Kugadzirisa matambudziko ose epfungwa - mukati mako


Munhu wose kamwechete kamwe muhupenyu hwake ainzwa kuti hupenyu uhwu hwave husina maturo ose. Akamira pamucheto wegomba risina chigadziko uye ava kuda kuwira mugomba risina chigadziko. Yakarohwa - kusina nguva yokudarika kutendeuka kwakaipisisa. Uye hazvina mhosva kuti zvikonzero zvaiva zvipi. Chinhu chinokosha ndechokuti haufaniri kuva nenguva yekuita danho rekupedzisira rakagadzikana uye kwete kunyatsowira mune mugomba rakadzikadzika. Mune chimwe chinhu, kunyange mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma kwazvo, pane nzira yekubuda nayo. Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokuora mwoyo uye kuedza kutarisa nyika nekutarisira. Yeuka: mhinduro yezvinetso zvose zvepfungwa iri mukati mako.

Nyika iri kuwira muzvidimbu zvidiki kwete kuburikidza nezviitiko, zvisingafadzi mamiriro uye matambudziko. Dzimwe nguva tinopedza basa isu pachedu. Isu tinoparadza izvo zvisina kuparadzwa nematambudziko nematambudziko akawira pamusoro pedu. Isu isu tinoputsa zviduku zviduku mumatombo maduku mukutarisira kuti matambudziko edu achaparara navo. Asi izvi hazvisi izvo! Tiri kungoparadza upenyu hwedu pachedu. Hatina hanya kuti nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, kubva mune guruva iri rose uye murwi mukuru wezvimedu zviduku zvakapararira zvakarongeka mumvura yakashata, tinoda kuunganidza pamwe chete chii chaive.

Munguva yekumira-zvichida iyi ndiyo basa guru kune avo vanorasikirwa nehanya muupenyu. Hazvisi nyore here? Hungu, hazvisi nyore. Asi nyika yakarongeka mune imwe nzira yemashiripiti zvokuti hakuna munhu anopiwa mamwe matambudziko, matambudziko uye kutambudzika kudarika zvaanogona kutakura. Uye kunzwisisa kweizvi kunouya chete kana zvinhu zvose zvatova kumashure. Apo mikana yakawanda inorasika uye yakarasika munguva isina chinhu. Zvechokwadi, munguva yakaoma, kana munhu akagumburwa kutya uye kuora mwoyo, hazvisi nyore kunzwisisa kuti zvose izvi manzwiro nemanzwiro achauya munguva pfupi kana kuti gare gare kupinda mukunze. Asi, kuva nechikamu chiduku chekutarisira kwevanhu, munhu anokwanisa kutarisana nematambudziko pachavo - asi newewe. Usakanganwa nezvekutarisira - nzira yekugadzirisa zvinetso zvepfungwa.

Kufungidzira ihwo hutsika husati hwagara nhaka. Haana kupinda muhupenyu hwezuva rekuzvarwa. Kufungidzira ihu hunodiwa hunofanira kukurudzirwa iwe pachako. Zvichida, pane imwe nzvimbo pano inotora basa rekuzvipira-kuzvipira. Asi kana munhu akatarisana nemigumisiro yebhizimusi chero ripi zvaro, saka kunyange chikonzero chakaipa hachiiti kuti awedzere kuora mwoyo. Kufungidzira pane kunodzidzisa kuti zvinhu zvose zvisati zvaitwa zvinongowanikwa chete. Nokudaro, kunyange mumamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa, munhu ane ruzivo urwu achakwanisa kuona nzira yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu.

Kana usingambove nematambudziko, hauzombozivi kuti iwe unofara sei chaizvo. Kana ivhu risati rasiya tsoka dzako, hauzombozivi kuti wakamira sei pamakumbo ako. Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika pasina kupesana nemamwe matambudziko, munhu haazombozivi zvaanogona. Zvakafanana muhuduku, vabereki pavanounza mwana kuchikoro chikoro, uye vadzidzisi vanozarura chipo chaiyo chemimhanzi mairi. Asi kana vabereki vasina kutora mbudzana neruoko ndokumuuratidza nyika iyi yemashiripiti yemimhanzi, ipapo nyika yose inogona kurasikirwa neimwe nyanzvi. Mwana haazombozivi zvaanogona.

Pasina mubvunzo, zviri nani kuti muupenyu huno zvinhu zvose zvinoitika nenzira iyi - zvinyararire uye nenzira ine mutsa. Asi zvaizova magetsi chaiwo. Nokudaro, kune vanhu vazhinji vanogona kuzarura bedzi apo hupenyu hunovatungamirira mumusungo wekutya, kutsamwa, kuora mwoyo, kurwadziwa. Kunyange zvishamiso zvedu zvakarara mumusoro yedu nemoyo zvinoratidzwa kwatiri mune dzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu.

Kana iwe usati wasvika kumucheto wegomba risina chigadziko, haugoni kuziva uyo anogara pedyo naye uye ndiani shamwari yechokwadi. Zvichida, ichokwadi shamwari dzisingabvumiri munhu kutora danho rekupedzisira mugomba risina chigadziko. Murume akazviwana ari mumamiriro asina kunaka. Apo nyika yake yakatanga kutaridzika se rima rima, dzimwe nguva hazvidi kudikanwa mazano. Kwete rubatsiro rwepanyama - asi kungoteerera. Zvechokwadi, zvinonakidza zvikuru kana iwe uchigovera kukunda kwako uye mufaro. Asi kudzidza kudzidza pamusoro pezvinetso, kuora mwoyo kunonyanya kukosha. Zvichida rimwe zuva iwe uchange uri iwe chete tsvimbo yekudzivirira inobvumira mumwe munhu kuti arege kugumburwa. Uye nguva ichapfuura, uye mumwe munhu achanyatsomesa ruoko rwako kuitira kuti urege kuwira mugomba risina chigadziko pamwe chete nekuparadzwa kwako. Icho chinhu chekugadzirisa pamwe chete, apo vanhu vanowedzera rubatsirane kune mumwe nemumwe. Uye saka dzimwe nguva tinonamatira kuhupenyu huno nekuda neshamwari, vanhu vepedyo, hama. Uye dzimwe nguva nekuda kwevanhu avo vatisingafungi kuti vanokwanisa kuteerera nekubatsira. Mamiriro akasiyana - vanhu vakasiyana. Uye kwose kwose nyika ino inopera, mumaonero evanhu vakawanda, mumwe nomumwe wedu anokwanisa kuva shamwari isina udyire uye yechokwadi. Kwete nokuti tinotarisira kuwana rubatsiro rumwechete rimwe zuva. Uye nokuti hatidi kutadza kurasikirwa nokutenda kuvanhu uye isu pachedu.

Pane mumwe mubatsiri mukuru-ino nguva. Nguva inoporesa zvose. Mumwe munhu anoda nguva yakawanda, zvimwe zvishoma. Asi mune chero zvipi zvayo, nenguva nenguva maronda ose anonyangarika. Inguva iyo inotipa kunzwisisa kuti matambudziko edu ese ave imwe imwe nzvimbo muhupenyu, panguva iyo takakwanisa kudzidza chimwe chinhu. Iva nemwoyo murefu kana wakasimba. Zvinotarisirwa kana kuti zvakasimba kune ivo pachavo. Unhu kana hunyoro, uine chivimbo kana unyanzvi. Nguva inopfuura, uye tinotanga kunzwisisa kuti vakawana ruzivo rwakakosha, hutsva hutsva uye vakatanga kutarisa nyika dzakapoteredza zvakasiyana. Zvichida nokuti rimwe zuva vakatarisa mugomba rakadzikadzika rekuora mwoyo? Nguva imwe chete, kutarisa kumwe chete - uye kuchatiendesa nguva yakareba kuti tikanganwe zvatakaona pane pasi payo gomba rakadzikadzika iri. Asi chiyeuchidzo chevanhu chiine unhu hwakasiyana-siyana - kazhinji munhu haayeuki nguva dzisina kunaka dzehupenyu hwake. Zvichida zvinogona kuenzaniswa nechokuti mukadzi anenge asingadi kuyeuka kurwadziwa kwaanonzwa panguva yekuzvarwa kwomwana. Ndiko kuti, anoziva nechokwadi kuti zvakanyanya kurwadza. Asi haakanganwi kuti zvaive sei. Saka tinogona kuyeuka kuti dai tainge takashungurudzika nekutya. Asi isu hatiyeuke manzwiro edu. Sezvo kana chimwe chinhu chekuchengetedza basa chinoshanda mumurangariro wedu, kuitira kuti kutyisa kwakapfuura kunotitambudza kwehupenyu hwedu hwose. Saka nguva ishamwari yakanaka.

Sezvimwe zvevakadzi vanozivikanwa zvikuru uye vanodiwa kwazvo heroines vakataura pamagumo emanzwi pamusoro penyonganyonga, rudo uye kutsvaga mufaro mufaro Scarlett O'Hara "Ndichafunga nezvazvo mangwana." Usati watora danho rekupedzisira mugomba risina chigadziko, inwa kirasi yewainayo waini. Taura neshamwari yako yepamusoro, tarisa bhidhiyo yakanaka uye ucheme mumutsago. Zvichida, kumuka mangwanani, iwe uchanzwisisa kuti mangwana yako inokuudza imwe sarudzo yedambudziko racho? Uye mangwana kunogona kuva nehuwandu hwaunoda. Zvakanyatsodikanwa sezvaunoda kuti uende kubva pamucheto wegomba risina chigadziko mashomanana kumashure.

Hakuna munhu anoda kuda kutarisana nedambudziko rekupedzisira, kupinda munyaya dzisina kunaka, kurasikirwa nemufaro wavo pachavo. Asi nyika yakaoma zvikuru. Uye mumwe munhu anoda zvakawanda kubva munyika iyo pachayo, uye dzimwe nguva kubva kwaari, kuitira kuti arege kushungurudzika nekushaya tariro muupenyu hwake hwose. Zvechokwadi, usamira shure kwekona imwe neimwe kuti uone cat dema uye uchitya mamiriro ose anotyisa. Mushure mezvose, kushungurudzika nguva dzose hakusiwo nzira yakanakisisa kune mumwe munhu. Kuva akagadzirira dambudziko uye kugara uchivatya zvinhu zvakasiyana zvachose. Uye kwakadzika kwegomba risina chigadziko kunogonawo kusiyanisa kune wese. Zvimwe dzimwe nguva haufaniri kutotarisa mazviri, kuitira kuti usakanganiswa kana iwe usingafaniri kuona pasi. Zvakakosha kuyeuka chete kuti ani zvake munyika ino anoda mumwe munhu zvikuru. Mumwe munhu achamumirira nguva dzose, rudo uye nokutenda maari. Mumwe munhu waanofanira kumira munguva. Kana mumwe munhu anoda kumira panguva iyoyo. Hupenyu, hongu, haisi nyaya yenyaya dzepachivande uye kwete mhedhidama yakakurumbira. Ikoko, pamusiku wokupedzisira, uyo asingamupi iye danho rekupedzisira anouya kubatsiro rwe protagonist nenzira inoshamisa zvikuru. Uye kune rumwe rutivi-hatidi here kutenda munhau dzevhangeri? Uye zvichida kuti rutendo rwakadaro runogona kukunda chero mugomba rakadzikadzika, nzvimbo, nzvimbo, matambudziko uye matambudziko. Nokuti isu pachedu tiriwo nyanzvi duku. Kunyanya kune mumwe munhu anotenda nemwoyo wose matiri.