Pane imwe nguva mutemo weRoma, kuroorana kwaibatwa sechinhu chakaita basa rekubatana apo murume nemukadzi vakabatana. Munyika yemazuva ano, tsika iyi yakagara nhaka mukunzwisisa kwakasara kwe "kutarisira hupfumi huripo", asi zvakare kuwedzererwa nezvimwe zvinoreva - kurerwa kwevana, mutoro wevabereki uye mutoro pamwe.
Kubva panguva yakare kare, hapana chimwe chiitiko chaipembererwa zvakanakisisa uye zvakanyatsonaka, chakanga chisingaperekwi nenhamba huru yenziyo, mhemberero uye kuratidzika sezororo rekuroorana - muchato. Vazhinji vakadzi vanotenda kuti kuroorana chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu hwavo.
Kuroorana nekuda kwe rudo munyika yanhasi iri kutarisana nemiedzo yakawanda, nokuti mhuri idyll haisi manna yekudenga. Inofanira kuwanikwa, inofanira kusikwa. Uye chii chinotonyanya kuoma kuponesa. Upenyu hwemhuri ibasa kana murume nomudzimai vachizviisa vavariro yakaoma - kurarama mumuchato rudo. Haisi basa rimwe chete pachitofu kana mubindu rine foshoro, asi basa rekuziva mumwe munhu mukati mako-kubvuma kukanganisa kwayo uye kukurudzira kushivirira mukati mawe. Ndiyo basa risina basa uye rezuva nezuva remweya, kuratidzwa kweawa imwechete kwekunzwisisa, kusateerera uye kunakidza.
Basa pamusoro pekusikwa kwewanano, kuroorana nekuda kwerudo - ndeyechokwadi uye hazvizivikanwi, hapana uye haikwanise kuva mapurogiramu asina kukodzera. Iko kusingabatanidzi urema hwepfungwa nehupfungwa, kusazvidzora, kusawirirana kune zviito zveumwe. Uye hazvirevi mazuva kubva kune, zororo kana mazororo.
Zvakaoma here? Zvechokwadi. Imba yerudo munyika yanhasi inogara ichipa mubayiro. Inzvimbo yakanaka, ukama hunofadza, hune hukama, kana pasina mibvunzo yakawanda kune ani zvake kuti atorezve tsvina zvakare, enda kuchikoro chechikoro chemwana kana kumusangano wemubereki., Paunoziva-pedo newe uri vanhu vane pfungwa, pedyo uye vanodikanwa. Mune nguva yakaoma, iwe unogona kuvimba, iyo iwe unogona kuzarura mweya wako usingatyi, uchiziva kuti haugone kubuda uye kuva wehupfumi hweumwe munhu. Uye chete nematanho ari mumugwagwa uye nekushandura kiyi mumutsara wekunzwisisa iwe-mune manzwiro api. Izvozvo chete zvino zvichave zvichibvira kuchengetedza manzwiro akaberekwa panguva yekukwikwidzana uye kuatakura kusvikira kumagumo kuburikidza nematambudziko nematambudziko. Ndizvo chete zvino zvichave zvichigoneka kukurira nharo.
Uye kukakavara nguva dzose kunoperekedza hupenyu hwemhuri, kunyange kana pane rudo muwanano. Nokuti vanhu vakasiyana vanobatana muwanano. Dzimwe nguva nedzidzo dzakasiyana uye dzidzo dzakasiyana. Iyi misiyano uye inofananidza kubuda kwemakakatanwa nemamiriro ezvinhu, kunyange pakati pomurume nemudzimai ane rudo. Chimwe chikonzero chekukakavadzana ndechokuratidzira kwekunyanyisa tsika, maitiro, zvinhu, zvepanyama zvinoda kumumwe wake - "mudzimai akanaka", "murume akanaka". Rudo rwevechidiki rune nguva dzose, nguva dzose uye rwevanhu vose, rakagadzira zvikanganiso zvisina kururama. Uye kubva panguva yekuroorana, pane dzimwe nguva yakagumburwa semhemberero yakasikwa nemaoko ega.
Nyika yemazuva ano inomanikidza munhu wese nemurume nemudzimai kuti vasvike segorokisi mune gumbo. Kune vakawanda, chigumbuso ndechekunyanya basa, kusakosha kwemusha uye kushanya kwemabhizimisi asingagumi. Nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kune pfungwa yekurasikirwa nemudiwa, iyo inogona kukura kuva kusanzwisisana. Vose vari kurarama iye zvino mukushushikana, nekunzwa kupera, pamagumo ekudengenyeka kwekutya. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, chero chinhu chiduku chingava gorosi yekupedzisira muhukama uye kuputira muchato kubva mukati. Nokudaro, nguva yose yekuziva pazvinenge zvakakodzera kumira, tarisa zvakapoteredza uye usasarudze chisarudzo: chinhu chikuru muhupenyu hutsva hahuzi hutsika hunouya uye hunoenda. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti musha uye mhuri.