Sezvo pasina vakadzi vakafanana, saka hapana maonero akaenzana enyika uye pachavo panguva yekuzvitakura. Asi matanho makuru ekuzvitakura kwevakadzi zvakangofanana. Kubva pakuona vanachiremba, danho rekutanga rekudzivirira kubva pamuviri kusvika ku fetal movement. Kutanga iwe unowanzonzwa uchifara (Ini ndine pamuviri, ini ndakanaka!) Kana kushamisika (kana kuberekwa kwaisatarisirwe). Zvadaro zvinouya pfungwa inokurudzira yemutoro, kuzvidya mwoyo - asi ini ndichagadzirisa? Panewo zvishoma kudemba pamusoro perusununguko rwakapfuura, kuti ikozvino iwe haufaniri kufungidzira iwe pachako.
Uye zvino kunouya kunzwa kwokuti iwe wakamira pakutanga - uye kufara, uye kushivirira kushoma, uye zvishoma adrenaline! Iyo nzira yaenda! Kazhinji, vanaamai vari mberi vachashungurudzika kana zvinhu zvose zvakanaka, kana vasina kufara pakarepo nezvekuzvarwa kwomwana munguva yemberi? Mushure mezvose, kune chivimbo chokuti hutano hwemamai hunofanira kuratidzwa kubva mumazuva ekutanga ekudzivirira. Aiwa, zvinoitika, pane kudaro, pakubata zvinyorwa.
Mumadzimai anotarisira, kutengesa kutora pamuviri, rudo rwechigumbuso uye chido chokuchengeta mwana wemunguva yemberi zvinogona kuzviratidza pachavo panguva dzakasiyana uye kusimba pamitengo yakasiyana. Nguva yekuchinja uku ndeyega. Mukadzi akambove akarota nezvehumai, anoshandisa nguva imwe neimwe yekunzwa kwakananga. Ane hanya nezvayo uye atova kubva kumavhiki ekutanga anowanikwa: mukomana kana musikana? Mumwe munhu haafungi nezvemwana. Pano iwe pachako kuti unzwisise: zvose kugona uye munyu zvinoda kutyisa, newaini pamutambo haichagoneki. Mumavhiki ekutanga, mufaro wezvakaitika uye mhemberero dzezvakaitika zvinosangana nekuchinja muupenyu hunochinja nguva nenguva.
Usazvipa mhosva pamusana pokusagutsikana kwokutanga. Vabereki munguva yemberi vanoda nguva yekufananidza nepfungwa yebasa ravo idzva uye kuchinja kuzvirongwa zvavo. Mukuwedzera, mamiriro ezvinhu panguva yekuziva kubata pamuviri zvakasiyana kwazvo. Uye vanogona kuita kuti amai vave mune ramangwana vaone zvakasiyana, uye kwete nguva dzose. Iko kuchafanirwa kufunga nezvazvo. Mwana asina kuberekwa haasi mhosva yekusarurama kwenyika ino, nokuda kwekusvika "kusati kwasvika" kunyika, nekuda kwezvinetso zvezvinyorwa uye zvehupfumi hwevabereki vake. Iwe wakasiya mwana uyu, saka unouda. Unoda kuti ave noutano hwakanaka here? Ita pfungwa pamusoro peizvi uye ive yakakosha zvikuru. Uye mamwe ose emwedzi mipfumbamwe, imwe nzira kana imwe, ichagadziriswa. Saka, zvishoma nezvishoma amai vanozozvidzivirira kuzvidzivirira pachavo nevana remangwana kubva kune zvakaipa zvekunze kwenyika.
Pasinei nokuti mune yechitatu yekutanga yekuzvitakura, hutano hwenyika hungave husiri hunofadza, pfungwa dzinosuruvarisa kana dzinovhiringidza dzakasimuka mumavhiki matatu okutanga, "kutanga" amai vanguva zhinji havatambudzi. Anoziva kuti matambudziko ose anokonzerwa nemamiriro ake ari chikamu chemaitiro akajairika emutambo. Uye saka inotanga kuvanetseka. Chinhu chinoshamisa kwazvo panguva ino ndechokufunga kuti mwana wacho, uye izvi zvose chiratidzo che "kugara" kwake. Uye kana kuri toxicosis, tinoziva newe kuti izvi hazvisi zvehupenyu.
Chikamu chechipiri chekudzivirira chinoratidzwa nechishamiso: unonzwa iwe pachako kufamba kwehupenyu hutsva. Kutanga kwekutanga kwe fetus kunoita kuti tive nekuziva kuti iye, achiri muchizvaro, ndiye munhu akazvimiririra. Anobatana, anorara, anotendeuka. Iko mune nguva idzi kuti manzwiro ekutambudzika kwechikadzi uye kubvutwa asati aberekwa mwana wake pachake anozadza uye anofukidza nemusoro. Pakazosvika mwedzi wechina, uwandu hwemhomoni mumazinga eropa. Uye, saka, muviri marise uye kusawirirana kwepfungwa kunoderedza, kuva tsika. Kuziva kuti mafungiro akachinjwa akaitika mukutanga kwemutatu kunobatsira kutsanangura uye ndeyenguva pfupi, inobatsira kutarisa manzwiro ako kubva kunze. Iye zvino, pakati pemugwagwa, inguva yokuti mukadzi afunge nezvemangwana. Ari kugadzirira izvi nekushingaira. Anotanga kuongorora utano hwake zvakanyatsonaka. Anotanga kupinda misangano yemadzimai emangwana, anoedza kuisa kune iyi uye baba vomwana. Ikoko, mukadzi, kana murume nomudzimai, vanosangana nechisimbiso chimwe chete uye vanotya vabereki vane ramangwana, vanonzwisisa kuti havasi ivo voga "vane pamuviri."
Zvisinei, vakadzi vari kuwedzera kukurudzira kwekutarisira nekubatanidzwa kwehama, kunyanya murume. Vakadzi vane pamuviri vanonyanya kufunga nezvekuzvidya mwoyo uye kunyadziswa pavanenge vasingaratidzi tsitsi uye rudo. Ichi chiitiko chinotsanangurwa nekudiwa kwekupa nzvimbo inofadza ivo pachavo nemwana. Tarisa kuti mhuri yakadii kuchinja hupenyu hwavo mushure mokuberekwa kwake. Mukadzi anogona kuronga kuhupenyu hwake uye remangwana re mwana wake mamiriro ezvinhu kubva panguva dzose akanzwa nyaya dzehupenyu, mafirimu, mabhuku. Amai vanoita sevari kuita, vachiedza ivo pachavo zvinogona kufadza uye kusuruvara. Vanotamba mamiriro akasiyana-siyana ekufungidzira nekutora kwavanodiwa vavo. Kusanzwisisana kana kupikisana zvakananga kwepfungwa dzinopesana zvinogona kutungamirira kumakakatanwa makuru mumhuri. Zvisinei, mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro anomuka asingagumi uye haasvhiringidzi mukuru ane chivimbo uye simba guru rehutano. Vakadzi vazhinji vanofungidzira nguva iyi yekudzivirira se nguva inonakidza yehupenyu hwavo - nguva yekutenda, unyoro uye kutarisira.
Panguva ino, uye yakasimuka rudo rukuru uye pfungwa yehukama hwepedyo, kufanana kweamai nevana. Iko kunotaura kwavo mukati: "Zvino tichauya kumba nemi, mudye uye muzorore. Kusvikira panguva iyo, usasundira zvakadaro, ndapota. " Mushure mezvose, mwana anotsamwirwa, asi mai nemwana vanodya uye vanozorora pamwe chete. Kubva pamararamiro amai vangu (kuti ndaidya kudya kwemanheru, kufamba mumugwagwa, nezvimwewo) kunobva paupenyu hutsva hunomirira hweumwe munhu.
Zvisinei, izvi kuwirirana, kunyange zvazvo zvakasikwa, zvingava zvakanaka kuti uchenjerere. "Tatova vhiki makumi maviri nemaviri", - anofara Amai, achitaura nezvake nemwana mune chimwe chibvumirano chisingabvumirwi. Zvichida, zvose zvakafanana kwete "isu", uye mwana weramangwana? Iwe unotova nezvimwe zvishoma! Uye muhupenyu hwako pane izvo zvakave uye zvichave zvimwe zviitiko. Uye upenyu husati hwave hupenyu, kunyange iye zvino zvava kusingatendi. Ngatenderane kuti vhiki makumi maviri nemasere mushure mese mwana wenyu, uye mune mavhiki makumi maviri nemashanu ekuzvitakura. Zvinonakidza kugovana nevana vake mune ramangwana kukura uye kubudirira, kumuona iye chikamu chake. Iri ndiro ropa rako, zuva rako! Asi mushure mekuberekwa, achiri kuve munhu anozvimirira. Uye uzvigadzirire iwe amai vakadaro, vakarurama, hutano, kuremekedza humwe hwemwana, huchange hwakanaka kubvira pamazuva ekutanga ekudzivirira.
Wechitatu, yekupedzisira kubva pamatanho makuru ekuzvitakura kwevakadzi zvakasiyana pakuti amai vanotarisira vari kugadzirira kubereka. Uye haadi kuti afunge pamusoro pechinhu chero chipi zvacho, kunze kwokusangana nemwana. Anenge achinzwa akasiyana, aneta nokumirira uye kupfeka muviri wakaremara. Vose vakachinja pfungwa dzake, vose vaine hanya, vakagadzirira chero chinhu, kana nokukurumidza! Iyo nzira iri kuda kupera, chiito chokupedzisira chinosara. Izvozvo zvinoberekwa - uye zvose zvichave zvakarongeka.
Mune vamwe vakadzi, maitiro ehumai anoratidzwa mushure mekubereka mwana. Kuonekwa kwake "kusavapo" mukati memwedzi mipfumbamwe yapfuura haisi chikonzero chekuwana "kusazvidzwa" kwake. Kune mwana wake, amai vake vachave vakakosha zvikuru, vane hanya uye vanodikanwa. Ngatiyeukei mumwe weva heroines vehurukuro yakakurumbira "Zvepabonde uye Guta". Achifunga nezvebasa remugweta, akangoerekana ava nepamuviri, akapedza mwedzi mipfumbamwe achiita mabasa, zvinetso zvevasikana, ukama nemurume wake, nekunetseka kuona kuchinja mumuviri wake. Uye chete paakaona mwana wavo, akaziva zvakadzama uye achiratidza kuti chii chishamiso, mufaro uye mutoro - mwana!
Uye munyaya iyi pane chinhu chisingawanzoitiki uye chinoshamisa. Kune mumwe mukadzi mukadzi anonzi hurimoni inokura zvishoma nezvishoma, kune imwe inogona kunge ichiputika. Uye chechitatu uye pasina rubatsiro rwemhomoni yose hupenyu hwake hurota hwekuva amai, anova iye, uye anofara, seimwe heroine yemakatanidzwa akafanana. Kubata ndiyo inonyanya kukosha "inofadza" iyo mukadzi anoita munguva yehupenyu hwake. Ezvo dai iyi mwedzi mipfumbamwe, yakaita mapfumbamwe apfuura, inokubvumira kuti unzwe mufaro wekuva amai.