Iye zvino, vakadzi havagoni kungoenda kunoshanda sevarume, vanogona kutora nzvimbo dzakakosha, kutarisira zvikwata zvose kana mabhizinesi. Hongu, uye hakuna munhu anoshamiswa nemutungamiri wevakadzi wenyika.
Ukama hwepakati pakati pepabonde hunounza vanhu vose mufaro mukuru uye yakaipa. Nhasi tichatarisa zvingasarudzwa zvekuvaka hukama hwehukama hwakanyanya kuparadza mweya wevanhu nekubatana nenyika. Mushure mezvose, sebhizimusi chero ripi neripi, kuenzana kwepabonde kune zvakanaka, kana zvichisvika neuchenjeri, nekufungisisa uye nekuchenjerera, uye kwete nekutsungirira uye kutsungirira kwevashandi vane simba.
Equity paKushanda
Ukama huri pakati pevarume nevakadzi hunogona kukura nenzira dzakasiyana mumhuri uye mubasa pamwe chete. Uye nheyo dzemitemo dzinoita kuti kubudirire dzakasiyana. Kana kuumba muchidimbu, ipapo kuitira kuti kuve nekuenzana kubasa, zvakakosha kuva nounyengeri, kushandisa uye kuratidza kusagadzikana. Kuenzana mumhuri kunowanikwa kune dzimwe nzira - pano munhu anofanira kukwanisa kugoverana uye kugovera mutoro wemurume nemudzimai.
Kudzidza zvikamu zvebasa rakabudirira, mazvikokota ezvepfungwa vakasvika pakugumira kutsvaga apo vakaedza kuwana mhinduro kumubvunzo, chii ukama hwehukama pakati pevarume nevakadzi mune bhizinesi. Zvakazoitika kuti varume vari kutambura kubudirira kwevakadzi mubhizinesi, uye vakagadzirirwa kunyadziswa uye kusagadzikana kunofamba, kuti varege kurega mukadzi wacho kuenda kunokurudzirwa. Vanodzika pfungwa uye vanovapa ivo voga, vanovhiringidza zvakanyanya vakadzi mukukurukurirana, vanozvidzivirira kumabasa emukadzi akanaka, vachimuudza zvakanyanyisa kukurudzira pabhodhi revatungamiri. Pakati pese, urongwa hwemagadzirirwo anoderedza mufananidzo wemukadzi kune basa rehurumende, nekuti varume vakawanda. Chimwe chinetso ndechokuti varume kazhinji havazivi izvi. Vanogona kutaura kuti vanofara kutsigira pfungwa yekuenzana pakati pemurume nemukadzi, asi aya ndiwo mazwi ose. Apo pangosvika kune iyo nyaya, kukanganisa kwavo nekufambira mberi kune imwe nzvimbo inopera, uye vanotanga kupinda nekusina kukodzera kubata vakadzi.
Masayendisiti anopa mazano vakadzi kuti vadzidze kubata. Haubvumirwi kupfeka kofi kune vatauri vekutaurirana, kwete kuti vataurire pachena pachena pfungwa dzevarume zvakakwana, kudzidza kushanda nekutsamwisa kwehasha uye kuedza kuuraya. Kakawanda, mukadzi anofanira kudzidza chimiro chechidiki chevarume kuitira kuti abudirire mune bhizinesi uye anonzwa ikoko nemurume ane tsoka yakaenzana.
Equity kumba
Kana iwe wakanyatsonzwisisa unyanzvi hwekuita mune zvebhizimisi, izvo zvinokubvumira kuti uwane zviyero zvakaenzana mubasa, kwete mumashoko, zvakanaka. Ingozvikanganwa pamusoro pavo kamwe chete. Kuti tiite izvi, regai tione kuti hukama huri pakati pemurume nemukadzi huri mumhuri.
Simba rine simba, kukwanisa kuwana munhu kuzviita kofi mumhuri hazvisi zvakakodzera. Ukama huri pano ndiko kukwanisa kubvumirana pamusoro paani ari munyaya ipi uye kukwanisa kuchinja basa kwenguva pfupi muutungamiri munharaunda yavo. Ngatitii murume anotungamirira munhau dzekuwana, uye mudzimai wake anomupfuura mune nyaya dzekugovera mari. Murume anoita zvisarudzo zvinokosha pakutenga zvigadzirwa zvemagetsi: motokari, makombiyuta, midziyo yemumba. Mudzimai anotungamirira nzira mukusarudza zvokudya uye zvipfeko. Murume anotonga munyaya dzekugadzirisa nekugadzirisa chimwe chinhu chakaputsika, uye mudzimai ndiye mubati mune nyaya dzekukohwa. Kana kamwe kamwe mumwe wevakaroorana aida kuzivisa nokukurumidzira kana kubhururuka pane rwendo rwebhizimisi, wechipiri anochengetedza mabasa epamba. Kana pane dambudziko uye murume akarasikirwa nemukana wekuwana mari, mudzimai anotora chiito uye kwekanguva, paanenge achitsvaka basa idzva, rine mhuri. Murume anogona kumudzosa kumba kumba kana ane nguva yekutambudzika kana yebhizimisi rwendo. Panguva imwe chete, hapana mumwe munhu anorayira kana kuedza kuita zvisarudzo zvinokosha kune mumwe.
Kuenzana kwevakaroorana hazvirevi kuti mukadzi anofanira kutora nyundo pane chero chiitiko chipi zvacho chingaitika, uye murume wake - kumira kwemaawa pachitofu muedza yekubika kudya. Zvinoreva kubvuma nokuzvidira kwemamwe emitoro, kwete "kungofanana nevakadzi" kana kuti "chimiro chavo", asiwo mabasa eumwe wepabonde. Izvi kugamuchirwa kwemabasa kunofanira kukurukurwa zvakajeka mumhuri kuitira kuti pave kusina kunaka muhukama.
Migumisiro yekutaurirana kwakaenzana pakati pevarume nevakadzi
Migumisiro yekuenzana pakati pevarume nevakadzi yakasiyana. Munyika umo vakadzi vakagadzirisa mikana yakawanda yehutano, kuberekwa kwekuberekwa kwakaderera uye nhamba yekurambana yakawedzera, nhamba yevanhu vanogara mukuziva pachavo yakawedzerwa, uye pakave nekuputsa muhukama pakati pevamwe varumekadzi. Zvichida, chikamu ichi chikonzero nekuda kwekuti kuenzana pabasa kunoda kuchinja mumuenzaniso wemhuri weimba. Uye kuchinja uku kunoitika zvishoma nezvishoma. Chimwe chikonzero chingave kuti havasi vanhu vose vanogona kusiyanisa kusiyanana kwehukama mumhuri uye bhizinesi.
Panewo zviitiko zvakanaka zvekuwanikwa kwemukadzi kwehupenyu hutsva munzanga. Kutanga, zvakaratidzwa kuti mabhizinesi, avo vatungamiri varo mune vakadzi, zviri nyore kurarama munguva dzinotambudza. Icho chiri pamusoro pevakadzi-vatungamiri uye kukwanisa kwavo kubatanidza timu munguva dzakaoma dzehupenyu hwekambani iyo bhizinesi inoramba iri mumatambudziko uye nguva dzekuderera kwehupfumi. Chechipiri, muEurope neAmerica chikamu chepasi pose chave chiri kubudirira mumhuri yevanhu. Mhuri dzepfungwa dzepfungwa dzinogona kuratidza kuti mhuri yezvizvarwa, kana mhuri iyo kuenzana pakati pevakaroorana inokura, yechipiri mukugadzikana mushure meimba yemhuri. Mhuri chete iyo mukadzi anotonga ari pangozi uye ine mukana wakawedzerwa wekuparadzaniswa. Kuwedzera kwemuitiro wehutano, hunoenda kubva kumakore gumi kusvika gumi, kunobatsira varume nemadzimai kuti vanyatsonzwisisa maitiro ekuvaka hukama mumhuri. Uye kana mukadzi mushure mokubudirira kubasa achingofadzwa chete kuva chido chemaoko omurume wake, zvino ichi ndicho chaicho chiitiko chakanaka chokuti ave nekuwirirana mukati mehupenyu hwake uye hwemagariro evanhu.