Nenguva yakawanda kubva pamabhuku emitauro uye mafirimu emanzwiro atinogona kufungisisa nyaya dzakanaka dzorudo, umo watinosangana nemutsara mumwechete: "Ichi rudo pakutanga pakutanga." Chii chinotsanangura kuonekwa kwekunzwa uku, chii chinomuka pakati pemurume nemukadzi? Uye kune rudo rwechokwadi runoridzwa nevanyori vakawanda here?
"Ndiudze, rudo chii?"
Mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu unopisa haudikanwi chete nevaya vari kutsvaga mweya yavo, asiwo neboka rose reasayendisiti. Semuenzaniso, masayendisiti kubva kuYunivhesiti yeLondon kuburikidza nekuedza yakaita chinhu chinonakidza. Varume vasere nevakadzi vasere vakapiwa mifananidzo yevasingazivi vakanaka kune vakomana nevasikana. Zvigumisiro zvaishamisa kunyange kuvasayendisiti ivo pachavo: kana mumufananidzo maziso omurume akanga akatarisa kune iye anoona, ipapo nzvimbo inokosha yeuropi yakatanga kushanda kune anoona. Zvakanaka, kana maziso ari pamufananidzo akaendeswa kune rumwe rutivi - munhu akatarisa kwaari, akanzwa kunyanya kuora mwoyo. Chero zvaunotaura, uye kuonana kweziso kune ukama hwakakura kuda pakutanga pakutanga.
Rudo nekugomera kwekutanga, semasimba emakemikari anoita
Manzwiro aya anogara achikanganiswa uye anokonzera vanhu kuti vaite zviito zvakanyanyisa. Iyo inopfuura kamwechete inoshandiswa semushumo wekufuridzirwa kuti uite unyanzvi kuburikidza nekusika vanhu. Kuonekwa kwekunzwa pakutanga pakuona kwemakore anopfuura gumi anofarira vanhu. Izvo zvose nyaya dzisinganzwisisi dzenyaya dzinotanga nekutarisa kamwe chete, pakarepo dzakaradzika muzvivako zvinyorwa uye mafirimu. Pakupedzisira kwemazana emakore makumi maviri nemasere masayendisiti kubva kuUnited States akaisa pfungwa yavo padzidziso yekemiti yerudo, iyo yakanga isina chokwadi nevakawanda veRoma. Chinokosha chepfungwa yacho ndeyokuti rudo chimiro, chiitiko chinowanzoitika chinopinda muuropi hwemunhu.
Masayendisiti akakwanisa kuongorora uropi hwevanhu nekubatsirwa kwemichina yezvino, iyo yakabatsira kugadzirisa zvakasiyana siyana zvemakemikari. Izvi zvinopfuurira kuburikidza nekuoma kwezviratidzo (euphoria, inobva mupfungwa yekukwezva kusvika kune hafu, pfungwa pamusoro pechinhu chokunamatira, chido, chido chokuva pedyo nemunhu uyu, pfungwa yegodo, nezvimwewo).
Zvechokwadi, hapana anokakavadzana kuti humwe hupupuriro hunoti ndewechokwadi, asi avo vanotenda zvakasimba kuti rudo vanofemerwa, vanofarira kutevedzera maonero avo, vachiramba kuti zvinoreva zvose zvekunzwa uku kunobva pane zvakaoma zvikuru makemikari akabatanidzwa. Taura zvaunotaura, zvakaoma kuti munhuwo zvake arambe achitenda mukutsanangurwa kwakadaro kwepfungwa ye "rudo uye kubuda kwayo" panguva yokutanga.
Kurara murudo mumasekondi makumi matatu
Kubva pakutsvakurudza kwevanyori vepfungwa dzeAmerica, rudo rwakasimuka panguva yekuonana kwemaziso kunogona kuonekwa mumasekonzi makumi matatu ekutanga emusangano. Mukadzi wacho anotanga kutarisa zviratidzo zveunhu hwakasimba mumurume, anoongorora unhu hwake hwepfungwa, manzwiro ake okuseka. Pakarepo mushure mekuongororwa kwehuviri hwemunhu: mumatambudziko mazhinji, vakadzi vanoisa pfungwa pamapfudzi akafara, kuvhenekera mabheti, maoko akasimba. Asi nokuda kwepabonde rakasimba kune iyo inokosha mu 52% inotora mamakumbo madzimai. Mushure mekuongororwa kunoitika munyaya iyi: chifuva, chiuno, meso.
Rudo kana rudo
Rudo kubva pameso evamwe vanhu ndechekuita kugove rekunze, kukokwe kwenyama. Asi nokuda kwekuonekwa kwekunzwa kwechokwadi, nguva uye ukama hwepedyo hwemweya hunokosha. Nokudaro, kuona munhu kwekutanga, atasangana neziso rake ne-in-glase uye kunzwa tsitsi kune iye, tinogona kunzwa kungofanana nekukanganisika kwenguva pfupi. Kungofanana nekukweverwa uku kunogona kukura kuva manzwiro, uye kunogona kuramba iri pamwero. Kana pakanga pasina misiyano pakati pekunaka kwekunze nekunze, rudo kubva kune vanotanga kutarisa ruchava chinhu chinowanzoitika. Iyo pfungwa inogamuchirwa kubva kumunhu mumasekondi ekutanga dzimwe nguva inonyengera. Zvechokwadi, pane dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti ruregerero rukuru runogona kuberekerwa murudo. Kazhinji vanhu vanovhiringidza rudo netsitsi, rudo kana chido. Kunzwa kukwezva kune munhu, havazivi kuti vanosiyanisa sei manzwiro aya, vanofunga kuti izvi ndizvo. Kazhinji kazhinji, vanhu vane ruzivo vanofarira kune izvi, avo vasingafungi nezvemazuva ose ekutsvaga - mahomoni, pheromones, nezvimwewo.