Vakanga vakasiyana zvachose, asi pasinei nezvose, vaifarira kushandisa nguva pamwe chete. Kusiyana kwavo kwakangoita kuti vafurane. Akamubatsira mukudzidza kwake; verenga mabhuku akachenjera kwaari uye akarota kuti vaizopedza chikoro pamwe chete nemari yegoridhe.
Akamudzidzisa kutamba bhora, nguva dzose akavhengana naye-aive kazhinji ari dhimoni mune jasi.
Ikoko kwakanga kune chinhu chikuru chakavanzika mumweya wake kuti hakuna munhu anoziva pamusoro pake-aimuda nemoyo wake wose. Akamunamata uye akamunamata. Akanga ari kwaari kusanganiswa kwekanaka uye njere.
Uye chii iye? Paainge akarota nerudo uye neramangwana rakanaka nejaya iri jaya, iye akanyarara. Pamusoro pazvo zvakanga zvakaoma kutonga kana aimuda kana kuti aiva kwaari, sahanzvadzi.Aye akatya kuzvitaurira kumurume murudo, akanyorerwa kupinda muuto. Haana kukwanisa kuramba, nokuti akakurira semurume chaiye.
Nemashoko aya nokuda kwake akawira pasi rose - haana kumuudza nezvemanzwiro ake uye iye zvino haazomuoni kwenguva refu. Akanga achitya, uye iye zvino ava kure zvikuru.
Nzira yekureurura kuna mukomana murudo kana ari muuto?
Bvuma murume uyu murudo, kunyange kana ari muuto nenzira mbiri.
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti iwe uri vasikana vakashinga, gadzirira kugadzirira kutaura nejaya uri iwe pachako. Ichokwadi, sarudzo iyi yakakodzera chete kana mukomana ari munzvimbo inowanikwa kune vashanyi. Kana pane mukana wekuuya uye kumushanyira, zvino gadzirira rwendo.
Yeuka kuti kana iwe wasvika, ivo vachamurega achienda kwemaawa mashomanana chete. Nokudaro, kana iwe uchida kureurura kune mukomana murudo, uye iwe unoda kudzivirira iwe woga, ipapo enda oga.
Chii uye kuti iwe ungamuudza sei, zviri kwauri. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti iwe unofanira kuva wakarurama mumashoko ako nemanzwiro.
Chisarudzo chechipiri chakakodzera kuvasikana ivavo vasiri ivo vokutanga kubvuma kuti vanoda mumwe nomumwe. Kana, kana murume wacho ari kure newe, uye hapana nzira. Kuuya nekumuona kweawa rinenge awa.
Nyora tsamba. Usatumira SMS - mharidzo ine chiziviso cherudo - inonyanya kutadza uye haigoni kuita kuti munhu ave nemafungiro akanaka.
Munguva yedu, tsamba dzinoonekwa sechiratidziro cherudo. Dururira mweya wako wose mukereke ino-rega, chaizvoizvo, fema rudo rwako, mutsa, unyoro kune wechidiki.
Ingoisa kuisa kumanikidzwa kunzwira tsitsi, zvisinei kana murume wacho angafunga kuti unotambura uye unotambura nekuda kwekuda kwake. Saka, iye-ndiye chikonzero chekutambudzika kwako.
Rega, kana uchiverenga tsamba yako, iye achafara uye chiso chake chinopenya kunyemwerera.
Iwe unoda kubvuma murume uyu murudo kana ari muuto - zvino shandisa imwe yenzira dzakasarudzwa: mutaurire pamusoro pemanzwiro ako zvakananga mumaziso ako kana kunyora tsamba ye rudo.
Asi, hapana chichaedza manzwiro erudo zviri nani kudarika kuparadzana nemunhu waunoda. Chiitiko chimwe nechimwe muupenyu hwedu haisi nyaya yechokwadi. Zvose zvine tsanangudzo inonzwisisika, kunyange kana kuzadziswa kweizvi kunouya kwauri mushure mechinguva. Murume wako waunoda akapinda muuto, asi haana kuziva kuti unomuda. Zvichida iwe unofanira kumirira nekureurura kwe rudo uye kumirira kudzoka kwejaya.
Paanodzoka kubva kubasa, iwe uchasangana nemumwe. Uye, kunyange kana mugore kana maviri, rudo rwako haruna kunyangarika uye harudonhori, ipapo ushingi uye kuvimba nemwoyo wose kutenda kwaari mumanzwiro ako, uye ipapo hapana chinhu chaunofunga nezvazvo.