Mazuva ano, vasikana vanowedzera kutora rutivi rwehurumende muukama mune maoko avo asina simba uye vanoita matanho ekumhanya kumhuri mufaro, kutanga kugamuchira rudo kumurume wavo. Zvakakosha here kutamba makandulo uye unoda kutanga utaura nezvekunzwa kwako kumusikana? Zvichida uchiri kukoshesa, nokuti pane imwe nguva pane ngozi yekukuvadza ramangwana rako rinofadza.
Kana munhu achinyatsoda mudiwa wake, ipapo kuziviswa kwake kwerudo kuchava kukurudzira kunowedzera kukura kwekugadzirisa ukama uye kuvadzosa kune imwe nhanho. Kune varume avo vakangoita zvakashata chaizvo, vasinganzwisisiki munhau dzorudo. Zvichida nekuda kweukama naamai, hanzvadzi kana varume vakadaro vane mukutakura kweupenyu hwavo hupenyu hunosuruvarisa ruzivo rwakasiya chikara chikuru mumweya. Vanongotya kutsungirira fiasco itsva uye kurambwa nevanodiwa vavo. Muchiitiko ichocho, madzimai, kupupura kwenyu kwerudo kuchave kwakanaka kwazvo. Semuenzaniso, unogona kushamira kuswedera kune wako akasarudzwa uye kutendeseka kutarisa mumaziso ako kuti utaure kuti iwe wakaziva kwenguva refu yaanokuda, haugoni kurarama pasina iwe, haarari uye haadyi, uye kuti anokuda iwe, zvakare. Mushure mokunge kurwisa kwakadaro muhuma, kana uyu ari munhu akakodzera, achikuda nomwoyo wose, haazove nezvimwe zvaanoita asi anokuroora iwe. Asi kana mudiwa wacho atanga kujekesa yulit uye kusiya mhinduro, hezvino zvakatofanira kufungisisa nezvekushandura zvose izvi kuva joko.
Mukuwedzera kune vanyori vanonyadzisa vane zvepabonde zvakasimba, kune varume, uye zvakadaro, zvinosuruvarisa, zvakakwana, izvo zvavanoda kutora, asi kwete kupa. Vanoda kuti zvinhu zvose zvinofanira kushandiswa zvakagadzirirwa, pahwendefa ine ndarama yegoridhe. Kana musikana akawira musoro pamusoro pezvitsitsinho mumunhu akadaro, saka haana chaasara kuita, kubvuma rudo rwake pakutanga, kukanganwa kuzvikudza kwake, uye kwete kuzvidemba pamusoro pehupenyu hwake zvokuti haana kuita izvi uye anotambudzika mumagariro, achifunga ingadai iri.
Mitemo yeguta guru, kutaurira rudo, kumurume akadzokidzwa, haako. Mukudanana, semuhondo, nzira dzose dzakanaka, nokuti pangozi ndiyo mufaro wako uye mugumo wako. Chinhu chinokosha chokuyeuka kana uchibvuma kubvuma kwako, hazvizogadziriswa nemashoko kana mitsara. Zavyristye uye pathos nhetembo, skydiving, ane poster muruoko rwake, iyo inoratidzira vadikanwa, sms nezvimwe zviito zveupenzi pasina kutendeseka kubva kwauri, hazvingauyisi chiitiko chinotarisirwa. Kuzivikanwa kwako murudo murume anofanira kuverenga mumaziso ako, saka iwe unonyanya kubhadhara, asi nokusingaperi "Ndinokuda" ichaubaya pamwoyo. Kuzivikanwa kwemanzwiro kwakanakisisa kunoitwa munharaunda iyo ichava yakanyatsonaka kune munhu uyo anoreurura izvi. Vamwe varume vari nani vanoona ruzivo rwakadaro muhuruzhinji, apo kutarisa kwevamwe vose kunofungidzirwa kumunhu wake. Vamwe, pane zvinopesana, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro vakaswedera pedyo, uye vachiita sokuti havakunzwi iwe zvachose. Chinhu chikuru ndechokusarudza nguva iyo vadiwa vachange vari mune mafungiro akanaka uye inotevera ichava nhamba shoma yezvinhu zvinokanganisa.
Kana usina chimwe chinhu chakasara asi ureurura rudo rwako, usatya kutya "Ini handikudi" kubva kumudiwa wangu. Mhedzisiro yakaipa inogumawo. Zvichida munyaya iyi, mushure mokudanidzira kuwanda uye kukunde kuora mwoyo, iwe uchaziva kuti haufaniri kupedza nguva yako nesimba zvichifamba nenzira iyi. Sezvavanotaura, kumanikidzira iwe hauzove wakanaka, kwete uye pasina dare. Tarisa zvakapoteredza - hupenyu huri hwakanaka uye hwakasiyana! Panzira yako uchasangana nemunhu akakodzera uyo achanyatsonzwisisa chiito chako chekushinga uye chekuita. Uye nyeredzi dzichafanira kuwedzera kuitira kuti murume apindure - "Ndinokuda iwe, zvakare."