Hapana mubvunzo kuti izvi zvinodiwa.
Kunyanya kuitira kuchengetedza vana vake kunwa doro uye zvinodhaka. Pakutanga, izvi zvinonzwika zvisingazivikanwi, asi pane chaizvoizvo kuwirirana pakati pemukati wemukati wemunhu nekudhakwa. Nokudaro, masayendisiti masayendisiti, apedza kubvunzurudza vanhu vanopfuura chiuru, akawana kuti pakati pevateki vemimhanzi yekare, 1.5% chete yevanhu vakapindura "vane shamwari nehombodo". Kunyange makumi maviri nemakumi maviri emasikirwo e hip-hop uye emagetsi ekushandisa doro zvisina kufanira, zvinodhaka uye kuchinja vanoita zvepabonde, sejinga. Zvisinei, iyi haisi mukova. Kunyange wekare muChina chifilosofi Xun Tzu akanyora kuti: "Kana mimhanzi isina chinhu uye ine utsinye, vanhu vanodzingwa uye vane usimbe, vane masango uye vakakodzera kuzvidzwa." Izvo zvinogona kutaurwa nezvebhuku risina maturo, mafirimu, mitambo ... Saka, kana uchida mwana wacho ramangwana rakanaka, tanga nzira ye "acculturation" nokukurumidza!
"Murka" kana kuti "The Nutcracker"?
Zvechokwadi, tichafanira kutanga nesu pachedu. Iwe unogona kuzadza imba yacho nemabhuku ane unyanzvi, iwe pachako uchiona "Dom-2"; iwe unogona kumudzivisa mwana kuti aise mabote patafura, uye iwe unonyengedza ndiro ndiro mushure mekudya; unogona kusanganisira vana vechikoro, uye iwe pachako teerera rwiyo - iva nechokwadi: mwana haazotendi mazwi ako, asi unhu hwako. Uye zvino nyora iyo. Hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kuti vana vazhinji vevanyori, vanyori uye vaongorori vanobvuma kuti vabereki havana kunyanya "kuvamanikidza" - vaigara vachiine mabhuku akachenjera mumba, vashanyi vanofarira vakauya uye mimhanzi yakaisvonaka yakanzwika. Nenzira, pamusoro pemimhanzi. Masayendisiti akaratidza kuti ikozvino pavhiki 18-20 yekutakura mwana anokwanisa kuona mimhanzi. Kunyanya kunyorera, semuenzaniso mabasa aMoart naVivaldi. Nokudaro, kana uine zvirongwa zvekuberekera mumwe mwana, ita maari maitiro akanaka emimhanzi kunyange asati aberekwa. Zvisinei, kana iwe wakanonoka nekudzidziswa "pamuviri", zvose hazvina kurasikirwa. Ivai nevana vane mimhanzi yakasiyana-siyana - kwete nziyo dzevana bedzi, asiwo zvekare, jazz, folklore. Chinhu chinokosha ndechokuti iyo mimhanzi inokosha, kwete zvinhu zvisingabhadhari zvekutengesa, izvo zvinowedzerwa mumigwagwa yose. Nyanzvi dzinokurudzira kutanga ne jazz - zviri nyore kunzwisisa, uye chete ipapo iwe unogona kuteerera zvekare. Kumbira mwana kuti manzwiro akaita sei kana imwe mimhanzi mariri inokonzera. Basa iri rinorevei, zvisinei kuti vana vachabatwa nehope kubva pakusuruvara. Iwe hausi kutsvaga chinangwa chakavanzika mukuimba kwesikuingale - kungofarira ma magic trills. Kumwana haana kurasikirwa nechido mune mimhanzi isingawanzoiti, vhura nayo kwenguva pfupi. Kutanga, maminitsi matatu kusvika mashanu achawana. Zvadaro zvichava nechido chokunzwazve zvakare. Kurudzirai mwana kuti atange mimhanzi yavo. Kuti uite izvi, unogona kutenga munyika yevana sangano rose re "orchestra", kubva pamapapu uye madhiramu uye kupedzisa ne synthesizer. Mwana wako achanyatsonakidzwa nekuedza nezwi. Nyora pasi mugari wenhaka kuimba yechikoro. Usatya kuti haazorambi akasimba mumasvomhu.
Zvisizvo zvakasiyana!
Masayendisiti eSwiss neAustria ave akaratidza kuti zvidzidzo zvemimhanzi zvinobatsira kukurumidza kudzidza dzidzo chaiyo nedzimwe nyika. Uye vatsvakurudzi veAmerica vakasvika pakugumisa kuti kutamba zviridzwa zvemimhanzi zvinobatsira vana vane makore makumi mana-mana, vachiperekera shure mukubudirira, kubata nevezera ravo mukuverenga nekuwana mumathematics.
Kubata maoko kunobvumirwa
Mwana wacho achakurumidza "kudarika" nekunaka kwakanaka uye tsika, kana ukaverenga zvakawanda. Chero kwete magazini evechiri kuyaruka, rudo runivhesiti uye mapurisa asina kutora, asi mabhuku chaiwo. Kudzidzira kuverenga chaiyo kubva pamubhedha. Regai mwana arege kungova nemakumbo chete, asiwo mabhuku anogona kugunzwa, anodzingwa uye kunyange kutorwa kunoshamba (zvino mabhuku akawanda anotengesa asingasvibisi kubva mumvura kana kuti meno akacheka evana) - mwana wako achazoshandiswa kuti mabhuku uende naye kwose kwose. Verenga zvakawanda iwe pachako. Kana murume muduku achiona amai vake nababa vane bhuku mumaoko ake, ruoko rwake ruchawedzerwawo mubhuku, kwete kubhengi newaini. Verenga mwana asati arara - haasi vana chete vanoifarira, asi vana vaduku vaduku. Kana mwana kana mwanasikana anovenga mabhuku, izvo zvisiri zvisingaoneki mumakore ekuchinja, anouya nehurongwa hwekukurudzira. Somuenzaniso, nokuda kwekuti mwana wechidiki akatanga kuverenga zvakanyanya, mumurege achifamba kweawa imwe uye agare pamakombiyuta. Vakawanda vacharamba - hazvigoneki kudzidzisa rudo rwekuverenga nenzira iyi. Hungu, pakutanga, mwana achafanirwa kukunda pachedu, asi zvichaitika zvakanyanya. Zvakakosha chete kusarudza mabhuku nezera. Saka, mwana ane makore gumi haazombozivi "Utsotsi uye Kuranga", asi "Adventures yaTom Sawyer" ichaonga. Chinhu chakanakisisa - mabhuku e-audio. Mwana anogona kuvanzwa, somuenzaniso, munzira inoenda kune kamba kana panguva yekurara. Zvishoma zvisingabvumirwi, asi kwete nenzira isiri iyo ye "acculturation" -kuenda kumitambo, maonesheni nemamyuziyamu. Kutsigira kwakange kuri kufadza, sarudza zvaaifarira chaizvo. Semuenzaniso, vana vanowanzochemera kubva mukurwadziwa mumamamziyamu, nokuti hapano chinhu chinogona kubatwa nemaoko. Kunyange zvakadaro, pane musumisira iyo mutemo uyu usingashandisi. Uye mafurati ivo pachavo akanyanyogadzirisa kudarika chinangwa chechirongwa. "Murumbidzwi akakurumbira akaberekerwa mugore rakadaro uye rakadaro, akafa mune zvakadaro uye zvakadaro, uye akagara mumba muno". Uyezve, usaedza kudarika musimusi yose pane imwe nguva, kunyanya kana yakakura. Semuenzaniso, kana iwe ukasvika pane imwe nzvimbo yekuchengetedza unyanzvi, sarudza kamuri rimwe kana kuratidza vana mimwe mifananidzo yaanoda nokuda kwechokwadi. Izvo zvinoenderana nemitambo. Enda katatu pavhiki kwekuita kwevana - kushambadza. Regai imwe neimwe kuenda kumitambo ive holide. Kana iwe uine basa rakaoma zvikuru - kuisa mwana wechidiki mumutambo wemusasa, uyo anogara achifara pamberi peTV kana kuti anotenderera mumugwagwa, pakutanga sarudza mahara emitambo. Vana vanowanzonyanya kufadzwa nekushamwaridzana uye nzvimbo inokosha inotonga ikoko. Zvakanaka, saka iwe unogona kuvatsanangurira kuzvikoro zvekare. Hazvisi pasina kuti zvinofungidzirwa kuti kugara nguva dzose kumitambo kunogona kuenzaniswa nedzidzo yepamusoro yevanhu.
Ko iwe haugoni kuva wakanaka here?
Ngatiti iwe unokwanisa kugadzirisa tambo yemwana wako, uye haichazogoni kushingairira "kuvhiringidzwa" kubva ku techno kana yekare. Asi pamusoro pemitemo yakanaka inofanira kushandiswa zvimwe. Iye zvino mabhuku mazhinji pamusoro pemhando, yakagadzirirwa chero yera, inoparidzirwa (kune muduku kuduku kune makateti umo inoudzwa maitiro ekuzvibata pamutambo, patafura, pakutakura, nezvimwewo). Vana vakwegura vanogona kupinda kuchikoro chemaitiro akanaka (zvidzidzo zvinowanzoitika pakupera kwevhiki, saka izvi hazvivhiringidzi nekwenyika kuchikoro), pavanodzidza kukwidziridzwa, kukwidziridzwa uye kuve nyore kwekukurukurirana (kwete kusanganiswa nekuziva). Zvakanaka, nheyo dzehutano iwe uchafanira kuzviisa. Murairo wekutanga ndeyekuyeuka mazita evanhu vanopindirana. Mumwe Roosevelt akati iyi ndiyo nzira yakasimba yekukunda nyasha dzevamwe. Murairo wechipiri: usakanganwa kukwazisa vamwe. Vana vatatu vane makore mana vanogona kutotsanangurira kuti ndiani anodana "iwe", uye ndiani - chete "iwe." Mwedzi mitanhatu-kutambanudza chibata pazwi rokuti "hello" uye kuifungidzira zvakanaka. Kana iwe usingaidzidzisi mwana izvo zvidzidzo zvekutendeseka pazera remakore, ipapo "pamutengo" iwe uchawana wechidiki ane shungu, achizununguka pasi pemhino dzake asingafadzi "hello" mukupindura kukwazisa kwevanozivana navo. Murairo wechitatu ndewokutora hutano muchikonzero. Mukomana anofanira kuziva kuti mumba munofanira kubvisa ngowani, kuti vasikana nevakadzi vanofanira kuenderera mberi uye kuti amai vacharamba vachionga kana iye achipa ruoko rwake paanenge achibuda bhasi kana kuti ane gonhi muchitoro (zviri nani kana izvi zvose zvinoratidzwa zuva nezuva kumwanakomana wababa , uye kwete kukweverwa munun'una mubhuku pamusoro pemaitiro). Musikana uyu anodzidziswa kubvuma kubvuma rubatsiro rwepabonde rakasimba apo, somuenzaniso, waunodzidza naye anomupa kuti atakure bhegi rinorema kana kuti abatsire kupfeka jasi. Uyezve. Iva nechokwadi chekuita kuderedza pazera. Vana kusvika kumakore matatu havagoni kudzidza chinhu chakanaka: kana nhengo dzose dzemhuri dzichiremekedzana, mwana achawana "mazwi emashiripiti" mumutauro wakaoma zvikuru weshoko pamwe chete nemukaka waamai. Anodzidza chikoro anoda mutambo, saka pane kungovhiringidza mafungiro, funga nezvenhau yemafaro yaunogona kutamba nayo mifananidzo yakasiyana, somuenzaniso, kuti iwe haugoni kudana chero munhu upi noupi, kupopota, kuputsa mamwe mazamu emamwe vanhu, nezvimwewo. Anogona kupiwa "medal" yebasa rose rekuremekedza. Mheta inogona kuva chero chinhu chinobva kune ice cream kusvika wands. Baba, kunzwisisa nyaya yacho, hapana chikonzero - vanongorasira kunze.
Nezvevira-nevira
Vabereki vakawanda vanodzidzisa vana tafura yekugadzira-machira: somuenzaniso, kuti panguva yekudya kwemanheru haugoni kutsauswa neTV kana kuti foni. Asi kunaka kunonaka nekuremekedza zvokudya, maziso, hazvirevi izvo, saka vana vanodya zvose zvavanoda: chips, imbwa dzinopisa, mafuru ... Panguva iyi, kunyange muAmerica, "vakatendeuka" pakudya zvinokurumidza, ikozvino fashion healthy healthy Uye mune dzimwe nyika dzeEuropean Union inopemberera Zuva reKutya Kwezvokudya, apo vatungamiri vezvinyorwa zvekurumbira vanogadzira zvinonaka zvezvokudya zvevana kubva pazvokudya zviri nyore. Chinangwa chechiito chacho ndechekugutsira vana kuti kudya kwemanheru kwakagadzirwa nemaoko avo kwakanyanya uye kunobatsira kupfuura sandwiches yakagadzirwa. Uye rega vana vedu vasafambidzwe nekudya zvinokurumidza uye hafu-dzakapedza zvigadzirwa, sekuMadokero, wadii kuronga Healthy Food Festival mumba mako? Mushure mezvose, ndiani, seasina amai, achaudza mwana kuti chii chakanakidzwa nemiti yakashata kubva kune yakaipa, uye kunaka kwechingwa-kubva kune yakaipa.