Chero kupi zvayo vechidiki vanogara nevabereki vevarume vavo, njodzi yekukakavadzana nguva dzose inokura. Iyo mhandara muduku inounza nzira itsva yekuchengetedza imba yake itsva, iyo isiri iyo yaanoda amai vake vamwene. Mukadzi anongodzidza nzira yekurima, kazhinji anokanganisa uye, zvechokwadi, anorwadza zvikuru anoona zvataurwa nemudzimai wemudzimai ane ruzivo. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, murume haafaniri kumira mumusangano wemugadziri (nenzvimbo yake yemurume nemwanakomana, haafaniri kuita basa rakadaro), asi nguva dzose dzivirire mudzimai wake, kunyange apo paanoona kuti amai vake, kwete mudzimai wake, vakarurama. Murume anofanira kutsigira mudzimai wake mukutenda kwake mukati make, kumubatsira kukunda matambudziko epanguva pfupi uye kukurudzira pfungwa yekudzikama uye kugutsikana.
Hapana mwanakomana, kunyange uyo akazvimirira oga, anenge asina kuzvimiririra pane amai. Haazombomutsauri zvakananga izvo anofunga kuti zvingamugumbura kana kumurega kuti adudzire mazwi ake kuitira kuti asarudze mudzimai wechidiki. Ndizvo zvakanyanya kudiwa kumwanakomana, uyo anomira pamativi emudzimai wake, akasiya ari oga naamai vake, akatsanangurira kwaari zvinangwa zvekuita kwake.
Asi hukama hwemurume hunonzwisisika hahuri chivimbiso chekugadzirisa zvinetso zvose zvinogoneka. Kubudirira kwenyaya yacho kunobva kune muroora-mukwambo, uyo, zvinosuruvarisa, kazhinji haasaruramisiri amai vomurume wake. Muroora-dangwe anotanga kutaura nezvekuti amai vake vamwene ndivo vakadzi vane hasha uye vanopopotedzana, kunyange kana izvi zvisingaenderani nechokwadi, uye kana amai vamwene ndivo vanhu vane ruzivo uye vakachenjera. Ichokwadi kuti kune vamurikasha uye vakanyanyisa, uye vane godo, uye vane mwoyo murefu, uye vasingatyi. Zvakadini nazvo?
Amai vamwene, saiye tose, vanoitika kuti vaneta, vatsamwiswe, vanozvicherechedza, kunyange, kufanana nevanhu vose vakwegura, havana maitiro akawandisa. Kana mudzimai wechidiki anotanga kukumbira kuti vamwene vake vataridzane naye, nokuti iye, kunyange achiri muduku, ane "kuzvikudza kwake," haazongogoni kuita chimwe chinhu, asi iye acharatidza upenzi husingaregererwi. Muroora wake akachenjera anofanira kuzvienzanisa naamai vamwene vake, vave shamwari yake dzimwe nguva kunyange kumurume wake. Nzira inoenda pamwoyo yaamai vamwene ndivo vanogona kuburikidza nehutano hwehumai. Muroora wake anofanira kunyanya kuteerera uye kuteerera amai vamwene vake kupfuura amai vake. Vose amai vamwene vanofarira kudzidzisa nekupa zano, naizvozvo, vanasikana vamwene avo vasingamiri mumwe "chidzidzo" vanouya kuna vamwene vavo vatungamiri vezano, vaudze kuti vadzidzise nenzira imwe neimwe, uye vaudze kuti vanokoshesa dzidzo yemurume wavo. Vose amai vanozvikudza nekuda kwekuti akakwanisa kurera vana vakaberekwa zvakanaka, uye vanaamai - zvikurukuru.
Muroora anokwanisa kumuudza vamwene vamwene vake, kunyange kana achifunga kuti amai vake vakanyanyisa mwanakomana wavo zvakanyanya. Rimwe zuva muroora-mukomana achava amai, iye angave ane mwanakomana, uye "achabvisa" mwanakomana wake sezviuru zvemaamai vasati vasvika. Uye ipapo nguva ichapfuura, mwanakomana acharoora, uye pano mumwe munhu anoziva mwanakomana wake oga "pasina nguva yegore", achaudza muroora wake uyo akazova mukamwene wake, kuti "akaisa pfungwa dzake" mwanakomana wake. Aizofara here kunzwa izvi?
Zvakakosha kudzidza ruzivo rwakavakirwa mukunyanyisa. Mudzimai anogona kutanga "kudzidzisazve" murume wake apo apo vamwene vake vanyatsopindira parutivi rwake, apo amai vachakumbira kubva kumwanakomana wavo kuti achateerera mudzimai wake mune zvose. Muroora mwanasikana haafaniri kumuona iye anokwikwidza amai vomurume wake: hondo yakadaro inorasika isati yasvika uye isingave nechinangwa. Rudo kune amai uye rudo rwemukadzi zvinhu zvakasiyana zvachose. Kushuva kwevakadzi vaviri - muroora-naamai vomudzimai-havamuunzi chero chinhu kunze kwekunzwa kusuruvara kwekuvhiringidzika uye kusaruramisira. Murombo murume ari pakati pematombo maviri. Ikozvino muroora wemurume anosungirwa kubereka. Kuti abvumire pane rimwe bhuku kakatoti hupenyu hwemamai hupfupika, uye mukugadzirwa kwekukwegura nekupererwa kwezvido, rudo rwake kumwanakomana wake runogona kupera nesimba rutsva. Kunyanya kuora mwoyo ndiko kukanganisa vanaamai vanofunga kuti "mukomana" wake anotorwa nemukadzi asingazivi uye anoramba achirashikirwa zvachose. Mukadzi wechidiki anofanira kufambisa amai vake vamwene kuti haazobvumiri mwanakomana wavo, kuti, asi, iye akawanawo mwanasikana uye munguva pfupi achawana vazukuru avo vacharamba vachiita mutsa wake.
Matambudziko anowanikwa muhupenyu hwehukama hwemhuri mbiri dziri nyore kugadzirisa apo vabereki nevabereki vasingatauri nemwanasikana wavo kana mukwambo wavo, asi mwanakomana wavo nemwanasikana wavo. Vabereki vachanzwisisa vana vavo nekukurumidza, vanozosangana navo uye vachave vakanyanya kukanganwira kupfuura kuti havazomboregereri muroora kana mukomana-mukwasha. Kune rumwe rutivi, vabereki vanofanirawo kunzwisisa zvakajeka kuti havana kodzero yekupindira muhupenyu hwevamwe vevakaroorana, kuti kupindira kwakadaro hakuna kufanana navo, pavaive vaduku uye vaida kuva voga mumwe nomumwe, kurota pamusoro pechinhu, ipapo nzira imwechete yaida kuti vave voga.
Kana paine mhuri itsva, iko kubatana kunofanira kuva yekutanga uye yehutano hwekuvapo kwayo. Kubatana mukati memumhuri mhuri, uye muhukama nevabereki. Mumwe haafaniri kukanganwa kune rumwe rutivi, kana kuramba kodzero yevabereki yekutora chikamu mumufaro wevaduku uye kugadzirisa matambudziko avo nekuda kworugare rweimwe yemapato. Muzvinhu zvose zvakakosha kuchengeta pfungwa inonzwisisika yehuwandu.
Vabereki, kunyanya kana vakaguma pabasa, vane chimwe chinhu chisingagoneki kuvanhu vaduku-nguva. Vanasekuru navanasekuru vanogona kupa vanzukuru nevana vazukuru vakawanda nguva yakawanda kupfuura amai vaduku nebaba. Mumhuri umo vabereki vanorera vana vavo mukunyanyisa, unyoro hwekuru nanasekuru hahukuvadzi, uye naizvozvo munhu haafaniri kutya kutya.
Zvisinei, apo vechidiki vanochinja mutoro wose wekurera vana vavo kuna vanasekuru navanasekuru, uye mbuya panguva imwe chete vanotungamirira imba, vanovhura simba revakwegura. Izvi zvinotarisirwa kwavari hazvisati zvichinyatsoenderana nezera ravo, kunzwa kuneta kunomuka nokukurumidza, uye kuneta kunotungamirira kuchinjwa chekugadzikana kwemanzwiro nekugunun'una, uye somugumisiro, mamiriro akaoma ekugumburana kunovhiringidzika muimba iyo inogona kusakanganisika kune vose vaduku nevakuru kune vakwegura. Iko vabereki vakaita pakutanga nemufaro, ikozvino kunova kwavari mutoro unoregererwa, kubva kwavanoda, asi haugoni kubvisa. Usabvumira mamiriro ezvinhu akaora mwoyo akadaro.
Kurwisana kwakajeka kudzivirira pane kuti gare gare kuedza kubatanidza pamwe chete izvo zvatove zvisina tariro zvakaputsika.