Zvechokwadi, zvinosuruvarisa uye zvinogumbura apo murume akambokusarudza kubva kune boka revanhu anotanga kukuona iwe zvakare semukadzi chaiye, akafanana nevamwe vose. Asi kunyange kubva mumamiriro ezvinhu aya zvakakosha kubuda nerukudzo. Hazvigoneki kuti kushuva kwakanaka kwe rudo rwakarasika kunokonzera kusakwanira, zvinorwadza uye zvinoparadza zviito. Kunzwa kwevakadzi vakasiyiwa kunotyisa. Chinhu chokutanga chinouya mupfungwa ndechokudzorera wako waunoda chero zvakakosha. Nekudzoka kwake, mukadzi wacho anotarisira kuporesa mweya wake wakakuvadzwa. Asi pasina ...
Dambudziko
Kazhinji mukadzi anoona kubviswa kwemunhu senjodzi yakazara: "Kwapera, hakuchazovizve kwakanaka, handichazokwanisi kunakidzwa noupenyu uye kuda mumwe munhu."
Kuwira mukuderedza mwoyo uye kusava nehanya, mukadzi anoita seanotambura nemanzwiro ezvino aripo pane zvaanotarisira mangwana. Uye, kuvaka zvigaro zvinotyisa kwazvo, zvinowira zvakadzama uye zvakadzika mukunakidza kwekushungurudzika kwake uye "zuva rekuparadzwa".
Mhosva Yakaoma
Kazhinji mukadzi anotsanangura saizvozvi: "Akandisarudza, akasarudza kubva kune vamwe vakawanda, saka ndinonyanya kushamisa!" Pane chikonzero chekuzvikudza.
Asi pano akabva, izvo zvinoreva kuti: "Akandida ini, haadi ini, handirevi chinhu kwaari, saka hapana chinondifadza ini." Kubviswa kwomunhu nguva dzose kunounza kuora kunorwadza kuzviremekedza kwomukadzi. Uye kunyange mumunhu aine chivimbo, pane kugumburwa kwekuzvinyengera:
"Ndakataura chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka, chakaita chimwe chinhu chakashata, hazviiti kuti hazvina musoro" ... Kutsvaga kwemhosva yako pachayo kunotanga. Uye kunyange kana pasina mhosva, chimwe chinhu chakafanana nacho chinogona kuwanikwa nguva dzose.
Kutarisa zvisikwa nechechi ye "samokokaniyu" vanoona kuputsa nevanodiwa, sehuchapupu hwekusakwana kwavo kose. Vanowana mukati mavo zvikanganiso zvizhinji uye zvikanganiso: "Ini ndiri mafuta zvakanyanya (zvishoma)", "Handisi kufarira zvakakwana uye kudzidziswa", "Ndinotyisa", "Ndakarembera (zvakaipa) ..." nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Izvozvo zvine musoro: "Murume ari pedyo pedo - ndakanaka, murume akasiya-uye" akatora "neni pachedu kuzviremekedza."
Simba romuitiro
Kudzokera kumusha, iwe uri muga unozvikudza uchidziya kudya kwezuro zuro uye unotanga kumuparadza, achitarisa dully paTV. Kushuva!
Iwe unoshushikana netsika yake: "Nhai!", "Usiku hwakanaka!" Kunyengera kwake kwakakandwa muimba yechigaro chezvipfeko, mapuranga emapepanhau nemagazini patafura.
Usiku ihwohwo. Haunzwisisiki kurara kunze kwekutsvoda kwake, kufema kwake kufema! Iwe unoremerwa nemusana usingawanzoregi wemubhedha wakakura ... Kutarisa kuburikidza nezvipfeko zvako, iwe unogumburwa pane shati yavakakanganwa, uye mwoyo wako unomanikidzwa kubva kunhuhwirira inowanikwa.
Hazvishamisi - vanhu vanojaira kune mumwe nomumwe. Nenzira imwecheteyo, nenzira, sekune mukati. Kunyangwe kugadziriswa kwefenirini kunotanga kutanga kune chokwadi chokuti isu tinowanzosangana nemakona uye "kuwira mukati" munzvimbo dzisina chinhu. Kana kuti zviri nyore, nekuyeuka kwekare, kuedza kushandura TV, iyo inenge yakatova mune imwe kona ...
Kutya kusurukirwa
Munhu waunopedza naye nguva yakawanda, iyo yaunoshandisa simba rako repfungwa nemuviri, pasina mubvunzo anovandudza hupenyu hwako nemanzwiro. Nekuenda kwake, munda mukuru webasa unonyangarika - hakuna munhu we "kubvarura" zvakaipa, hakuna munhu anofarira nezvezvokudya zvekudya, kuisa zvinhu zvakasvibiswa uye kupomera mhosva dzavo dzose matambudziko nekukundikana. Hakuna mumwe wekupedzisira akawana hukama!
Iwe unonzwa kuti wakarasa chimwe chinhu chakakosha zvikuru. Muhupenyu chinhu chisina maturo chakasikwa, icho chisina chinhu chokuzadza. Iwe uri woga, uye kusurukirwa kunowedzera nehupenzi hwako husingafungi kuti izvi zvicharamba zvichienderera mberi kwenguva refu, zvichida kwehupenyu hwako hwose.
Kuchinja kwemavara
Iwe zvachose hausi kuda kufamba uri moga kwawakamboshanyira pamwe chete. Mune kambani iyo yakajairika kusangana muviri, hausisiri kutarisirwa. Uyezve, zvinosvika, kune nzvimbo umo iwe woga haunorati wakanaka kwazvo.
Zvinosuruvarisa, kana iwe wakabatana ne "yekare" pamwe chete kana kudzidza. Hazvina maturo kutaura, hazvishamisi kumuona zuva rega rega pasina mumvuri wetariro yekudzoka-uye zvichida, pamwe nekatsva. Mukuwedzera, unofanirwa kutaurirana newaunoshanda navo nezvehukama hwako hwakashandurwa. Vanyori vane nyanzvi vacharamba vakamirira nguva dzose nyaya dzehupenyu hwako pachavo, uye, pasina mubvunzo, vakapfuura maziso avo ekutsvaga, hapana chinhu chichaenda chisingaoneki.
Chinhu chiduku chinotyisa ndicho tarisiro yekuchinja mabasa - kunyanya kana sarudzo ishoma.
Kuchinja denderedzwa yekukurukurirana uye wehupenyu hwehupenyu hwako ndeimwe chikonzero chezviitiko zvisingafadzi.
Zvinotora nguva yakawanda uye simba kuti utsungirire kudzvinyirirwa kusina tariro uye kuizadza nezvinoonekwa zvitsva, zviitiko zvinofadza neshamwari.
Pfungwa yekubatana
Kana akange aenda, chinhu chakaipisisa chaungaita ndeche kumudzosa pakarepo. Usatorawo zvinyengeri kutora zvisizvo naye, uchikumbira nenyota yokutsiva.
Maererano nehuwandu, kurwadziwa kwakanyanya kunokonzerwa nekuparadzanisa, kunoitika mushure memazuva makumi mana. Asi zvinyorwa zvake zvinogona kunetseka kwemamwe mwedzi mitatu, uye dzimwe nguva kunyange mwedzi mitanhatu. Zvose zvinoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu aunokwanisa - uye anofanira! - ita iwe pachako.
Maererano nenheyo inonyanya kukosha yehupenyu huripo, kune hutano hukuru huri munharaunda yakaenzana yakaenzana yemasimba inofanirwa kuiswa: muviri (utano), basa (basa, kuzvidzidzisa), kukurukurirana (mhuri, rudo, ushamwari) uye mibvunzo yezvinoreva upenyu.
Zvose izvi zvinogona kumiririrwa nenzira yeiye akatasva (basa) kune chinangwa chekupedzisira (zvinoreva hupenyu). Kuti asvike kune chinangwa ichi, anoda bhiza rakadzidziswa (muviri). Uye kana bhiza richidonha, richada kutsigirwa (kukurukurirana). Kuyera shanduro yemagetsi yaunoshandisa munzvimbo idzi, unokwanisa kuzvigadzirisa kuti uswedere pedyo nechiyero chakanaka: 25% pamutambo.
Funga, haisi simba rakawandisa raunopedza mukukurukurirana, kana nekubva kune waunoda, nyika inofamba kubva pasi petsoka dzako? Mushure mezvose, une zvimwe zvitatu zvimwe zvekubatana kwehupenyu!
Kunzwisisa zvikonzero
- Funga pamusoro peizvi zvingave zvakamukurudzira kuparadzana newe.
- Taura naye - pachena uye pasina mari. Kana iwe unonyatsoda mhinduro yezvokwadi, dzivisa zvishomanana kuzvidzwa.
- Kunyangwe kana akagadzira zvaanotaura, zvichida zvikonzero zvepasipo zvakagara zvachose mune imwe. Anogona kukupa mhosva yekusatendeseka uye kufara, kutambura muchokwadi kubva mukushayikwa kwekunaka mupfungwa uye kushaya kwako zvepabonde. Kuti varege kubvisa manzwiro avo, vanhu kazhinji havanzwisisi vavariro dzechokwadi. Edza kuzvigadzirisa iwe pachako.
- Yeuka paakaona zvakanyanya kutsamwa, uye edza kunzwisisa kuti sei. Pamwe iwe wakamutsamwisa?
- Zvichida anotya kushamwaridzana naye uye kuvimba. Apo chido chekushandura chinoshanduka kuva rudo rukuru, "runomhanyira kutiza," pasinei nokuti uri uyu kana mumwe mukadzi.
- Zvichida haana kumbofadzwa newe, asi "akamirira" kune rimwe kusurukirwa uye akanga asingadi kuvaka ukama hunokosha.
- Bvuma kuti iwe wakasiyana zvikuru naye. Iwe haugone kugutsa zvaanoda, asi ndeye wako. Pamwe chete iwe unongotambudzirana, uye akazvinzwisisa pamberi pako.
- Hazvisi zvachose kuti haasi mudambudziko rakakomba rehupenyu. Akanga aine chido chekuchinja kamwe kamwe zvinhu zvose, anotanga pasina kusuruvara kupisa mabhiriji uye kubvisa zvose zvinomubatanidza nekare - kusanganisira ukama hwako naye.
Iyananidza nechinzvimbo chako uye edza kushandisa iko. Chimbofungidzira kuti mikana mitsva yakawanda inovhura sei pamberi pako!
Kunyemwerera kumunhu asingazivi uye mutsara unonyadzisa zvino hauzorevi mifananidzo ye godo. Iwe unogona kupfeka suti yaasingadi; nyora makeup nenzira yaunoda; kuti aite bvudzi raakaramba naro; Paridzai mbatya pedo neimba; kuti aite zvekuita aerobics chero nguva ipi zvayo masikati kana usiku; kwemaawa akawanda achitaura neshamwari. Hapana munhu achapikisa mafirimu ako aunofarira uye mapurogiramu uye achishandura kuti adzoke.
Iwe wakasununguka! Iwe unogona kufamba usiku hwose uye usingauyi nezvikonzero; pane chimwe chinhu icho mwoyo unoda; Usabika zvinonaka, shandura fenicha, shandura maruva emaketeni uye mapepa kubva kune dema kusvika kune ganda rinopenya.
Iye zvino iwe uri kukonzera zvinhu zvose zviri mhinduro. Rega iwe (kwechinguva), asi pasina munhu uye hakuna munhu akabatanidzwa! Panzvimbo pekunzwa uine mhosva kune chokwadi chakakwana chokuti pasina iyo iwe haungarasikirwi.
Iwe uri akanaka, wakazvimiririra, unoenda nechivimbo chekuvimba, varume vanokuyemura iwe shure, uye mumwe wavo achava chiitiko chako. Iwe zvechokwadi uchafara - shure kwezvose, vakaroorana zvechokwadi vanofara havakwanisi kuparadzana!
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