Muenzaniso unopikisa
Munyika yemazuva ano, pane zvakasara zvepabonde, tinoda kuva mukurumbira, vakapfuma uye vanoda kuchinja magirafu evatinoshanda navo. Kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo, tine maziso edu mazita evarume vakawanda vakakurumbira avo vakabatwa pamakiriniki kubva mune zvekuita zvepabonde.
Kunyange zvisati zvaitika munguva pfupi yapfuura, pakanga pane nhema pamusoro pehutau hwevarume (uye pamwe muchikadzi zvakare), asi munyika yanhasi iyi nhoroondo yakava chirwere. Uye ichi chiri chokwadi chezvesayenzi.
Nhasi, chirwere ichi chinowedzera kukurumidza, uye chakatove chakabatanidzwa mune urongwa hwezvirwere zvakakurumbira zvikuru mumakore ekupedzisira ezana remakore rechi21. Zvidzidzo zvinotsigira kupararira kwechirwere ichi nokuti nhasi 5% yevanhu vese pasi vanotambura nekuita zvepabonde. Maererano nekufungidzira kwakaipa, inenge mamiriyoni 360 evanhu. Kuita zvepabonde kunofananidzwa nehutano hwepfungwa uye vanoda kugadzira mishonga yepfungwa muAmerican Bible.
Hazvivadziri
Kuita zvepabonde kunoda kugara uchichinja zvepabonde uye hukama hwenguva refu hahuna kutungamirira. Havana hanya nemanzwiro, asi anofarira senzira. Uye zvakanyanya zvepabonde, zviri nani kwavari. Uye zvepabonde zvinofanira kuva zvakasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira zvinhu zvechisaromasochism, kuongororwa kwenguva refu kwemafirimu ekuona zvinonyadzisira, uye mukuputsa kwemafungiro epabonde echisimba. Kutarisa kunonyanya kurara pabonde, nhamba yayo ichikura nokukurumidza. Uye nokuda kweizvi havadi nguva dzose vanoda shamwari. Kune zvakakwana zvinonyadzisira paInternet.
Tungamira kuzvivimba
Masayendisiti anotaura kuti chikonzero chechirwere ichi chiri muhutano hwepfungwa. Vanosangana nechirwere ichi vane vanhu vasina kuchengeteka zvikuru, uye kukundwa kwepabonde kunovapa chikonzero chekuzvirumbidza ivo pachavo. Pane zvimwe zvikonzero zvekuonekwa kwechirwere - kusava ne caress vladetstve kana kushungurudzwa. Kukurudzirwa neshamwari dzake uye kusagamuchirwa nekambani mwana kuchazviratidza kushanduka kwayo, kushandura nguva dzose shamwari.Kumwe mamwe mazwi, chirwere ichi chinogona kukonzera kushandiswa kwemazuva ose kwekunzwa kwekuninipiswa.
Asi zvepabonde zvinokurumidza kupfuura kurwara, uye kuvimba. Iye akafanana zvikuru nekudhakwa kana kudhakwa kwezvinodhaka: avo vanorwara nechirwere ichi vane nyota isingakanganwiki yechikamu chinotevera chepabonde.Vagamuchira kufara kubva pane zvinongopera mashomanana mashoma, uye pashure pacho chete chiitiko chitsva chinotevera chinovafadza. Kubva pane zvido zvepamusoro, zvepabonde zvakasiyana pakuti hazvitungamiri kumigumisiro inotyisa yemumuviri, kunze kwemigumisiro yekuita zvepabonde zvisina kudzivirirwa. Asi panguva imwecheteyo, mararamiro emitemo anotambura zvikuru munyaya iyi.
Vatsvakurudzi, hongu, maitiro ose uye anooma zvikuru. Munguva pfupi yapfuura, masayendisiti muIsrael akacherechedza geni rinokonzera kukurudzira. Vanotenda kuti mazamu anoita basa rinokosha kuvashandi vepabonde. Kunongova vanhu avo vanoita zvepabonde kukosha kupfuura vamwe. "Darling, ini handina mhosva, ndinongova neine gene gene mutation, congenital!" Tinoreverera sei dambudziko racho? Uye kana kuita zvepabonde kune munhu chikonzero chakanaka chokuva mumaziso evamwe vasina gwayana gwayana rine chirwere, izvo zvinodiwa rubatsiro?
Upenyu hwepabonde haisi hupenyu humwe
Munhu anoita zvepabonde wechokwadi haagoni kugadzirisa maitiro ake. Unhu hwakadaro husingadzorwi hunovhiringidza hupenyu hwose. Anogara achifunga nezveaxex chete, anongotaura zvepabonde chete, anoita zvakanyanya, akasununguka uye anogadzirira zvepabonde nguva dzose.
Zvepabonde hazvikwikwidzana
Haana hanya naanovata naye. Haisi kutevedzwa nemamwe mifananidzo yemadzimai, izvo zvinoreva kuti mukana wekuvapo kwemumwe munhu wekusingaperi uripo. Murume anongororwa chete nepabonde uye kuratidzirwa kwekunzwa rudo kune mutorwa kwaari.
Unhu hwepabonde hunoziva kuderera kwahwo.
Kushamwaridzana kwemisungo uye vazhinji vanobatsirana, sekutonga, hazvizivikanwi nevanhu. Somugumisiro weizvi, vashandi vepabonde vanogona kuwira mukutambudzika, vanozvivhara uye vozopedzisira vaziva kuti ivo vakapindwa muropa uye vanoda kubvisa kuzvidzivirira uku. Muchiitiko ichocho, kunyanya taura neavo vanovimba naye, teererai kwaari, uye edza kumubatsira, asi pasina mamiriro ezvinhu usaisa kumanikidza. Usatendeuka kubva kumunhu. Yeuka kuti chinhu chikuru ndechokutsigirwa kwevanhu vari pedo naye.