Vakadzi vaviri uye murume mumwechete - wekusingaperi Bermuda Triangle, umo pasina imwe imba yakanyura. Uye kana mukadzi wechipiri amai vake? Maiwe, patinenge takaroorana, hatiwanzofungi nezvekuti isu nemurume wedu tinowanawo hama itsva dzatichafanira kuwirirana, uye dzimwe nguva hukama hwakaipa naamai vamai vangu ndivo vanokonzera kukakavara nemurume wavo, uyezve kurambana.
- Zvakadini naamai vomudzimai vaine majee akawanda, uye pamusoro pemwene vamwene havasi imwe chete? "Nokuti hazvisi zvekunakidza zvakare." Zvechokwadi, nzira yakanakisisa ndeyokurarama kunze kwevabereki vemurume, asi kunyange izvi hazvibatsiri nguva dzose kubva pakuvhiringidza kwavo muupenyu hwako hwega, uye zvaunofanira kutaura pamusoro paunofanirwa kupinda mumhuri mitsva nehupenyu hwakagadziriswa uye mitemo yako somwanasikana womukoma.
Asi hazvisi zvinhu zvose zvakaipa, kana iwe wakagadzirira kuva wakagadzirira kuti iwe hausi iwe woga unodiwa mumurume wako, kuvapo kwaamai vamwene vako hakunzwisisiki sechipingamupinyi chinogumbura chekufara kwako uye kunyatsosimbiswa mukubata nayo. Vanhu vezera rekare ndivo vanonyanya kuchenjerera, saka ndiwo maitiro enyu ekuvaka hukama, kuva nemafungiro uye kuita zvinonzwisisika.
Ichokwadi kuti iwe haufaniri kuda amai vako vamwene uye uchitumidze kuti "amai," asi funga nezvazvo - akabereka uye akarera murume wako anodikanwa, saka iwe unofanira kunge uchinzwa manzwiro okuonga nokuda kwayo. Izvi zvinofanira kunge zviri kutanga kwehukama hwako. Kana amai vamwene vako vachifunga kuti vakakupai mwanakomana wavo, achave nekudada nekupa kwake uye kukubata nekunzwa kwakasununguka. Kana iye achifunga kuti iwe wakamutora kubva kwaari, haazombokwanisi kukurira mumweya wake pfungwa yekugumbukira uye kusada.
Usambopindira nemurume wako mumakakatanwa ako uye usabvumira mamiriro ezvinhu aachafanira kuita sarudzo pakati pako naamai vake vamwene. Pane hutano hwakanyanya hwokuti haazokusarudza iwe - shure kwezvose, anoziva amai kwenguva refu uye kwaari inoratidzika yakachengeteka. Varume vose vanowanzochengetedza uye vanowanzofarira zvinowanzoitika.
Usaedza kuratidza kuti iwe "wakafanirwa" nemwanakomana wake, haungapfuuri kuongorora uku "mashanu" chero zvakadaro, uye iwe uchapedza mishonga yakawanda. Zvechokwadi ari nani pakugadzira uye kusungira shati yakawanda kunyange kana bedzi nokuti mwanakomana wake acharamba ari mumeso ake semwana muduku, waanoda kuchengeta. Asi haana kukuroora iwe nokuti unoziva kubika cutlets, handizvo here? Amai vamwene havasi ivo vanokakavara uye havazombotori nzvimbo yako, kuitira kuti iwe unogona kuchengetedza hukuru hwake pane zvimwe zvinhu. Usakanganwa kumubvunza mazano panyaya dzemhuri, asi zvakakosha kuti urege kuyambuka mutsara kuitira kuti usaonekwa usina chokwadi uye munhu asingakwanisi kuita sarudzo pachake. Uye iva nechokwadi kuti uratidze kubudirira kwawakaita, uchichitevera huchenjeri hwake hunoita.
Akaparadzanisa zvikamu zvehutano. Semuenzaniso, vamwe vanhu veAfrica vachiri netsika iyo amai vamwene nemwanasikana wavo, uye vamwene vamwene vane mukwambo vanogona kusangana chete pamitambo mikuru yemadzinza. MuSolomon Islands, vamwene nemwanasikana wake vanogara muimba imwe chete havagoni kungoita chimwe chinhu chebasa panguva imwe chete, asi panguva imwechete vari mune zvemupfumi weimba. Vagari vemunharaunda vakawana chisarudzo chakanaka, saka sei urege kuitevera? Izvi zvinonyanya kukosha kana iwe ugere pamwe chete. Vakadzi vaviri vari mukicheni imwechete - yakaipisisa kudarika kufunga kwechinhu chipi zvacho. Zviri nani kuronga mberi kuti iwe uchagadzirira zvimwe zvikafu kana kwemazuva mamwe zvachose kutora basa pamusoro pevamwe vaviri. Chinhu chakaipisisa chaunogona kufunga nacho ndechekuita basa reCinderella, kuita zviduku zvamai vako vamwene. Iwe hauzombokwanisi kutema karoti yeborsch yayo nenzira yakakwana kusvika mukati mamamiriita.
Kunyange kana iwe uchikwanisa kuzvisimbisa semadzimai uye unokunda kuvimba kwaamai vako vamwene vako, rutivi rutsva rwekurwisana ruri mberi - nokuda kwekudzidzisa "kwakarurama" kwevana vako. Kunyange zvazvo ane ruzivo rwakawanda munyaya iyi, nyika uye maonero pamusoro pezvedzidzo zviri kuchinja zvakakurumidza zvokuti iye, nenzira imwe, haasi akadarika mutsva kupfuura iwe. Uye kana iwe ukakwanisa kupa chikwende cheutungamiri vamwene vemunun'una munyaya dzekubika, saka iwe uri, pasina mubvunzo, mwana mukuru, asi iye ndiye mbuya chete. Saka kubva pakutanga chaiyo zvakakosha kuti tinyatsotsanangura miganhu yerudziro rwayo uye kuti tibvunze kuti chikamu chinotora chii mumugumo wemzukuru. Achagara naye paunenge uchishanda here, kana kutora kaviri pamwedzi kwevhiki? Anenge akagadzirira kuchengeta hurumende yezuva uye chikafu chawakaitira mwana wako here? Izvo zvakanyanya kunyanya, zvishoma apo pachava nezvinetso mune ramangwana.
Zvakanaka, kana nyaya yacho isisina tariro, rangarira kuti iyewo mukadzi uye zvakare akanga ari muroora. Zvichida, kunyange zvichabvumirana newe. "Muparadhiso hapana zvigaro zviviri zvisingabatsiri: imwe yemwene amai vomudzimai akanaka, uye wechipiri kuva muroora wake akanaka," anodaro chirevo chekuMabvazuva, izvo zvinoreva kuti vanhu vanenge vaviri ndivo vanokanganisa ukama husina kuzadzika. Izvo zvinoenderana newe kana iwe uine mhuri yemhuri pamwe naamai vamwene vako, kana ukama hwako huchagara uri Bermuda triangle.