- Zvepabonde revolution. Vanhu vakanga vasingachadi kuroorwa kuitira kuti varare pabonde.
- Emancipation. Varwi vekuenzana kwepabonde vakarwisa mararamiro edzimba, vachizvidza mhosva yekuchenesa tsika uye chinzvimbo chinonyadzisa chemudzimai aifanira kuve nemurume wake.
- Zvikonzero zvezvemari. Vakashandisa simba ravo pahukama hwevanhu kare, ivo vachiri nhasi. Vanhu havasi kukurumidza kupinda muhurumende yepamutemo nekuda kwechirwere chehupenyu - kusakosha kweimba, kugadzikana mari. Somugumisiro, nhamba yehurumende dzehurumende dziri kukura senzira isingagoni kutarisirwa yekugadzirisa.
Vakawanda nokuda
Vanhu vanofarira kugara mumhuri yevanhu, nokuti:
- vanongoda kugara pamwe chete uye kudanana, kwete kufunga nezvehurefu hukama huno huchaguma.
- unoda kutaura nenzira yakakodzera kusikwa kwemhuri: kutanga edza kurarama pamwe chete uye kunzwisisa kuti zvakakodzera kune mumwe nemumwe, uye kana zvikadaro, zvatove uye usayine.
- Kuroorana kwevanhu vomunharaunda hakubvi pamagariro evanhu ezvenguva yekuvakwa kweimba, vakaroorana pachavo vanoita hukama hwakanaka kwavari.
- mumhirizhonga yehurumende, mumwe nomumwe wevatori vechikamu anozviona semunhu akasununguka, uye kwete nzvimbo yeumwe mukadzi.
- tendai kuti nechitarisiko chetampampuri mupasipoti, rudo uye zvepabonde zvinosiya hukama.
- vanoda kudzivisa hurumende, pamwe chete nekugona kunyoresa mitemo yekurambana.
- vanotya kukanganisa mukusarudza mumwe wako uye havazoiti kuisa muchinjikwa pane urongwa hunofadza hwehupenyu hwavo hwega, vachizvisiyira pachavo rusununguko rwekusununguka.
Vanhu vazhinji havabvumiri maitiro aya ehukama, nokuti:
- apo vana vanozvarwa, matambudziko angamuka: mumwe anofanira kutora mwana wake.
- rusununguko rwepabonde rwekuita zvepabonde hukukuvadza uye ruchaita kuti zvisizvo zviitise kukunyengera.
- kana "kupambwa" pamwe chete nehukama hwehukama, zvino mushure mokunge vaita mutemo imba yavo ichaputsika, isingagoni kumira zvakasiyana.
- pamuchato wakadaro kune manzwiro ekugadzikana kwepfungwa, kufara kwechinzvimbo, uyewo matambudziko emhando "kana asingandiiti ini, zvinoreva, ini handina kukodzera"
- Kutyisa kwekutaura kwevanhu, kusarura.
- iyi maitiro ehukama haiwanzosimudzira kukura kwebasa nguva dzose.
- pa "kurambana" vacharamba vasina chikamu chepamutemo chechinyorwa chinowanikwa pamwe chete.
- kazhinji muvambi weukama hwakadaro murume, uye mukadzi anononoka anoteerera uye izvi zvinomutambudza zvikuru.
- vakadzi vakawanda vanoda kuisa muupenyu hwavo nguva dzinofadza zvikuru: motokari yemuchato, nguo yakachena ine chidzitiro ...
Muchirevo che "kuroorana kwevanhu", mienzaniso yakasiyana-siyana yekubatana kwevarume nevakadzi vanobatana. Pane chinhu chimwechete chinovabatanidza: kusavapo kwekuregererwa kwepamutemo.
- Kuroorana nerudo. Zvinenge zvakafanana nehutano hwepamutemo: murume nemukadzi vanozviti varume nemudzimai uye vanorarama murudo nekubatana, vanogona kuva nevana, asi hukama hwechimwe chikonzero hahugadziri.
- Vhura muchato. Mariri, mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana pachake anotora mari yake, ane kodzero yekutanga pachena vanhu vanoda (zvisinei, kusiyana kwakadaro kunowanikwawo mumhuri dzevanhu).
- Trial marriage. Ichi chimiro chevanhu vasina ruzivo uye vachiri mari vasina kubudirira, kureva, kune vechidiki vane chido chekuita zvepabonde nguva dzose uye chido chekuwana ruzivo rwekugara pamwechete pamwe chete nekusimbiswa kwemhuri kwechokwadi.
- Kuroora kwenguva. Kumadokero, izvi zvinonzi "kuva nemukomana." Ukama hwakadaro haukwanisi chero chinhu chipi zvacho chakakosha, iyo inzira yekuronga kwekanguva hupenyu hwehupenyu - panguva yekudzidza, mazendo ebhizimisi.
- Economical marriage. Iri chirongwa rinoshandiswa nevanhu vakambove vakapisa pakuparadzaniswa kwepfuma munguva yekurambana uye zvino havadi kunyoresa ukama, vachitya "kuwana mari."
Kubudirira kwakadini kuroorana kwevanhu kunobva kune rudzi rwehukama huripo pakati pevanhu uye nekuda kwechikonzero nei vasinganyori kubatana kwavo. Kana vane hukama hwakanaka uye hwekuvimba uye vakasarudza kurarama mumhirizhonga pamwe chete, saka sei? Mumhuri yakadaro, vashandi vanonzwisisa kuti mufaro wavo haubvi pane imwe chikwata. Uye kana sangano rinomira muedzo wenguva, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare (kazhinji pakuberekwa kwomwana) imba inyoreswa.
Kuumba ukama kana kwete kwete ibhizimusi rako pachako. Kana mamiriro ehurumendekadzi akakubatira iwe uye iwe unofara mumuchato, saka maonero evamwe vanhu vanofunga kuti hazvina kururama kurarama saizvozvi, iwe haufaniri hako kufunganya.Kana kusavapo kwechitema mupasipoti yako kunokutambudza, zvino tanga kuedza kunzwisisa chikonzero cheizvi. Iwe unonzwa kuti iwe hausi mudzimai chaiye, asi shamwari yakasununguka, anoda kuva nomwana, asi anotya kuti izvi zvichagumisa ukama hwako uye iwe uchava amai vasina kuroorwa? Edzai kuchinja mamiriro acho ezvinhu: kurukurai izvi zvose nemurume wenyu, muchiedza kuva neuchenjeri sezvinobvira uye kwete kumumanikidzira (yeuka: varume havatsvaki kutungamira pasi pe korona). Kana iwe uchitaura nezvemashoko ehama neshamwari, zvino shandura mafungiro ako: rega kufunga kuti chikwata chechato chichaita kuti uve nerunyararo uye mufaro - hazvisi izvozvo.
Mubvunzo wevakadzi: kushandurwa kwezvirevo.
Vashomanana vakadzi vachauya nepfungwa yekuita munhu. Uye haaiti kuti atore izvi zvisizvo. Nheyo ye "danho rokutanga" ichiri nani kutarisa. Iwe usati watanga kugara pamwe chete (kunyange mumhirizhonga yevanhu), zviri nani kumirira kupiwa kwechibva kune murume. Zvakanaka, murume anofanira kupa mukadzi kuti awanikwe naye, uye iye, kana aratidza uchenjeri, anogona kupa kupa kutanga kuedza kugara pamwe chete. Kana mumwe munhu akati haadi kutora iwe, asi aizoronga kugara newe kwechinguva, funga: zvichida zviri nani kuramba? Usafunga kuti achazombochinja maonero ake kwauri.
Mubvunzo wevana: chinhu chikuru ndechokuda.
Vamwe vanodavira kuti kuroorana kwevanhu vomunharaunda kunogona kukanganisa vana. Kunongonyanya kuipa hukama (izvo zvisiri zvisingawanzi mumhuri dzakawanda) zvinogona kuisa pfungwa pamagariro evana. Dzimwe nguva vana havazivi kunyange kuti amai nababa havana kuvezwa. Pakati pemhuri dzakanaka, apo vana vanonzwa vakasununguka uye vanowana ruzivo rwakanaka hwehupenyu hwemhuri, chikwata chikuru chemhuri dzevanhu.
Mhosva yepamutemo: hatizivi kodzero dzedu
Kubatana kwemurume nemudzimai kunofanirwa kufambidzana nehurumende kana vaviri vacho vachigara pamwechete uye vachitungamirira imba imwe chete kwemwedzi. Ukaroorana hwevamwe vanhu vane simba rezvemitemo rechokwadi. Asi kuti aratidze hutano hwepamutemo hwevakaroorana, zvakakosha kunyora uchapupu hwevavakidzani nevanozivana: vanofanirwa kusimbisa kuti vaviri vacho vakatungamirira purazi rekubatana. Vakaroorana vehurumende vane kodzero dzakafanana sevakaroorana vanokodzera: kodzero yefa, kugamuchira hafu yeimba inowanikwa pamwe chete, nezvimwewo.
Digest
Kuongorora vanhu vanopfuura 4 000, masayendisiti masayendisiti akaratidza kuti pfungwa dze "mufaro" uye kuroorana kwepfungwa dzepabonde hazvigoni. Maererano nekufananidza kwavo, nenguva, mhuri yekodzero inofanira kuchinjwa neye inonzi yakasangana nemurume mumwe chete, kana murume, asina kuroora, anogara pakutanga nemumwe mukadzi, uye kune imwe, chechitatu, nezvimwewo.
Maererano nehuwandu, 18% yevakadzi vokuRussia vanofunga kuti kuroorana kwepamutemo hakusi kudiwa - "zvingava zvakanaka kuva pedyo", 27% vanoona kuti kuroorana kunoramba kuchipa mukadzi chivimbo, uye 29% vanogutsikana kuti kuroorana inongodiwa chete kuti dzidzo yose yakakwana yevana.
Maererano nehuwandu hwekuverenga, hwemamiriyoni 34 evanhu vakaroorana, mamiriyoni matatu vakaroora. Kuvapo kwechitima mupasipoti kunoita 69% yevakadzi vanofara. Uye pakati pevakadzi vanogara muwanano yevanhu, 40% chete vanofunga kuti vanofara.