Kana kamwe kamwe mudzimai wako akasiya iwe

Murume akasiyiwa anogara mumhepo kana ari munharaunda yekufara kunofadza. Zvipikisa, kupomerana kwezvivi zvose nemidziyo yekuputika chinhu chekare. Vakatendeka vako vakaunganidza zvinhu zvavo uye vakakusiya iwe zvakanaka, vachikutura musuo. Imba yacho ine maratiro ehurukuro yako yokupedzisira uye kunhuhwirira kwemafuta ayo. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mitsipa inodzikama, uye kunyanya kutsvaga kutsvaga mhinduro dzemibvunzo isingaperi inotanga: "Ndiani anokonzera mhosva?" Uye "Chii chaunofanira kuita kana kamwe-kamwe mudzimai wako akusiya iwe?" Uye zvechokwadi sei kutanga zvinhu zvose kubva pakutanga?

Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti psychology yevarume nevakadzi inowanzotaurirana zvakasiyana. Vamiririri vehutano hwakanaka muwanano vanoziva, pamusoro pezvose, kugadzikana mupfungwa. Imba yavo ndeye rudo kumudzimai nevana, ruzivo rwakanyanya mune zvemari, uye, hongu, mukana wekuvimba nefudzi rakasimba remurume. Murume anoona kuroorana senzira yekuwana nyaradzo yakawanda. Zvinonzwisisika, manzwiro emhuri aripowo, murume anoda mudzimai wake nevana, asi ... akachera shirts, tsvina dzakachena mu chiffonier, utsanana uye kurongeka, chirayiro chinofadza pashure pebasa rezuva rakaoma, imba inofadza. Yaiva chaiye, iripo uye ichava. Zvinosuruvarisa, kugona kwezvinhu izvi zviduku, zvinoita sezuva nezuva zvinowanzouya mumavhiki mashomanana - mushure mokunge mudzimai akati "kukanganwira, zorora ..." ndokusiya murume wake.

Pakutanga, kuzvikudza kwakakuvara kuchadanidzira pamusoro pezwi rake nezvikwereti zvekubhadhara nekuda kwekukuvara. Kushaya kukuru apo munhu anokwanisa kurwadziwa asingazivi kuti iye akasiyiwa. Kazhinji apo mubvunzo unowanikwa mupfungwa: "Sei iye asina ini?" Kazhinji pane, kwete, murume, achibvumirana zvizere nekudada kwake, anoedza kunzwisisa kuti ndiani akatora mukadzi wake kubva kwaari, nekuda kweaakamurasa, akanaka uye akadikanwa. Kuzvidavirira kwekutaura nekutora zvishoma kwekufungidzira zvishoma nezvishoma kunoita kuti pfungwa yokuti murume iyeye pachake akadzinga mudzimai wake wekare, kuti achabata zvakakwana kunze kweiyo, uye kuti kazhinji ndiye ane mhosva.

Neyi "motokari" inowanzotumirwa kuti itsigire tsika kune umwe wevamwe shamwari. Zvinonzwisisika, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro ndinoda kutaura, kuyeuka pamusoro pemafaro akanaka kubva muupenyu hwangu pamwe chete, kuzvidza "zvakaipa" kwandiri. Uye pane imwe nguva, haakwanisi kudzivisa chokwadi. Chii, sei uye chii chakaitika muchokwadi. Idzo shamwari dzakanaka, dzichazonzwira tsitsi, uye dzichanzwisisa uye dzichapa rubatsiro, uye kutanga dzichabatsira kuporesa nherera nekubatsirwa kwevodka.

Uye heino chikonzero - shamwari dzaenda kumhuri dzavo, asi vodka ichiripo. Zvakanaka, musapa chibereko chimwe chete kuti chiparadze? Zvakakosha kupedzisa kunwa, uye enda kuchitoro chinowanikwa kune imwe bhodhoro. Uye pane imwezve ... uye nezvimwe zvakadaro. Pamberi pezviso zvose zvinoratidza binge zvekare.

Kunyange zvazvo mamiriro akasiyana akwanisika. Zvidzivirire iwe pabasa kuitira kuti kana uchisvika kumusha kuti uwire pasi pasi mumutsipa uye urege kubuda kwaari kubva mangwanani pasi peanlarms marefu eawa yeawa. Kutanga kutora nguva inofadza, vashandi vanoshamisika uye vakuru, kuva vashandi chaivo, kunyange zvazvo pane "asi" pano. Kana vako vese vasingazivi zvikonzero zvekushingaira kwakadaro, vanogona kuedza kukuchengetedza kubva kunzvimbo yako yebasa. Uye ndiani anoda kuonekwa akajeka mumaziso evane masimba?

Ikoko kune imwe yakanyanyisa, umo varume vakasiyiwa vanowira nekufara kukuru. Zvinokwanisika kutsvaga zvinyorwa zvakawanda panguva imwechete nechinangwa chisingazivikanwi kuti ndizviratidze ini uye nyika yose (mukadzi akabuda) kuti "Ndinoda murume, kuti ndinoda sei!" Zvinosuruvarisa, avo vanosarudza nzira yakadaro yekuzvibata havazivi kuti vanonyanya kufadza mune zvido zvavo. Kuti inoveli haifaniri kune humwe husiku, kwete kwaari, kana kumukadzi akakomba. Ukama hurefu kwenguva pfupi mushure mekuparadzana nemunhu wawakagara naye zvakawanda pasi pedenga reimba zvishoma zvisingaiti.

Kana mudzimai wako akasiya iwe kune mumwe, chinhu chakanakisisa ndechokuti iwe unogona kuzviita nemusoro unotonhora uye, usina kuputira maziso ako, kunzwisisa kuti nei mudzimai wako akasiya iwe. Iwe unogona kubvunza chiremba wepfungwa, ichi ndicho chakanaka chakanaka. Uye ... edza kuigadzirisa. Chero bedzi nokuti munhu wese anofanira kufarira hafu yake. Iye, pasinei nokuti akasiyawo, haasi nyore.