudza kutaura kuti "Zvakanaka," taura zvakasimba. Mutsamba yokufuratira, hapana nzvimbo yemitsara inoti "Pasina iwe ini ndicharwara", "Zvichida ndichazvidemba chisarudzo changu" kana kuti "Kuziva sei kana zvatinoda zvichange zvichiitazve zvakare." Hongu, kuparadzana kwakaoma, kunyanya kana iwe wakaita chisarudzo chakadaro mushure mehukama hwepedyo, asi tsamba yekusiya kumurume, rudo rwayo rwakapfuura, inofanira kureva, kwete iyo ellipsis.