Ko kuzadzwa kwomukadzi kunopindira nemunhu ari panhovo?


Mubvunzo wekureruka uye kururamiswa kwahwo iye zvino unotanga kutanga pakati pevakadzi vazhinji vemazuva ano. Kufarira mudambudziko iri kunokonzerwa kwete nehutano, asi sekune kukwezva kwayo kune vakomana nevasikana. Kubva paTV inoratidzira mureza iyo yakashambadzirwa 90-60-90, zvese zvinoshandiswa zvechiFrench neItaly zvipfeko zvinosungirwa kusvika makumi matanhatu nemakumi mana emutauro weRussia. Slender, kugoverana nehupenzi, mienzaniso uye nyeredzi dzevhidhiyo - muitiro wekubudirira, kuda, kunamatwa kwevarume vakawanda. Uhu hupenyu hwakanaka hunodiwa nemunhu wese. Zvisinei, vakadzi chaivo vaduku vari kure nemafungiro atakapiwa kwatiri. Uye mubvunzo wokuti kuzadzwa kwomukadzi hakupindiri nemurume, kunoramba kuchipisa.

Kuzara kwemukadzi hakugoni kupindira nemunhu chero upi zvake. Uye ichi ichokwadi! Nhema yokuti huwandu hunorema hunoparadza ukama, hunoita kuti vakadzi vave vakasurukirwa, tinouya isu pachedu. Izvi zvinowanzotarisirwa nehutsika hwevarume pachavo. Vanosarudza vasikana vakaderera, vanoramba vachitaura nezvazvo. Ne hudyshkami kazhinji vanoziva, vane mafomu akawanda, zviri nyore kuroora. Kazhinji tinonzwa mitsara iyo varume vanoti kune avo vakasarudzwa: "Iwe wakakora," "Idya zvishoma," "Iwe uchava nemafuta, uye ini ndicharega kukuda." Zvose izvi kufungidzira zvinobereka chimiro, asi iko kuzadzikisa kwomukadzi kunopesana nemurume ari pamubhedha?

Zvakakosha kutarisisa zvakanyanya uye zvose zvichawira munzvimbo. Kana munhu, achisarudza musikana akareruka, anoramba achimuchengeta mu "mutumbi wenyama", munzira dzose inogona kudzora uremu hwake, uye pakarepo paanenge apera, anoramba kumuda. Chikonzero chepasina ndiko kuzadzwa kwemukadzi? Hazvina mhosva kuti sei! Chikonzero chaicho chakasiyana zvachose. Murume uyu haana kumboda mukadzi uyu, aida mufananidzo wakaisvonaka naye. Hongu, zvichida yakakurumbira, yakanaka mumifananidzo uye vasati vashandi vebhizimisi vane chimwe chinhu chokuzvirumbidza pamusoro, asi ichi ndicho chenguva chekunze. Ihwo hukama hwakange husina chinhu uye hunotonhora. Vanhu ava havana chavanoita kubva pakutanga. Aida kubva kwaari chete mufananidzo. Uye kurema hazvibatsiri. Uye zvakakosha here kutora nyaya yakadaro semuenzaniso wekuti kuzadzika kwomukadzi kwakadzivisa murume? Ndinofunga kuti mhinduro yacho iri pachena.

Kune rumwe rutivi, kune pfungwa yepfungwa. Zviri nyore kuti mukadzi azvipire mhosva nokuda kwekukundikana kwake, kwete iye, asi chimwe chinhu chisingaoneki. Zviri nyore kuwana chikonzero chekukanganisa kwako kwose uye kubvisa mhosva dzose kubva kwauri. Zorora, gadzikana uye usashanda nesimba. Zvichida kurwisa uremu, kwete matambudziko chaiwo. Hongu, zvinowanzoitika kuti kana uchinge uremerwa uremu, mukadzi anokura ukama nevarume. Asi, zvichida, iyo zvakare, kwete nekuda kwekuyera, asi nokuti inowedzera kuzvivimba, iyo inofarira pachedu. Kubva kumukadzi akadaro kune simba rakanaka, anoziva iye oga, anozvida iye nemuviri wake, anoziva kuti anokwezva kune akasarudzwa. Yakachinja pachayo, uye chikonzero ndechechokwadi izvi, uye kwete muhuzere hwahwo.

Mukuwedzera, havasi varume vose vane hanya nezvinhu zvakanaka zveganda. Chinhu chose chinobva pane zvinodiwa nemunhu. Yeuka mifananidzo yeKustodiev uye kunaka kwake? Asi ivo vairumbidzwa uye vanoyemura. Kana Marilyn Monroe, iye ari kure nemakore 90-60-90. Uye mazana emiti mienzaniso yakadaro inogona kutaurwa. Parizvino, kune chido chekuparadza izvozvi. Zvakawanda uye zviyero zviyero uye hukuru zvakaparidzirwa. Semuenzaniso wakajeka weizvi - munguva pfupi yapfuura, mumakwikwi "Miss England" akakundwa nemumwe musikana akazara, hukuru hwake hunofananidzwa ne 48 maererano neRussia classification. Pfungwa yokuti kuzadzwa kwomudzimai kunogona kupindira nemurume ishoko risina kushandiswa, risina kusimbiswa. Haina kodzero yekuvapo munyika yanhasi. Uye hapana mukadzi wechokwadi angambobvunza mubvunzo uyu.