Kwapera Nguva Imba

Kugadzirisa kugadzirisa nyaya dzinobudirira, kuvimba kune mumwe nemumwe, mhuri idyll, hukama hwehukama - vose vakaroorana vanoda rudzi urwu rwehukama hunoita muupenyu hwavo. Ichi chinyorwa chinopihwa kune zvose zvakanyanyisa uye zvinyorwa zvekuroorana, nekuti havasi vamiririri vose vevanhu vanopindura zvakanaka nezvemhuri yakadaro. Nemashoko okuti "kuroorana kwenguva refu," mumwe nomumwe wedu ane nhamba dzaro pachake mumusoro, zvinoratidzika kune mumwe munhu kuti pamakore makumi matatu nemaviri apera nguva yekuroorwa, uye mumwe munhu, asi, anotenda kuti mumakore makumi mana makumi mana haasati anonoka kutanga mhuri. Ndicho chikonzero, hatingasviki muganhu wezera, tichikurukurirana nezvenyaya iyi, asi tinongofungidzira pamusoro pezvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka zvehutano hwakadaro.


Nguva dzakanaka

Vose vakadzi nevarume vakayambuka makore makumi matatu vanozivikanwa vanowanzoziva kuti ndeupi munhu wavanoda kuona seimba yekurarama. Uye vachiita sarudzo yavo pakati pevanhu vakawanda, vanofunga nezvekuti mhuri yeramangwana ichava yakasimba uye yakasimba, pasina chero kushamiswa kusingafadzi kurimirira munguva yemberi.

Matanho akachengetedza matenga. Kana tichienzanidza, ngatitorei varume vaviri vakazvisunga ivo pachavo nekuroorana pazera remakumi maviri. Mumuenzaniso uyu, mhuri inowanzotarisana nematambudziko emari, nokuti vakaroorana vechidiki vanogona kungovaka basa ravo. Uye, hongu, pasina rubatsiro rwevabereki kuti vasasunungurwe, kana zvichiuya kune chero chinhu chikuru chekutenga, zvakadai semotokari yakodzwa. Asi sekuvanhu vakaroorana mushure memazana makumi matatu, zvino sekutonga, mibvunzo yakagadziriswa neimba yavo pachavo uye ivo vakazviona ivo pachavo mubasa rebasa. Tichifunga nezvezvinhu izvi zvinokosha, tinogona kutaura kuti pakuzviona ivo mumabasa avo uye kubudirira kubudirira, vakaroorana vachabhadhara zvikuru mhuri uye vanotora nekuonga nguva dzose dzakanaka muhupenyu hwavo hwekubatana.

Dzidzo yakabvumirana yevana. Kuronga, chido chechokwadi uye chido chokuva nevana vanobatsira vabereki kunyatsogadzirira kuberekwa kwechecheche, uye ruzivo rwehupenyu nekukura zvinomubvumira kuti ave nekunzwisisa, uyewo zvakakwana uye zvakanaka kumudzidzisa.

Kugadzirisa nyaya dzemhuri nouchenjeri. Kukura uye ruzivo rwevakaroorana zvinoita kuti zvibvirire kusakurumidza kutsamwa uye kuita zvinhu zvinokurumidza izvo zvinogona kuita kuti pakave nekukakavadzana uye kusawirirana. Zvisinei, zvinonzwisisika, hazvirevi kuti mushure mekuroora kana wava nemakore makumi mana, vanhu havangamboputsiki. Kunyange zvakadaro, mumuchato wakadaro pachava nekushorwa kwakanyanya, kuremekedzwa, chido chikuru chekuwana nzvimbo yepakati uye zvinogona kugumisa kupesana.

Zvinhu zvisina kunaka zvemhuri yakapera

Kutaura pamusoro pezvakanaka, uyewo usatevera zvikanganiso zvinogona kuitika mumhuri yekupedzisira.

Biological clock uye kuberekwa kwevana. Kazhinji karoorana, kuva mumhuri yekupedzisira, zvikuru vanoda kuwana mwana, asi zvinosuruvarisa, kune matambudziko nehutano, izvo zvinotadzisa nzira yekuumbwa uye vynashashivaniya makumbo. Chero chii chingareva, yakagara ichizivikanwa kuti nguva yakanakisisa yekuberekwa kwechecheche ndeyekutanga kubva pamakore makumi maviri nemakumi matatu, apo muviri wevanhu hausi kunyanya kunetseka nezvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana. Somugumisiro, semudzimai, asi murume, haazove nemanzwiro akanaka kana asingakwanise kuzadzisa basa ravo rekare - kuti ave nemuviri wakaoma.

Imwe nzira isina kukodzera yekuroora kwekuroorana ndeyemakore anoenderana nemakore. Mushure mezvose, mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana, vasati vatongesa hukama hwavo, ave akajaira kune nheyo dzakasimba muhupenyu, kuti aite chii uye paanenge asingadi pasina zvipingamupinyi uye anozivisa kune mumwe munhu nezvekuita kwake. Ndizvo zviri pafoni uye zvinogona kuva nezvimwe zvinetso, kusvikira mhuri yapfuura nepakati pekachero.