Dambudziko iri harisi idzva, asi kunyange zvakasiyana zvachose zvakanyanya. Asi zvinoratidzika kuti munguva yedu haina kuonekwa sechinetso, haisi kunyora zvakawanda, kutaura zvese, haukwanisi kukurukura kana kupomera. Ndiri kutaura nezvei? Handina chavanoita, ini ndiri kutaura nezvazvo? Nezvemukadzi kana musikana amai vangu vasina kutaura muhuduku hwavo: "Mwanasikana, ndinokukumbira, usambotaurirana nevarume vakaroorana, kunyanya kune avo vane vana, haugoni kuvakira mufaro wako kune rimwe dambudziko!"
Uye vasikana ava vanonyatsozivana nevarume vakaroorana, uye zvinonyanya kukosha, hazvina basa kuti chii, haasi kungofanana nechiso chake, uye kuti haana hanya naye, nokuti anoziva imwe aphorism: "Mudzimai haasi rusvingo, iwe unogona kufamba, uye nevana chii? Hapana, iye mwana, benzi, asina hanya, anoparadza, udyire. Uye varume vanoishandisa, vanoratidzira kuti musikana muduku ari murudo naye, uye varume vari mumakadhi aya vakakura vaduku kwenguva yakareba. Hatisi kutaura pamusoro pe "baba", vanowanzoramba vari mumhuri, uye vana vavo vave vave vakuru.
Zvinoratidzika sekuti izvi zvose zvakajeka. Vechidiki vakaroorana vanongoratidzira rudo pamichato, uye apo hutano hutanga, sapanguva dzose mumwe munhu asingadi chimwe chinhu, uye chinhu chakaipisisa ndechekuti vakaroorana havagoni kugara pasi nekukurukura dambudziko racho. Chimwe chezvinhu zviviri kune iye pachake anofunga kana kufunga, anoedza kubva kure nedambudziko uye kuti nguva inoratidzika - yoga.
Pano anotanga kusada kudzokera kumusha - hapana munhu ari kumirira, asingafari, vanotanga kuwana hukama, uye varume vacho vane utera husina simba, havadi kuwana hukama, kutakura mutoro. Saka, pazvakaitika kuziva mumwe musikana, haana hanya. Chokutanga, haana hanya nokuzvitsivira nekuda kwomudzimai wake ane mutemo - akatambudzika, saka haana kufunga - zvaikwanisika kuti agare mune imwe nzira, mune imwe kambani, uye ipapo akamira kuuya kumba uye haazozviongorori.
Mukadzi, zvirokwazvo, akanzwisisa zvose kwenguva yakareba, uye vanhu vakanaka vachawanikwa - ivo vachati, asi iye akaita sokunge akazvigadzirira, iye anozvigadzirira, iye mukadzi akasunungurwa, dzimwe nguva anowana zvakawanda kupfuura murume wake kakawanda, izvo zvinomunyaradza, mwana uye kwenguva yakareba yakanga yava nguva yokubereka ... Asi, chokwadi, mukadzi akasiyiwa anogona kunzwa kurwadziwa kwakanyanya, nokuti iyewo aida. Mukudzika kwemweya wake, anovenga mudzimai wake, anomuda iye zvakanyanya zvakanyanya, anoda kuti rimwe zuva razluchnitsa ichange iri panzvimbo yake, nezvimwewo. Uye izvi zvose muhupenyu zvinowanzoitika, asi kuenderera mberi nevarume vakaroora hazviregi, sei?
Ichinzwira tsitsi munharaunda iyi chete vana. Murume uyu nemudzimai havatombozivi, kunyange dai vakagara pamwe chete kusvika muchato chesirivha kana yegoridhe, vakaramba vasingazivi. Uye vana chete ndivo vanogovana navo, nokuti mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana akava amai uye baba kumwana, uyo akazova hama yepedyo yevari vaviri. Iye zvino mwana uyu anowana zvakanyanya, anoda kurarama naamai vake nababa, anovada vose vari vaviri, asi hapana munhu akamubvunza. Uye zvakanaka, kana vabereki vane njere dzakakwana kuti vasaparadzanise mwana, kwete kunyanya kufunga nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu, kunyanya sezvo vana muzana remakore redu vanogona kunzi "vakafambira mberi," dzimwe nguva havadi kutsanangurira chero chinhu, vanonzwisisa zvose ivo pachavo, uye kubva pane ida vabereki vavo nenzira imwechete, uye zvakaenzana edza kutaura nevose. Papa anounza mwana kumhuri yake itsva, kana ndikataura kudaro.
Kazhinji kacho kazhinji mubhalisi, varume vanoramba vasingakurumidzi, uye zvichida havaiti. Uyu musikana anofanirwa nomusoro pane zvakanakisisa zvemudzimai wehurumende, pane zvakaipisisa-mahara, uye chaizvoizvo zvaive zvakanakisisa - "madzimadzi"! Saka ndiani akawana chii pashure pezvose? Ndinonyatsoda kuziva mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu kubva kune umwe neumwe mubatanidzwa weiyi quadrilateral, kana kuti panzvimbo iyo katatu. Tinosiya mwana oga, ndiye akaoma kupfuura zvose, anofanirwa kugadzirisa, kupindura mibvunzo yaamai vake yakajeka, mushure mokunge auya kubva papa.
Asi ini handimbozombotendi musikana uyu-razluchnitsu, kana akati iye akanaka. Haagoni kuita chero chinhu chipi zvacho chakanaka, haatombozivi kunyange zvakanaka nezvakaipa, kana kubva pakutanga chaiyo akanga akagadzirira kuita chakaipa chakadaro - kupwanya mhuri yemumwe munhu. Iye zvino akwegura, nguva yekuseka yakapfuura, uye zvino iyewo ane hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwemurume uyu, asi iye pachake haabvumi, kunyange kana zvinhu zvose zvisina kunaka zvachose. Uye murume uyo achiri kugara naye, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, pavanotanga kukakavara, kamwechete kamwe, asi iye achanyadzisa iye: "Makaputsa mhuri yangu!" Nokuti mupfungwa dzake iyi mhuri yekutanga ichagara iri iyi manzwiro maari maari achiri kuchengetedzwa nemwana waanoda.
Vasikana, ngatidzokerei kumazuva ekuru vako navanambuya, apo zviito zvakadaro zvaive zvisingabviri. Apo vakadzi vakadaro vaizvidza kunyange vehama dzavo, apo kukurira kumagumo kwaisaita kuti iite saizvozvo! Kwakaenda kupi? Kana Mwari achikupa mwanasikana, usakanganwa kumuudza kuti haazombovi neukama nevarume vakaroorana, iwe wakanzwisisa izvi kubva pane zvaunoona, asi hapana chaigona kugadziriswa.
Ita kuti vanasikana vako vafare, vanoda, uye kuti hapana munhu ane chikonzero chekuvatevera kuti vataure chimwe chakaipa, chakaipa uye utsinye! Chenjerera rudo!