Zvichida, kupa mhinduro isinganzwisisi kumubvunzo wokuti "Pane rudo pakati pemurume nemusikana here?" Hazvibviri. Chero mamiriro ose ezvinhu, hazvikwanisi kugamuchirwa nenyika yose uye iyo inonyatsotenderwa nevanhu vose. Mushure mezvose, vazhinji vedu tinotaura pachena kuti hakuna rudo munyika ino! Kunyangwe nei vachitaura kudaro-ndiro mubvunzo. Zvichida, nekuda kwerudo rwaichimbovhuna mwoyo yavo.
Kutaura kuti rudo pakati pemukomana nemusikana hahupo, zvichida, ibenzi uye haina maturo. Neizvi tinongopfuurira hupenyu hwose hunojeka uye vakaroorana vanofara vanoratidzira mumanzwiro avo uye vanoita mutsa worudo kune mumwe nemumwe. Chii, kana kwete rudo?
Vapikisi vemanzwiro akajeka anoti rudo haruri muhupenyu hwakachena, kuti nguva dzose kune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, ngatitaurei, nhengo inofarira, iyo inorambidza Rudo rwekusachena kwakachena uko kunoratidzwa. Asi siya ichi mercantile: havasi vese vanoda vanoda chinhu kubva kune vadikanwa vavo.
Kunyange kwete, zvishoma zvisiri izvo. Isu tose tinoda chimwe chinhu kubva kune vadiwa vedu. Uye, kutanga kwezvose, tiri kutaura pamusoro pounyoro, shungu, kutarisira, chido. Tinoda manzwiro, tinoshuva kunzwa. Tinoda kuonana zvakare uye nguva yakaisvonaka yekutanga kubata uye kutsvoda, nekudzoka zvakare kutarisa maziso ako aunoda, kutsvaga mune imwe chiziviso cherudo. Uye iwe unoda kuidana iyo yose "tsitsi nezvinhu zvekuzvifarira"?
Chokutanga pane zvose, rudo runoratidzwa nekunzwa kwese kwekushamwaridzana nemunhu. Zvinoratidzika pasina iye iwe haugoni kudya uye kunwa, kunyange kufema kunowedzera. Iwe unonzwa kudiwa nokukurumidza kumuona iye yese yechipiri, kuti asvike ruoko rwake rwushamwari, kugumburwa uye kungovapo, zvichida nechitarisiro chinogunzva zvamunofarira. Iwe unotaura kuti akasungirirwa unhu hwemamwe manzwiro akasimba - somuenzaniso, kune ushamwari. Asi, iwe unoona, kana munhu ari shamwari yako yapedyo, hauzonzwi manzwiro anotsanangurwa pamusoro apa. Zvechokwadi, pasina shamwari iwe uchaneta, iwe unoda kupedza nguva neshamwari dzako dzakanaka. Asi kana munhu waunoda achionekwa muhupenyu, kunyange shamwari dzepedyo dzisingazivi dzichienda kumashure.
Rudo chinhu chinonetsa. Izvi zvinoda kuponesa kubva kune njodzi ipi zvayo, kurwisa, kwete kuti mumwe munhu akugumbure iwe. Kuchengetedza kunoita zvose izvo zvinotapira uye zvinotyisa, nguva dzenyasha dzinowedzera murudo rwechokwadi. Pano iwe unofamba nepaki yechando, kufema mukati mutsva hwakatsva hwekunze kwechando. Uye anonyatsocherechedza, asi anoramba akasunga huti yako yakanyanya zvakasimba, kuitira kuti mhepo inotyisa isati ichinze nzeve dzako. Anokubvunza kana iwe ukapfeka magirafu, uye kana ukakanganwa kumba, achadziya maoko ako ose munzira yake yose. Achagadzirisa ruvara rwako nehutano hwemwana, nguva yose ichiedza kuvhara chinja chavo chinodonha kubva kunotonhora. Uye paunodzoka kumusha, anokurumidza kukutumira kunzvimbo yekugezera kuti uende, uye iye achagadzira moto unopisa unopisa.
Ndeipi mamwe manzwiro akadaro ane hanya zvechokwadi? Hatisi kureva rudo rweamai kumwana wedu ikozvino, nokuti kudanwa kweropa uye hutano hwemwana hwakasimba kudarika mamwe manzwiro ose, rudo urwu harupfuuri, haugoni kuupisa kubva mumoyo mako.
Kunyange, zvichida, hazvibviri kutaura zvakadaro kuti kune rudo rumwe chete. Mushure mezvose, kutaura kwakadaro kunoreva kuti tinowanzotaura nezvorudo nenguva, kunyange zvakadaro, apo mazwi erudo achibhururuka kubva pamiromo yedu, tiri kunyatsoziva kuti tinoda. Uye usave wakanyanyisa kuomesa manzwiro aya, uchiti ivo vakanganisa uye vakagadzirwa, nokuti rudo muupenyu huri chete. Zvimwe rudo rudo rwakawanda uye runogona kutishanyira kakawanda. Pashure pezvose, ndezvipi zvimwe, kunze kwesimba, chaiyo uye, kunyanya kukosha, rudo rwemumwe, zvinogona kutiunza mufaro wakadaro wepachokwadi, kupa chido chakadaro kuda kurarama uye kudiwa?
Chero bedzi moyo wemunhu unoda rudo, Rudo ruchavapo uye runenge ruchiza mukati medu. Dzimwe nguva zvinounza marwadzo, kuora mwoyo uye kutsamwa. Kunyange, hazvina kunaka kutumidza manzwiro akadaro "rudo." Rudo rutsva, kunzwa kusina simba kunoita kuti mwoyo uimbire, kwete kutambura. Uye kana iyo inounza marwadzo - zvino funga: ichi rudo here? Zvichida iwe uri kungoona kushamwaridzana nemunhu, asi haadi kuti uve wega? Ndinofanira here kubvumira kushungurudzika kwakadaro kunokuvadza kuderera mumweya wako? Mushure mezvose, kutsvaga hupenyu hwako pane izvozvo. Ndiani asingazombokoshesa maitiro ako, unozviisa panjodzi kusava nemanzwiro chaiwo ausingaoneki nekuda kwehupofu uye kuswedera kwemoyo wako?
Kuwana rudo kune mufaro mukuru, kuichengetedza - unyanzvi chaihwo, kuti uite kuti hutsve zuva rimwe nerimwe hwakasimba uye hwakasimba - basa rezvishongo. Zvisinei, tenda ini, rudo rwakakosha! Rudo rwakakosha zvibayiro zvose munyika, asi rudo rwechokwadi haruzombokukumanikidza kuita zvimwe zvibayiro zvakakomba.