Sezvimwe zvikamu zvehupenyu hwedu, zvepabonde zvinoratidzirwa munzvimbo inoshamisa uye isingazivikanwi yepfungwa - mukurota. Kurota kwakadaro kunogona kuwirirana zvakananga nemanzwiro edu chaiwo, asi kazhinji pane zvimwe zvinhu zvinoratidzika zvinoitika zvatisingafungi nezvezuva. Nokuda kwekutaura kwakarurama kwezviratidzo zvepabonde, takashandura kune vezvepfungwa. Vakatitaurirawo nesayenzi yavo "bhuku rerota": kududzirwa kwezviroto kune zvepabonde. Izvi zvinoshanda kune vose ...
Munhu wose anoona kurota kusina kunaka. Kazhinji vanowira pedyo nemangwanani uye havakwanisi kunyanya kutaura. Mudzimai anokwanisa kukurudzira mukurota kunyange kana achingoti kune shamwari yake, anoyemura kufungidzira kwake kana ... anobereka mwana. Asi dzimwe nguva, pane zvinopesana, muchiroto tinoita saizvozvo zvokuti mangwanani tinomuka kwete isu pachedu. Usatya: izvo zvararota hazvitombofaniri kududzirwa chaizvoizvo.
Kurota kwega kwega kunongova chinhu chimwe chete uye kunobva pane zvaunoda, zvido zvako, zvakaitika uye kutya. Uye usagara uchimhanyisa uye flip kuburikidza nebhuku reroto - haazopi mhinduro. Kunyange zvakadaro, vanachiremba vepfungwa vakakwanisa kuona zviratidzo zvakafanana zvezviroto zvekurota.
Kurumbidzwa kubva kare
Izvi zvinoitika here mukurota iwe unosangana nehupenzi wako wekuda-famba uye mune "inotevera" kupfura iwe unozviwana uri pamubhedha naye? Ichokwadi here kuti iwe haugoni kukanganwa? "Nenguva imwechete kurota zvepabonde kunosanganisira waimbova shamwari hakufaniri kutorwa zvakanyanya. Zvichida, izvi zvinongoyeuchidza pfungwa: pfungwa dzako dzisinganzwisisiki "dzinotamba" iwe chinhu chinonakidza chepabonde kubva kare. Asi kana kurota kwacho kuchivhara, zvakakodzera kufungisisa pamusoro, - anoti chiremba wepfungwa anonzi Olga Levinskaya. " Zvichida, nenzira iyi, dambudziko risina kugadziriswa rinoedza kuzviratidza pachako, raunoshamwaridzana naro, somuenzaniso, iwe uchiri kutsamwa nekuda kwezvichemo zvekare kana kuti hauna kupedza chikonzero chimwe chete."
"Kuita zvepabonde newaimbova mudiwa kunogona kuva chimiro chechido chako, chinosanganiswa nemufananidzo wake, " anowedzera chiremba wepfungwa Vadim Piotrovsky. - Somuenzaniso, kana iwe ukarota nemunhu wawakamboita naye rudo, izvi zvinogona kuratidzira kushungurudzika kwakavanzika: iwe unoda kubvisa kubva kunetseka dzinokudzvinyirira, zorora uye uzvipinde mune chisingadikanwi. "
Mumaoko echikadzi
Zvave uchifarira kurota kweukama hwepedyo nemukadzi, usakurumidza kureva kuti iyo yakavanzika zvido zvevabonde. "Zvichida muhupenyu iwe hauna kutarisira zvakakwana uye rudo, iwe unonzwa wakasurukirwa uye wakarasikirwa, uye uri mumufananidzo wemudzimai-bhasi iyo kutarisirwa, kutarisirwa uye unyoro iwe waunoda zvakarongeka, " Vadim Piotrovsky anotsanangura. - Kana iwe uchirota zvepabonde neshamwari, waunoshanda naye kana mumwe mukadzi anozivikanwa, funga nezvemubata sei muupenyu. Kakawanda, tichishandisa kurota kusingadi kunobatanidza vanhu vatinenge tisingafungi sechinhu chepabonde, chokwadi chedu chinoratidza kuvanzika kana kuvada. Zvepabonde, nenzira iyo, inofananidzira chido chedu chekuita unhu uhwu hwomumwe wako watinayo tisina, somuenzaniso, pfungwa yekuseka, kukwanisa kuzvibata munzanga, chinangwa kana kukwanisa. "
Night trouble
Uye zvakadini kana iwe uchifunga kurota kwako uchiona munhu asingaiti kuti uite manzwiro epabonde, asi, zvakasiyana, zvinonyangadza iwe here? "Pano mutemo iwoyo unoshanda: kunyange mumunhu anotsamwisana naye, mukirasi wakaipa uye muvakidzani anokuvadza paberere, dzimwe nguva tinonyatsoziva zvatinoda kuzviitira isu pachedu. Kunyange kana munhu uyu akakukuvadza, pane dzimwe nguva ungada kuva mune chimwe chinhu chakafanana naye, kunyanya mukukwanisa kusateerera maonero evamwe, "rinopfuurira kududzirwa kwezviroto zveVadim Piotrovsky.
"Kurota kwakadaro kunowanzofananidzira kushushikana: somuenzaniso, shamwari isingafadzi ibasa rinotyisa, " anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Olga Levinskaya. - Sekutonga, kurota ivo pachavo kwakasviba uye kunononoka, zvepabonde mukati mavo ndezvinyengeri, zvinotyisa uye zvinogumbura. Muchiitiko ichi, ichi chiratidzo chechokwadi chokuti ndiyo nguva yekuchinja chimwe chinhu muupenyu hwako. "
Svikai kune nyeredzi
Kuita zvepabonde nemukurumbira, zvichida, ndiyo inowanzosiyana yezviroto. Tsanangudzo yake inodaro zvakanyanya pamusoro pemamiriro ekurota uye ukama hwako pachako kune munhu akakurumbira. "Kana imba yako yekurara yakanyongedzwa nemaposita achiratidza nyeredzi yako yaunofarira uye iwe unenge uchida zvishoma nezvayo, kurota kwakadaro ndiko kuratidzika kwezvido zvako. Inotaura zvakare kuti muhupenyu iwe hauna kuwana munhu wako akakodzera. "Nyeredzi" kurara kunogona kuratidza chimwe chimiro chekudzidzira: iwe hausati wanyatsogadzirisa zvaunoita uye uri kushandisa zvigadzirwa zvakagadzirwa, "anodaro Vadim Piotrovsky. - Kana hero iri muhope yako isingakuiti zvachose manzwiro ehupenyu, somuenzaniso, iwe unoziva semunhu anozivikanwa wehurumende, inotaura nezvekuda kwako kuita chimwe chinhu muupenyu. "
Kuita zvepabonde neChirwere
Zvinoshamisa kuti zvinonakidza kuona muchiroto kuti munhu wekune imwe nyika anokumanikidza sei. Kurota kwakadaro hakuwanzoitiki. "Kuita zvepabonde nemumwe munhu asingatauri kunotaura nezvekufungidzira kwako kwakagadzikana uye nyota yekudaidzira, " anodaro Olga Levinskaya. - Nekubatsira kwezviroto zvakadaro iwe unodonhedzwa kubva kunetseka dzezuva nezuva uye wakapinda munyika inonakidza yekunakidzwa kwepanyama, iyo yausingazofaniri kupa mhinduro kune ani zvake. Iwe hauna kugadzirira manzwiro, manzwiro nematambudziko, izvo zvaunogona kuvhiringidza mukugadzirisa, sezvo iwe usingazivi mumwe wako, uye iwe hautyi mitezo yekushamwaridzana kwepedyo. Zvisinei, vazhinji vakawana rumwe rutivi rwenyaya, apo iwe unozviwana uchiita zvepabonde nemunhu asingazivi munzvimbo yevanhu, uye mazana evanhu anokuona. Kuzvidya mwoyo ndiro leitmotif huru yezviroto zvakadaro. Inogona kukonzerwa nekusafara pakubata nemukomana chaiye kana kutya kwehukama hwepedyo pashure pokutambudzika. "
CHIKONZERO MUPARIDZI
Eugene Kulgavchuk, sexologist, psychotherapist, vami-mutungamiriri weRussian Association of Sexologists.
Ichi chinoshamisa, kufanana nekurota kwekurota - chimwe chekuratidzwa kwehutano hwevanhu. Uchiziva pane imwe nzvimbo newaini inonzi sexologist mune imwe kadhi iri kunze, mibvunzo yakadaro inotorwa mubhokisi rakasiyana. Nekudzivisa kwenguva refu, nhamba yezviroto zvinotambudza inowedzera. Saka nerubatsiro rwavo, uropi hwedu unobtrusively huyeuchidza nezvechikamu chinokosha chehupenyu sepabonde. Zvisinei, kurota kunokanganisa kunowanzoshanyira vanhu vane hutano husina simba hwepabonde, nokuti hutano hwavo hwepabonde hunonyatsoratidzwa.
Kurota kwakanaka kune mifananidzo yemafungiro erotic. Izvo chete, kusiyana nechekupedzisira, ivo vanonyanya kuratidzwa musingazivi. Kurota kwakadzika uye kwakaoma. Mukurota kwakadzika pane chete chinangwa chaidiwa - ichi chivharo chechido chedu chisina kuwanikwa. Mukurota kwakakomba, chikwata chinowana zvakasiyana-siyana zvakanyanya, zvinopindirana uye zvepabonde, uye zvepfungwa, uye hukama.
Kutsanangurwa kwezviroto zvakakomba zvekurota zvakanaka zvakasara kune chiremba unyanzvi hwepabonde-mupfungwa. Uye zvakakosha kufungisisa maitiro epfungwa zveumwe munhu, kuongorora zviri mukati. Pashure pezvose, kurota kwakafanana kwevanhu vakasiyana-siyana kunogona kunge kwakasiyana zvakasiyana. Semuenzaniso, chiitiko chinonakidza chokubata muchiroto chemusikana muduku anogona kutaura pamusoro pemanzwiro eropa (akaberekwa ari mucheche) nekuda kwechido chekuita zvepabonde.
Zvichakadaro, hazvina kukodzera kuti iwe ugobatanidzwawo mukududzirwa kwezviroto. Utano hwepabonde hutano hwakanaka hunoda manzwiro akanaka, kwete kuzvifarira. Pasina uchapupu hunokosha izvi zvinongoparadza hupenyu hwenyu hwose.
CHINHU CHINHU CHINHU CHINHU CHINOKUDZIDZA CHINOKUDZIDZA CHINONYANYA. Hazvisiko kutsvaga zvakakwana kubva mubhuku rimwe nerimwe reroto kududzirwa kwezviroto - zvakakosha kududzira zvepabonde muchiroto zvakakwana. Asi zvakadaro, kune huwandu hune hutano kune dzimwe kurota.
SEXY - iwe unokwezva kune zvepabonde zvinorambidzwa, njodzi uye kufara.
CHITATU - chichida zvepabonde uye kusagutsikana.
ORANGE - muedzo, mufaro. Iwe unowanzoita zvekuita zvepabonde maererano nemunhu asingazivi.
ARBUZ is an orgasm. Kana iwe ukarota pamusoro pekuti iwe unogura sei mukate, zvino muhupenyu chaihwo, zvinofadza zvepabonde hazviwaniki kwauri. Iwe unofanirwa kufungidzira kuti usakanganise mumwe wako.
BAZAR - hupenyu hwepabonde hwepabonde.
BANANI - kutanga kwemurume, phallus.
Shanduko - unoda kuzvishandura kana kusafungira iwe waunoda wekusatenda.
GORB inorwara yako, iyo inokudzivirira kubva pakuzviona iwe zvakanaka uye uchinzwa wakasununguka.
Kabluk - zvipupurire kusagutsikana kwako nebasa rako repabonde.
ICONA zvinoreva kuti ukama hwako nemumwe wako chivi uye chakaipa.
INVALID - iwe unotambudzwa nehutsika hwakakomba, uye izvi zvinokudzivirira kuti usati wamboona ukama nevakomana vakasiyana.
ZVINHU - unobata zvepabonde zvakashata. Iwe unogara uchiedza, asi nenzira ipi zvayo iwe haugoni kuwana chauri kuda.
WINDOW - iwe unowanzozvivhara kubva kune wako waunofambidzana naye, udzoke iwe pachako, kana chimwe chinhu chakashanduka zvakasiyana pane zvaunoda.