Mibvunzo yechitendero haisi nyore sezvatinofunga. Kunyange iye zvino, apo nyika uye chitendero, sekutenda kwezvematongerwo enyika, zvakanyatsotarisana nemunhu, kubhabhatidzwa kwevana, kana vabereki vezvitendero zvakasiyana, zvinogona kuva dambudziko guru.
Haisi ivo vakaroorana vekutenda kwakasiyana vanofarira kubhabhatidzwa, asiwo vabereki vavo. Uye munyaya yemhuri yakatendeka (kana kuti, mamiriyoni emhuri dzemhuri mbiri panguva imwechete), mhuri chaiye inopinda mukurwisana. Montagues naCapuleti wezana remakore rechi21 - ndizvo izvo kubhabhatidzwa kwevana kunoshanduka kuva vabereki vezvitendero zvakasiyana.
Munyika yanhasi seyese, kune humwe huzhinji huri rugare neruramisiro. Zvakanyanya zvokuti varume vanomanikidzwa kushanda zvakaoma pakupera kwevhiki kana kutamba mitambo yemakombiyuta kuti vasununguke dambudziko uye kushungurudzika. Mushure mezvose, hapana hondo, uyewo tsika dzakanaka munyaya yepikisano "punch muchiso". Uye zvakadaro, sechinhu chemazana emakore akapfuura, kwakasara dzidziso.
Kutenda hakusi kwekutenda kwevanhu chete. Ndizvo izvo chaizvo, kusvikira kupfuurira kwedu, vana vedu, kuchioneka. Uye panguva ino mitsipa inopikisa inosanganiswa muhondo.
Nevabereki nevamwe vehama
Semitemo, vakaroorana pachavo vanogona kugadzirisa nyaya iyi yakaoma. Asi vanyori vakuru ndivo vachava vabereki uye hama. Mushure mezvose, mubvunzo wechitendero kazhinji inhau yevamwe mhuri, mhuri nemhuri. Saka, maonero e "mhuri" ichafanirwa kuongororwa kutanga.
Zvisarudzo zvitatu zvekugadzirisa dambudziko:
- Kana mumwe wevakaroorana angava nechokwadi chokuti "mhuri" yake isinganyanyi kukosha kwekutenda, saka, zvichida, ndeyokusangana nezvidimbu zvehafu yepiri nemhuri yake.
- Kune rumwe rutivi, kana imwe chikamu chehama ichigara pamwe chete nevechidiki, uye wechipiri-mune rimwe guta, zvino kutsigira "kukakavadzana kwechitendero" ari kure zviri nyore zvikuru.
- Dzimwe nguva nheyo "iyo yekutanga yakasimuka, iyo uye sneaker" inoshanda zvakanaka. Ie. chinhu chakakosha ndechokubhapatidza mwana, uye iye achaita nenyaya iyi yakaoma pamberi pevamwe.
Nzira yekudzivisa sei nharo?
Pavanochata, vazhinji vanorota saramende yemuchato, iyo inogona kusangana nemhemberero yehurumende. Uye zvakadaro, mukupisa kwe rudo, pamakakatanwa ane hasha, maitiro ekuita mhemberero, zvichida, pamusoro pemuchato uye akanganwa.
Hazvishamisi kuti vafundisi vabvumire kune hukama hwe "kuroorana kudenga" nevamiriri vezvitendero zvakasiyana. Kazhinji kazhinji izvi zvinowanikwa mukati memakwikwi akawanda echiKristu, asi kune dzimwe, dzimwe dzisina kuroorana.
Zvakanaka, kana mumwe wevakaroorana vasati varoorana vanoshanduka kuva imwe kutenda. Zvadaro hakuna kupesana. Asi semurairo, mushure mekunge vasara vari voga mukupupura kwavo, vakaroorana vanotanga nyaya yekubhabhatidza mwana pasina. Saka, njodzi iyo yakarasika meso, ichadzoka, uye dambudziko richaonekwa mukubwinya kwayo kose. Kubhabhatidzwa kwevana, kana vabereki vezvitendero zvakasiyana, ndiko kuedza mhuri yose.
Nzira yekugadzirira mberi sei?
Asi, sekutonga, zvose hazvisi zvakaoma uye zvakaipa, kana vabereki vezvitendero zvakasiyana-siyana vanosarudza nyaya yekubhabhatidza vana pasina kukurumidza. Munyaya iyi, kana isiri mwana, asi, taura, achiri kuyaruka, zvingava zvakanaka kwaari kuti abvunze nezvemaonero ake kune chitendero, achitanga kukurukura nehurukuro shoma yekuti nei zvichikosha kuvabereki.
Zvakanaka, apo kazhinji pane mukana wekugara pasi uye kukurukura nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu zvisati zvaitika. Mushure mezvose, kazhinji kubhabhatidzwa kwevana, kana vabereki vezvitendero zvakasiyana, kunoitika zvisingatauriki.
Pakati peumwe neumwe
Kurukurai dambudziko uye nzira dzinogona kuitika yekugadzirisa kwayo zvakanakisisa mumhuri - ndiko kuti, vabereki ivo pachavo. Uye ikozvino nechisarudzo chisarudzo pamwe chete, "vakabatana mberi" kuti vaite mukurwisana kwechitendero chisarudzwa.
Izvi zvinopa:
- Chokutanga, mhuri inoratidza kuzvimiririra mukugadzirisa nyaya. Kunyange zvakanyanya zvakaoma sekubhabhatidzwa kwomwana.
- Chechipiri, sarudzo imwechete inomutsa kune kukosha kwayo kune zvizvarwa zvekare.
- Chechitatu, zviri nyore "kutora" kupindira munyaya dzomukati dzemhuri.
Mhuri yakasiyana-siyana inofa. Inowedzera, shoko rokuti "mhuri" rinoreva chete kune vakaroorana nevana vavo. Saka, dambudziko rekureurura uye kubhabhatidza hazvive nyore. Asi inofanirawo kutarisirwa nezvinyoro zvinyoro uye zvakarurama. Mushure mezvose, ikozvino mubvunzo wechitendero, kubhabhatidzwa uye chitendero kutanga uye kunyanya nyaya yekuchengetedza tsika, mazororo emhuri uye tsika. Uye kuibvarura kunze, sekunge pane chimwe chinhu chisina basa - zvinoreva, kuparadza mhuri, kuparadza nemaoko avo ezvo yakavakwa nemazera.