Kuzivikanwa kwevabereki vemwenga nemukomba: tsika

Mhemberero yemuchato yakagara ichitaura nezvekushanda kwemhando dzakasiyana dzezvinhu zvakagadzirirwa kuunza mufaro muhupenyu hwewanano hwevechidiki. Uye kana zviito zvakadaro pamuchato pachake pachazvo zvichigona kuva nhamba huru, zvisati zvishoma zvakakosha ndiyo tsika dzakatangira muchato. Mhemberero yemuchato inounza pamwe zvizvarwa zvakasiyana siyana, inobatanidza mhuri pamwe chete, uye kunyange kutora chikamu chechichato nekuchengetwa kwakanyanya. Uye pano pane dzimwe nguva dzinokosha dzekubatana kwezvizvarwa - kuzivikanwa kwevabereki vemukati nemwenga, uye zvinyorwa, uye pakupedzisira nguva inokosha - kuzivikanwa kwevabereki vemwenga nemwenga.

Muzviitiko zvizhinji, chisarudzo pamusoro pechato chemuchato chakatorwa nevabereki. Uye, muzviitiko zvizhinji, kwaiva kuzivikanwa kwevabereki vemwenga nemwenga kwaive kwakakosha uye kuvimba paari kana kubvumirana nemuchato kwaizonzwa. Iyi riti inonzi matchmaking uye ine tsika dzinonakidza munyika dzakasiyana.

MuRus for matchmaking zuva rakabudirira zvikuru rakasarudzwa - Pokrov, Gumiguru 14. Panguva imwecheteyo, vashandi vakaroorana pamwe chete nevabereki vavo nevamwe vehama, vachiuya kuimba yemwenga nemashizha uye majee. Zvisinei, chinangwa chaicho chekugadzirisa matambo chakanga chakajeka, uye vabereki vemwengawo vakapindurawo zvakare vachifara. Kubva mumashoko ekufara uye emagariro, mutsara unoti "une zvinhu, tine mutengesi" unochengetedzwa, mune izvi pane basa rinokosha revabereki. Dzimwe nguva zvaifanirwa kumira kaviri kana katatu, kunyanya dai mwenga aizivikanwa sekunaka, asi nefuma yakawanda. Mvumo yemuchato yakaratidzwa mumutambo wakabatana wevabereki vemativi ose maviri. Kana vabereki vomuchato vakatumira chikomba kudzorera chingwa chake chemuchato - zvaireva zvakasimba "kwete."

Uye kana muRus initiative yakabva kuvabereki vemukomba, muIndia tsika inopesana chaizvo zvakasiyana - vabereki vomuchato vakaroorana. Iyi tsika yakasara kusvikira nhasi, uye vamwe vabereki vomuchato uye muIndia yemazuva ano vanoshanyira vabereki vevakagadziri vakakodzera, vachitsanangura kunaka uye unyanzvi hwemwanasikana wavo uye hongu dowry yake. Kuzivana kwemurume nemudzimai mune ramangwana dzimwe nguva kunobva mumifananidzo.

MuChina, nhamba yakatumirwa kuvabereki vemwenga, zvichiratidza zita remukati, zuva uye nguva yekuzvarwa kwake. Zvakakosha kukosha kweHoroscope yekumabvazuva uye kukanganisa kwayo kumativi ose eChina chinzvimbo, nguva iyi yakanga yakasarudzwa. Mhuri yemwenga yakapedza njere-ichitaura pamusoro pokuti kana mukomba nemwenga vanofanana, zvichienderana nekuenzanisa kwezvinyorwa zvavo. Vaifungidzirawo kumhuri yemuwani. Neine horoscope yakanaka, kubvumirwa kwakapiwa kumuchato.

Panguva imwecheteyo, vabereki vomuchato nemukomba vakanyatsoziva zuva rekusayina chibvumirano chechichato chechichato. Nzvimbo yekusangana kwavo yaiva imba yemwenga, pamberi payo yakaiswa mifananidzo yemhuka dzinopa mufaro, uye asati apinda mumba, vanamwari vainamatwa. Paivawo nechibatanidzwa chokudya kwezvokudya, chaifanira kunwa mukombe wewaini-chiratidzo cheimba yevaduku sekombe yakazara.

Zvisinei, mune dzimwe nyika, vabereki vakanga vasingakwanisi kutungamira chisarudzo chevaduku, saka, muPolynesia, murume uyu pachake akasununguka kumusikana, achiuya kwaari panguva yekutamba muhondo yehondo.

Mushure memubvumirano we musikana, vechidiki vakataura chisarudzo chavo kuna vabereki vavo uye kana vabereki vomuchato vakanga vasingadi, vaduku vangapukunyuka. Zvinogona kuonekwa kuti hapana chikonzero chekutaurirana nevabereki vemwenga nemwenga, nokuti pakupedzisira vabereki vomuchato vanofanira kupa mvumo yavo kumuchato uye vakanamatira mureza mutsva mufananidzo wemuchena-chipo kune mwenga.

Sezvo zvinogona kuonekwa kubva mumuenzaniso, dzimwe nguva kuzivikanwa kwevabereki vemukomba uye mwenga kune chikonzero chemuchato saizvozvo. Uye kunyange zvazvo tsika dzakawanda zvino dzave dzakanganwika, uye kuzivikanwa kwevabereki nhasi kunowanzova maitiro, zvichiri kukosha chaizvo kuziva zvakazara baba vomukomana nemukarahwa, pamwe naamai vomudzimai navamwene vamwene.