Chero kukanganisa kuno munharaunda iyi kunotungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipa. Munguva pfupi, izvi zvinokanganisa kukwidziridzwa kwemwana, nekuti mwana anorega kuteerera mazano emubereki uye achiita kwavari. Saka iyo nzira yekuchengetedza kwepfungwa kubva pakuwedzerwa kwakanyanya muzvimbo yega yega inoshanda. Munguva yakareba, rudzi urwu rweukama hunogona kukonzera kuparadzana kunoramba kuripo, izvo zviri pachena kuratidzwa mumakore ekuchinja.
Kune zvakakosha zvikuru mupfungwa dzehupenyu hwekurerwa kwevana mumhuri, hongu, ndeyekugadzirisa unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana. Icho chiri mumhuri iyo mwana anodzidza kutaura, anodzidza matanho ekutendeuka kwete avo kana mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, anodzidza kuyanana nevese vari pedyo uye vari kure. Panguva imwecheteyo, vana vanozviedza pachavo mabasa akasiyana-siyana emunharaunda: mwana wechidiki wemhuri, mwana akwegura maererano nehanzvadzi duku kana hama, nhengo yeboka rinokosha revanhu (ivai sevana pamwe chete muchikoro chechikoro kana chikoro chechikoro), nezvimwewo.
Ngationei kuti mumhuri dzakasiyana izvi izvi zvinopfurikidza zvakasiyana. Mikana mikuru yekusimudzirwa inogamuchirwa, isingazivikanwi sezvainogona kunzwika kune munhu wemazuva ano, vana mumhuri huru. Iyo michina-yevanhu, iyo mhuri imwe neimwe, chaizvoizvo inogona kunge yakagadziriswa chete nemuenzaniso wemhuri ine vaviri kana vatatu kana kupfuura vana. Pano, mararamiro emagariro evanhu ayo vana vanozadzisa mune imwe kana imwe mamiriro ezvinhu akawedzerwa. Mukuwedzera, kushamwaridzana kukurukurirana mumhuri dzakadai kunopfumisa uye kunowedzera kupfuura kupfuura mumhuri ine mwana mumwe chete, somuenzaniso. Vana vaduku semugumisiro vanowana mikana yakawanda yekukura kwevanhu pachavo nekuvandudzwa kweunhu hwavo hwakasiyana-siyana.
Chinyorwa chezvakaitika kare chinoratidza chete izvi zvakataurwa nevanoongorora. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti mukuru wemakemikari D.I. Mendeleev akanga ari mwana wechigumi nemanomwe mumhuri, vana vechitatu vaiva vakurumbira vakadaro vekare, saive nhetembo AA. Akhmatova, nyika yekutanga cosmonaut Yu.A. Gagarin, munyori weChirungu uye nyanzvi yemasvomhu Lewis Carroll, vezvinyorwa zvemaRussia mabhuku A.P. Chekhov, N.I. Nekrasov nevamwe vazhinji. Zvichida kuti matarenda avo akaberekwa uye akaperedzerwa mukugadzirisa kwekurera mhuri nekukurukurirana kukuru mumhuri huru.
Zvechokwadi, pfungwa dzepfungwa dzekudzidzisa mwana mumagariro evanhu uye mhuri shoma dzakanaka dzine maitiro avo pachavo. Semuenzaniso, kana kune dzimwe nguva kukakavadzana pakati pevabereki mumhuri, kana kana vabereki vakarambana, mwana ari mumamiriro ezvinhu ekurwadziwa mupfungwa mupfungwa. Somugumisiro, chirongwa chinowanzoitika chokurera chiri kuputswa. Uye tinofunga pano imhuri dzakachengeteka mumhuri. Asi kune huwandu hwemhuri umo vabereki vari vanhu vanonwa, uye havatauri vana vavo mienzaniso yakanaka yehutano hwevanhu pasinei!
Nhamba huru yekurambana nhasi inotikurudzira kutaura nezvedambudziko iri. Mushure mezvose, semugumisiro, kuvimbika kwechipatara chemhuri kunoputsika, uye nzira yekudzidzira kweimwe nguva, chaizvoizvo, inoparadzaniswa. Uye mushure mokunge vadzikinura kubva mumatambudziko, mwana wacho anotendeuka kuva mune zvakasiyana zvachose mupfungwa mupfuura kupfuura. Uye iye anofanirwa kuchinjwa kune mamiriro ezvinhu akachinjwa.
Kuberekwa kwemwana mumhuri isina kukwana kunomanikidzwa nokushayiwa simba kwezvakatipoteredza. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vana havaoni muenzaniso wemafambiro evanhu (uye mhuri idzi dzinowanzogara pasina vanababa, inowanzoitika apo vana vasati vakwererwa naamai, asi nababa). Dzidzo mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro inofanirwa kuve nehanya nehutano hwepfungwa. Kuti ave neunhu hwakakwana, amai vari mumhuri yakadaro vanofanira, kune rumwe rutivi, vachengetedze huri hwemhando dzepanyama, kuzadzisa mitambo yemagariro evanhu amai namakadzikadzi. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, anosungirwa pane dzimwe nguva kuti aratidze hukama hwechokwadi hwemunhu hwehutano uye kutsamwa. Mushure mezvose, vana muhupenyu chaihwo vanofanira kusangana mudzimba dzavo pamwe chete, uye nemumwe muenzaniso wehupenyu hwezuva nezuva.
Mamwe mikana yakawanda yehutano hwakakwana hwevana mumhuri isina kukwana inopa kuvapo kwemaitiro akanaka ehutano hwemurume kubva kune hama dzepedyo neshamwari dzemhuri yemurume. Sekuru, somuenzaniso, vanogona kutora chikamu chekusavapo baba, kubata nevana, kutamba navo, kuita mitambo, kutaura nezvakadaro.
Zvakanaka, kana kurera kwevana mumhuri kuchave kwakabatana nekushandira pamwe nekuvimba. Isu tinowanzokanganwa kuti mwana wese kubva pakuberekwa anogadzirirwa kubatana kwakakwana nevanhu vakuru. Nokuda kwekunyarara kwemazuva mashoma, nyore, kunyarara, tinowanzokomberedza pfungwa dzevana kuti vataure, kubatanidza basa. Tinofanira here kushamiswa kuti dzidzo yedu yakadzika yekunze haina kupa zviitiko zvinotarisirwa? Asi usakanganwa kuti kusangana nemwana hakumboiti nguva yekudzorera. Zvimwe panguva dzakasiyana zvinoda miitiro yakasiyana. Ukama hwakakwana hukama huri mumhuri (uye chete ivo!) Ichaita nzvimbo yakasimba yekutaurirana kwakanaka. Uye zvino zvigumisiro hazvizoperi!