Iko mutengo wechokwadi we rudo

Rudo ndiko kuonekwa kwemanzwiro emunhu mumwe kune mumwe kana kune vamwe, anoratidzwa norudo rukuru uye tsitsi. Rudo rwakasiyana: ruchiva, ruchiva, rusingadiwi, runa hama, ruchizvarwa, rune ushamwari, rwepanyama, rudo. Asi chero chii chaiva, rudo runoramba rwuri rudo, uye huripo hahugoni kurambwa kana kuramba. Vamwe vanhu havasi peneni vanoda mune penny, asi chaizvoizvo rudo runokosha. Vangani vanyori, vaimbi, vanyori, vanyori vakaimba mubasa ravo rerudo, kangani nguva rudo rwavo rwakanga rwuri museki wekuumba zvinhu zvakanaka. Vakawanda, kubvira kare kusvikira mazuva edu, vari kuedza kugadzirisa mutengo wechokwadi we rudo. Uye kana iwe uchikwanisa kuzviita, iwe hauzooni rudo, nokuti rudo harukwanisi kuongwa!

Vanhu vangani - kubva kune nyeredzi dzakakurumbira kusvika kune vanhuwo zvavo vakarasikirwa nemisoro yavo kubva murudo uye pamwe nemisoro yavo yose fuma yavo kana zvimwewo, vanhu vangani nokuda kwerudo vakazvipfuura ivo nevamwe, vakakunda nyika yose kuti vawane mukadzi mumwe chete.

Ndeipi mutengo wechokwadi we rudo rwedu? Matikiti ane mutengo wemuenzaniso pane rudo akange akaremberedzwa nevanhu vazhinji: kune rumwe rutivi, kuvhiringidzika uye madzisheti kubva pakutanga kwebasa iri rekare kune mazuva edu, iro rekubhadhara rinogona kupa mukana we "kufarira rudo." Uye kune rumwe rutivi, rudo rwekudzivirirwa kwemitumbi yevakadzi, iyo yakakosha yerudo rwavakagamuchira inongotarisirwa chete pamusana pekukwanisa kwemahombekombe avo. Asi ichi ndicho rudo here kana kuti chinongova chido chekugoverwa mune zvinofadza zvenyama?

Rudo nderimwe remazita anozivikanwa zvikuru pakati pefilosofi, vanoona zvepabonde, vanofunga nezvepfungwa uye nyaya iyi nguva dzose yakanganisa mafungiro efilosofi uye dutu remanzwiro, munhu wose aida kuziva kukosha kwechokwadi kwe rudo, uye ini ndichati, rudo runofanirwa kurarama, uye hupenyu hwakakosha, saka rudo runokosha . Sezvo Helen Hayes, mutambikadzi wemuAmerica, akati, "Chokwadi ndechekuti kune imwe chete inokosha kwazvo - rudo," uye ndinobvumirana neizvi, uye hapana mutengo werudo, uye kune vanongodzidza chete avo vanokoshesa kunzwa uku uye vanoipa kune vamwe / vamwe vanhu, vachigamuchira kubva kwavari mukudzoka, zvakare, rudo.

Zvose zvinhu zvinokosha izvo vanodikanwa vanowana kubva kune mumwe nemumwe kungongotenda kwekugamuchira kana kugamuchirwa rudo. Rudo haruna kuyerwa nenzira ipi zvayo neyekushongedza, dzimba kana dzimba dzinodhura, rudo runofanirwa kurarama mumwoyo wemumwe nomumwe wedu, uye chete ipapo munhu wose anoda zvechokwadi anokwanisa kutaura kuti mutengo werudo hauna mari uye kwete muzvipo, rudo haruna mutengo! Ndiani angambouya mupfungwa kuti rudo runogona kuongororwa nenzira imwe? Kana tikadzokera kune zvinyorwa zvevabereki, havatengesi rudo, asi muviri wavo.

Iwe haugoni kutsanangurira mutengo unomuka mumweya yedu nemoyo, haugoni kutarisa mutengo wechikamu chako chechipiri, haugone kutenga kana kutengesa rudo. Rudo runogona kuberekwa chete, kuberekwa mumweya nemubatsiro wemwoyo miviri ye rudo uye gore rimwe nerimwe kana zuva rinofanira kunge riri roga, asi kwete. Usatenda kuti rudo runofa mumakore matatu kana makore manomwe, usatenda kuti rudo runogona kutengwa uye kutengeswa! Rudo runogara mumweya weumwe neumwe wedu.