Upenyu huripo hwemukadzi nemurume anoteerera, sekutonga, imwe rhythm. Ichokwadi ndechokuti makore ose mashomanana chikamu chitsva chehukama chinotanga pakati pemurume nemudzimai, uye chimwe nechimwe chinounza nayo mufaro wayo nezvinetso.
10 zvikamu zvehukama
1 Chikamu chehukama - kubatana (makore maviri okutanga emuchato) panguva yakadaro, inoratidzika kune avo vakaroorana vasati vambozorora.Vose vari vaviri vanoedza kuzadzisa zvido zvose zveimwe, edza kuva pamwe chete kakawanda. Panzvimbo yekutanga pano, sekutonga, rudo rwepanyama. Iyi nguva yepfungwa dzepfungwa dzinonzi "spring of feelings."
Zvisinei, sehupenyu, hapana chitubu chisina kutinhira-dutu. Nenhamba, 3% yevakaroorana vasati vatova mwedzi mitanhatu mushure momuchato wavo, kunyange zvazvo zvakare zvakare vanokakavara nechisimba. Asi makumi mashanu kubva muzana emhuri yakatotanga kutya kuti ramangwana remucheche wavo wechidiki harina kujeka. Uye 4 muzana yevakaroorana vanopedza zvishoma usiku humwe chete, uye 3 muzana yevakaroorana vasati vava nenguva yekushandura mumwe wavo.
Chikamu chechipiri chehukama ndechekukanganisa (kazhinji gore rechitatu kana rechina rokutora). Heano hupupuri hwekutanga hwakapfuura uye tsika yemhuri yakauya. Uye ikozvino, vakawanda vakaroorana vanoona kuti avo vaanoita havakwanisi zvakafanana sezvavakanga vari mumwedzi yekutanga yekudanana murudo. Somuenzaniso, 87 muzana yevakadzi vakati pashure pegore rechipiri rekugara pamwe chete vakamira vachida avo vakasarudzwa.Asi kunyange izvi zviri, zvechokwadi, kuwedzeresa, zvisinei, mugore rechina rekubatana kwehupenyu, zvibhakana zvakawanda, zvinosuruvarisa, zvinoparadzaniswa. Panguva ino mwana wekutanga akakura, mukadzi zvakare anonzwa akasununguka.
3 chikamu chehukama - kubereka (iyi ndiyo yechishanu-yechitanhatu yemurume wemudzimai). Vakaroorana vasina vana, sekutonga, vakaronga kuzadza mhuri. Panguva ino, rudo harusi ruchida zvakadaro, asi rwunoreva zvakanyanya.Asi zvakadaro, sezvo munhu asingakwanise "kuita" mumuviri wake, pamuviri wake, kazhinji kacho hazvizivikanwe zvakasiyana naye. Uye mugumisiro - 70 muzana yemamangwana emangwana vanonzwa vachiita zvepabonde ivo pachavo ivo pachavo.
4 Chikamu chehukama - ichi ndicho chikamu chemasimba (pane imwe nzvimbo mumakore manomwe kusvika kumasere ekuroora). Kazhinji ino ndiyo nguva inoshingaira muhupenyu hwewanano. Vakaroorana vanowanzokunda matambudziko ekutanga epfungwa, uye zvino vane zvinangwa zvechokwadi. Somuenzaniso, vaviri vacho pamwe chete vanotenga imba uye vanopa iyo. Kazhinji nzvimbo yehutungamiri yemurume yakasimba zvakakwana, uye vakadzi vazhinji mushure mokuberekwa kwemucheche vari kutangazve basa ravo.Ibasa mukati memhuri zvatove zvagoverwa uye imwe neimwe "nzvimbo yeumwe" inoziva.
Chikamu chechishanu chehukama hukama (kubva papfumbamwe kusvika kune regumi nerimwe gore). Nheyo dzehutano hwakatova hwakasimba kwazvo, sezvinongoita mamiriro emari mumhuri. Mikana yekurambana yakaderedzwa, pakarepo varoorana vakayambuka muganhu wemakore makumi matatu. Ichi chikamu chehukama ndi "zhizha remuchato". Vakawanda vakaroorana vakazvipira ivo pachavo, zvichiita kazhinji kacho chidzidzo chechikoro: murume wacho ari kutungamirira zvakananga mumhizha, uye mukadzi ari mumba. Dzimwe nguva kune kukakavara chete panyaya dzekurera vana. Chiratidzo chekunze kwemhuri inofara chinogona kutaridzirwa sechatevera. Mumakore gumi ekutanga, ndezvemuchato apo madzimai avo ari kuwedzera uremu anenge 8 kg, uye varume - 8.5 kg.
6 chikamu chehukama-chikamu chezvikamu zvacho (kubvira pagumi nembiri negore regumi nemana). Vakadzi mushure mekushungurudzika kwavo (zvishoma gare gare, nevarume) vanotanga kuunganidza zvikamu zvekutanga zvevakaroorana. Semitemo, vanoongorora zvakare urongwa hwehupenyu, nokuti vanonzwisisa kuti hapana nguva yakawanda yakasara yekuita chinhu chakakosha zvikuru. Vamwe vanobatana mumamiriro ezvinhu aya vanotenda kuti vari mumugumo wakafa, vakaodzwa mwoyo, dzimwe nguva vakagadzirira kudzokera. Vamwe vanhu vanoziva kuti zvinhu zvinokosha hazvizi chinhu chinokosha muupenyu. Iyi nguva inogona kurondedzerwa se "kutanga kwekuvhura" yemuchato.
Chikamu chechisere chehukama - matambudziko (kubva mugore rechigumi nemashanu kusvikira mugore rechimakumi maviri). Rudo rwakatotanga kuva tsika, vashandi pamwe chete vanotanga kusiya mumwe nomumwe. Vakadzi havadi kushivirira kupera kwekutarisa kwemurume wake, kusaremekedza kwevarwere. Vamwe vakadzi vanozadza panguva iyi nevhareji ye-17 kg. Uye varume kazhinji vave "vakasiya" kushamwaridzana. Ivo, zvisinei, vanoramba kuramba, uye vanosarudza katatu rudo, uye madzimai, pane zvinopesana, kazhinji vanoedza kuedza kuputsa. Iko panguva ino iyo mararamiro mazhinji anoitika, uye mu70 muzana yematambudziko, vakadzi vanotanga.
Chikamu chechisere chehukama hwakagadziridzwa (kubva kumakumi maviri nemana kusvika kune makumi maviri namashanu gore). Sezvo mutemo, vashandi vatove vatarisa zvose zvingasarudzwa zvehupenyu hwekupedzisira uye vakagara pamwechete. Nguva yacho inotanga, "yekuvhura kwekuvandudzwa". Vana vakatokura uye vanoda kubatsirwa kubva kuvabereki vavo (kunze kwekuti, zvichida, mari). Vamwe varume vanozarura "kupumha kwechipiri" kubasa. Uye vakadzi vanoitawo basa ravo roga roga rokuzvipira nemufaro.
Chikamu chechitanhatu chehukama ndiyo "nguva yekupedzisira yegore" (kubva pamakumi maviri nemashanu kusvika kune makumi matatu). Kunyangwe apo vana vari kubva pamba pavo, kuda kamwe kamwe kunotora pfungwa itsva: inowedzera kuva munyoro uye kuderera. 48 muzana yemhuri vanofunga kuti hukama hwavo hunofadza zvikuru. 38 muzana yavo inonzi inofananidzwa uye 3% chete inotakura.
10 chikamu chehukama-chikamu chekwegura (shure kwemakore makumi matatu nemaviri). Ino nguva "kukohwa". Avo vakagara pamwe chete kweupenyu hwose vanogona kunakidzwa nezvibereko zverudo rwavo, sekutonga, vanovonga kune mumwe nemumwe nekuda kwekunzwa kwakadzika, kwemaawa akabatanidzwa. Pasinei nechokwadi chokuti mumarume zvingangoita zvishoma nezvishoma zvishoma nezvishoma zvishoma nezvishoma zvinokanganisa, varoorana vanovimbwa zvisingaverengeki neshamwari. Muchato unosvika "yekutenderera kwegoridhe".