Akadanana uye anoda kusangana nemukomana. Akangosiya zvachose zvidzidzo zvake uye ari kumhanya mumakore. Iye haateereri mazano kune ani zvake uye haadi kuti anzwisise chero chinhu. Saka, mwana wekuyaruka mwana wako achidzoka uye haafaniri kuonana - chii chaaifanira kuita? Nzira yekunyatsotarisana nechinetso ichi, usarasikirwa nekuremekedzwa nekuvimbiswa kwemusikana, usingave mutorwa kwaari, uye, zvinonyanya kukosha, haufaniri kuva nhamba yake imwe muvengi?
"Tinofanira kufunga nezvekudzidza, asi kwete kushandura rudo!", "Ndakanga ndichigadzirira chiremba yako kuchikoro chako, uye kwete kutarisa vakomana." "Hazvina kukwana kumhanya-famba pamasikati" - mazwi akadaro mumasanganiswa akasiyana-siyana uye matauriro anotaura, achitaura uye achataura nevanasikana vavo vari kuyaruka, zvichida vanaamai vose munyika. Uye vasikana vacho vanomhanyira pakavanzika kune vadikanwi vavo, uye vachamhanyira kusvika zvino, vachimanikidzira vabereki uye kunyanya, hongu, vanaamai, kuzvidya mwoyo pamusoro pavo uye kusasara usiku, vagere pahwindo kwemaawa.
Mwanasikana wevechiri kuyaruka, achiziva kuti amai vanoona kuvengana kwemisangano yake neaanoda, mavambo avo okubatanidza kuenda kuma discos nemapoka, anotanga kuchenjerera, haatauri, anotendeuka ndokureva nhema kuti arege kuzvidzora uye kuzvidza pamutengo upi zvawo. Uye sezvo watanga kunyengedza, nyore nyore anokwanisa kushandiswa kureva nhema, kunyanya pazera rakadaro.
Zvimwe zvinotyisa
Amai vanogara vachiona, ndezvechisikigo: uyu ndiwo mutemo wezvakasikwa. Vanoda kuziva kuti ukama huri pakati pemwanasikana nemukomana wake hwaenda sei. Nemhaka yei musikana ari kutsvaga chimwe chinhu pasi pekufemerwa kwake, zvino anofamba akareba kupfuura gore uye asingatauri kune ani? Pamwe vakanga vatova, zvakanaka, ndizvo here? Uye zvakadini kana musikana wacho ane pamuviri? Uye kana akamusiya, ikozvino mudiki sei! Uye kana vakasarudza kuroora, zvinongowedzera kuwedzera, nokuti kuroorana pakati pevana vaviri, mumwe angati, haazoperi kwenguva refu, ichokwadi.
Sei ungava? Ndinofanira kumudzivisa kuti asangane naye here? Asi iye zvino ari kudzokera shure, haateereri vanhu vakuru, iye mukuru, iye ari oga. Uye kamwe kamwe iye achasangana, asi bedzi, hongu, kwenguva pfupi gare gare, uye kwete iko zvino, murume akanaka uye anoda kumuroora, uye iye atozvisunga zvakare kune zvakaipa, uye musikana achapfuura nerudo rwechokwadi. Nguva yemberi, kuverenga, pasi. Hazvina maturo kutaura, pfungwa dzakadai seyi - mutoro hausi nyore. Hongu, kuva amai vemwanasikana wechiri kuyaruka hakusi nyore.
Zvakanakisisa zvese, kana musikana wacho pachake achiuya uye akagovana matambudziko ake nematambudziko munguva yakaoma newe, uye kwete nevakidzani kana musikana. Kuti zvive zvakakodzera panguva yakakodzera uye kuva pedyo kuitira kuti arege kubvumira kukanganisa kusingaenzaniswi. Asi kwete vose vane ukama hwekuvimba. Uye mumamiriro ezvinhu aya zvakakosha kuti uzvinzwisise pachako mitemo shoma inokosha.
1. Usarambidza kutaura
Zvakakosha kunzwisisa chimwe chinhu chinokosha: kupomera, kutsamwa, kubvisa, kuranga hakuna maturo, hazvizobatsiri. Iye achiri, zvisinei kuti chii, acharamba achimuona achidiwa, asi muchivande chete. Uye munyaya iyi mai vachava munhu wokupedzisira uyo musikana achaenda kune mazano kana achida.
2. Mhinduro mibvunzo
Usa "tora" mwana wako nemibvunzo. Havazoiti kuti ave akajeka uye ataure. Pane kudaro, pane zvinopesana, zvicharamba zviri pachedu zvakanyanya. Usaisa pfungwa pamusoro pokuti misangano yevanoda vaduku inoguma pamubhedha. Kunyange zvakadaro, tora nguva yekutaurira uye kuudza mwanasikana wako nezvenzira dzokuchengetedza, zvirwere zvepabonde, AIDS pamwe nemigumisiro inobatanidzwa navo.
3. Ita pamwe pasina kunyombwa uye kuenzanisa
Pasinei nenyaya, panguva yekukurukura nemwanasikana wenyu, musati: "Iwe unongova nemakore gumi nematatu (gumi namana, etc.). Rudzi rwe rudo rwei mumakore ako runogona kuvapo? "Kukurukurirana kwakadaro kwekubatsira hakuzouya uye hapana chichachinja. Mwana wako anotanga kufamba achibva kwauri zuva rega rega uye akawanda. Kwaari iye zvino mukomana wake ari chiedza muhwindo, uye iwe (unofanirwa kuzvibvuma) wakasvika kumoto unopisa. Nevabereki ava unofanira kutsungirira. Uyezve, musikana anofanira kunge ave nechokwadi chokuti kana ari chokwadi newe, hauzombofi uye usine chikonzero chokuzvidza, usava neshungu pamusoro peizvi.
4. Usaverenga zvinyorwa
Imwe nzira yakarurama ndeyekumuudza pamusoro pemanzwiro awakaona pazera rake. Mushure mezvose, upenyu hunozvidzokorora pachavo, chete humwe humwe humwe hunochinja. Ndiko, izvo zvawaifunga zvaiva dambudziko uye kunyange kuguma kwenyika mukuyaruka, ikozvino kunokonzera kumwe kunyemwerera, kushamisika kana kushamisika: ndingagona sei kupona nekuda kweizvi?
5. Usakurumidza kutaura zvaunofunga
Kumbira mwanasikana wako kukoka shamwari kumba kwako. Kana iwe uchifarira, zvakanaka, usazeza kutaura izvi. Kana usingaiti - usakurumidza kunyora unhu hwake hwausingadi. Usamuudza zvaanofanira kuita. Nzira yakanakisisa yekubuda ndeyokutaurira musikana kuti shamwari yake yakaita sei kwauri, zvakanaka, ngatiti, kwete yepamusoro, uye bvunza kana achibvumirana newe. Kana zvisina kudaro, bvuma kuti iwe unomuremekedza kodzero yake pane zvaanoona. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinomiririra kuti mushure mamashoko ako, acharamba achitarisa maonero asina kunaka nemaziso ako.
6. Remekedza unhu hwemwana
Usambofa upa musikana scandals nemifananidzo chete nokuti haufariri kuzvimirira. Zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti achiri mwana, musikana pachake haafungi kudaro. Anozviona semunhu mukuru.
7. Iva shamwari yakanzwisisa
Rega musikana wako azive kuti, kana pane dambudziko, anogona kutendeukira kune iwe kuti abatsirwe, uye iwe haugoni kumupwanya nehutukutu rwekunyunyuta se: Ndakati, akanyevera, Ndaigara ndichitya ... Asi, rega ave nechokwadi chokuti iwe uchamubatsira iyo mazano euswedera pedyo, anonyatsonzwisisa uye munhu wese ane rudo munyika. Izvi hazvizobvumiri mwanasikana wenyu kuti asunungure kune achiri kuyaruka uye kwete kutaurirana, izvo zvinoita kuti mamiriro acho asave asina kusvibiswa.