Asi, paiva nemumiririri wechikadzi, uye zvino unoda kurarama nemitemo, iyo iye pachake inogadza. Mibvunzo yakawanda: "wakanga uripi", "sei wakasvika kare", "haugoni kudana?", Etc., vari kuwedzera kutanga kuvhiringidza. Iye zvino, usati waita chimwe chinhu, unofanirwa kuverenga nemudzimai wako, zvisinei iwe "uchazvitutumadza" uye uri kuparadza mafungiro ako manheru manheru nekutaridzirwa kutadza, kukuzivisa iwe kuti ndiwe unokonzera kukanganisa kwake kwose. Masoka neshamwari mubhati rinoshandiswa nekukwira kuburikidza nezvitoro, pavanotengesa chinhu chimwechete, asi iye haakwanisi kusarudza. Kunyangwe paanowana chimwe chinhu uye mubvunzo: "Zvakanaka, zvinoitika sei kwandiri?", Iwe unobvuma hurumende, unobata uye unogumbura.
Muhupenyu huri pamwe chete nemafungiro evanhu ikoko kunofanira kunge kune imwe chikamu chekusununguka, simba, kana zvisinei kunyange zviduku zvemhuri uye zvemhuri zvinotanga kutsamwisa . Saka, ndaida kuenda kunze kweguta kuti ndive pikiniki kana sauna neshamwari dzangu - ndakaungana, ndakasara. Muhupenyu huri pamwe, hahushandi saizvozvo. Tinofanira kutanga takazivisa mudzimai pamusoro peizvi, kumunyengetedza kuti abvumirane, saka tsungirira nemoyo murefu maawa akawanda ekudzidzisa, teerera kwaari kuti akanganwa chimwe chinhu uye chido chekuenda kune imwe nzvimbo ichibuda.
Kuvhiringidzwa mumusoro wevanhu, kunongomutsa kuita chinhu chisingaiti. Somuenzaniso, haugoni kusvuta mukicheni. Pasina nguva kana mudzimai wake achibva pane imwe nzvimbo, regai mhangura ine fodya yemakata ione pane dacha iri mukicheni. Izvo zvinoenda kunotarisa mitambo yemitambo, kushamba, hove, nezvimwe. Kunyanya izvi "hazvigoneki", iwe unowedzera kuda kuzviita. Saka, pane kupikisana. Chikonzero nei mukadzi kwemazuva ari kumagumo anogona kutamba achitsvaga kutenga, kupedza nguva mu salons, kutaura neshamwari, uye murume haagoni kuita zvaanoda nokuti haadi.
Upenyu huri pamwe hunochinja zvikuru zvinoreva izwi rokuti "kutaura". Kana mukadzi akanyarara, ipapo murume akaita chimwe chinhu chakashata. Uye edza, fungidzira. Kana imwewo yakanyanyisa - haakwanisi kubatsira kutaura. Kana munhu akanyarara panguva dzenyaya dzake, haafariri, anogumburwa kuti haamuteereri. Kana munhu akaisa shoko, haazofariri kana zvakare, nokuti anoridzivisa. Kazhinji, nevakadzi vakadaro, upenyu pamwe chete hunopera nokukurumidza. Murume anoda mudzimai kuti amuteerere uye anzwisise. Kana iye achitaura pamusoro pezvaanenge ataura uye anonzwisisa kuti anoita seanonzwa izvi kwekutanga, murume anopedzisa kuti hupenyu hwake hahufadze kwaari, nokuti nhau dzake dzinopfuura "nenzeve".
Upenyu hwemurume nemukadzi hausi nguva dzose "yehondo". Kana vanhu vakambosarudza kugara pamwe chete, zvino chimwe chinhu chinochibatanidza. Mune hupenyu huri pamwe, ari kutsvaga gungwa rakanyarara, kwaunogona kuuya shure kwebasa uye wozorora, zorora. Mukuwedzera, varume vakaita sezvokudya zvinonaka uye vanoda kuita zvepabonde, kunyange kana musingadi. Havasi vanhu vose vakagadzirira kubereka. Kana, pakutanga, anogamuchirwa zvakakwana, kushamwaridzana uye rudo, zvinoonekwa nekukurumidza kwomwana kunomutungamirira mumamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa, nokuti anononoka kumashure.
Varume vari kutsvaga vakadzi avo ivo "varoyi vechokwadi." Varume vanochida kana vachirumbidzwa, apo vanoyemura. Havakwanisi kumira kana vachifananidzwa nevamwe varume uye vanofunga kuti mukadzi wacho haasati asarudza pane sarudzo, sezvo achicherechedza vamwe. Varume vanotarisira kubva kuvakadzi uchenjeri, kunzwisisa uye rudo rwetsinye.
Muhupenyu pamwe chete, iye uye iye anodzidza kuva pamwe chete.