Tichitarisa varume veArab, vazhinji vakadzi vanotora pfungwa yokuti vane mafungiro mupfungwa dzavo panzvimbo yemafungiro, uye waini inopenga inoyerera mumumota. Vanoziva kupinza, kunwisa nekunaka kwavo kwakanaka, izvo vakadzi vedu vasina kumbonzwa muupenyu. Vanopa mukadzi iyo nhau inofanirwa kurota, achiziva kuti inogona sei kupa mifananidzo pamusoro peshoko rehupenyu uye rudo rukuru rwavakaona mumaziso ake. Iko kupi unyanzvi hwevanhu vokumaodzanyemba hunonyengedza, chii chiri kumashure mazwi aya akanaka uye chii chiri maonero echokwadi pamusoro pepabonde pakati pevarume veArabhu? Verenga pamusoro payo pasi apa.
Zvose zvinotanga nechitendero
Chitendero cheArabhu ndiIslam, pane zvose zvakanaka pamusoro pepabonde. Mohammed, sezvaairarama panguva yake, akaparidzirwa nekunakisisa uye manzwiro. Icho chaiva unhu hweMuporofita Mohammed uyo akakurudzira maonero epamusoro, echokwadi pane zvepabonde pane, semuenzaniso, muchiJudha kana chiKristu. Maererano neQur'an, panguva yekusika kwevanhu, Allah haana kushandisa guruva uye pasi, asiwo mbeu uye akaisa ropa. Islam inobvuma kuti Allah ane mbeu, kuti akabvuma zvepabonde sechikosha, sechikomborero, kuti kuroorana chinhu chinobva kuna Allah. Mukadzi uyu aigara achionekwa muIslami semurume wepabonde nemumwe murume, Allah akatendwa nekusikwa kwekunakirwa kwevakadzikadzi, nekuda kwekunaka kwake, kukwanisa kufadza munhu, nokuda kwekunaka kwebvudzi rake, maziso nemitsetse yomuviri wake. Asi zvakadaro hutungamiri hukuru hwakagara huri murume. Murume aigara achionekwa somunhu akakwidziridzwa pakuenzanisa nemudzimai uyo ari pfuma yemunhu uye ari pasi pesimba rake.
Maererano neKoran, zvepabonde chikomborero, chiito chechitendero chete. NdiIslam yakasika muenzaniso unozivikanwa wehutano hwehupombwe, chinangwa chekuchengeta muviri wakachena. Mumazuva ekuenda kumwedzi, mukadzi anonzi haana kuchena, uye munhu anobata mhombwe akakodzera kutukwa. Mitemo, yakatsveneswa neIslam, inodzora tsika dzepabonde, inoronga dzimwe nheyo, zvinorambidzwa nemirairo. Semuenzaniso, kurambidzwa kwehurochani, sekubva pamitemo yakagamuchirwa yehutsika.
Nezvevakadzi, mafungiro eIslam akasiyana zvikuru: anoonekwa seanoda vanoda zvepabonde neshamwari, iyo inobva kune unhu hunokosha, zvino ivo vanonzi vane maitiro asina kunaka, vanoonekwa semuipi wezvakaipa, chiratidzo chekunyengera. Nzvimbo yakaderera yomukadzi inoratidzwa mubhuku rakakurumbira "A Thousand uye One Nights". Nziyo dzakawanda uye mabhuku azere nekutsanangurwa kwakafanana kwepfungwa, zvepanyama, zvepabonde, uyewo mazano ari mubhuku rino.
Barika
Izvi zvinoshamisa muIslam zvine mhedzisiro yekare. Zvose zvakatanga na Mohammed pachake. Akaroora pazera remakore makumi maviri nemaviri kuna maikadzikadzi wake Hadiya, chirikadzi yakafuma iyo yakakura kupfuura iye kwemakore gumi nemashanu. Iyi imba yakafara uye yakagara makore 26. Mohammed aigara akatendeka kumukadzi wake kunyange makore akawanda mushure mekufa kwake. Asi zvino, achiyambuka rwonzi pa50, akachinja maonero ake zvinoshamisa. Kubva panguva iyo, Mohammed "kukunda" kwose pamusoro pevasingatendi "vakacherechedza" imba inotevera.
Maererano netsika, musikana musikana haafaniri kunge ane vakadzi vanopfuura mana panguva imwe chete. Uyu mutemo wakaonekwa uye wakakosha munguva dzehondo yekukunda - saka yaiva tsika yekutora vatapwa sevaranda, michato yakabvumirwa nevaJudha nevaKristu. Kazhinji paivawo nemuenzaniso wemhuri ine vakadzi vaviri - mudzimai mumwe uye musikana asina kuroorwa (konkubinat). Uye nhasi nhamba yemadzimai kune murume weArabhu inotarisana nehutano hwake, hutano hwemari, nhamba yevana, nezvimwe. Asi mitaka, nokuda kwechikonzero chechisikigo, haisi nguva dzose inokudzwa. Nhasi kunyange munyika dzakawanda dzeIslam kunyange varume vakapfuma kwazvo vane mudzimai mumwe chete.
MuUslam, vakadzi vanofanira kugara munharaunda. Iro shoko rokuti "harem" (kubva kuTurkey - garim) rinoreva "nzvimbo inorambidzwa". Harem inoshanda sekugara kwevakadzi nevana, inenge isisvike kune vamwe varume. Upenyu muarameum hauna kumbova paradhiso yevakadzi. Vagari varo vazhinji vakapatsanurwa kuva mapoka (madzimai, varanda, varongo) uye vakaramba vachiita zvisungo zvekare. Zvirwere zvepabonde zvevakadzi mumararame zvaiwanzosangana.
Islam, mukuenzanisa nechiJudha nechiKristu, inoratidza kushivirira kukuru kune zvepabonde, kusimbisa unyoro, kunaka kwemuviri, caress yemukadzi. Vatsigiri varo vanowedzera kusununguka, kunyange vachiona zvisina kunaka kupesana muitiro hwepabonde hwevanhu. Munyika dzeMuslim, mabhuku akanaka kwazvo uye ane pfuma yakawanda, mafiroso, kunyange mimhanzi ine zvinyoronyoro zvakashata zvakasikwa. Islam, kuratidza murume akajeka zvikuru, kunonyanya kukoshesa mukadzi, kodzero yake yekuita zvepabonde.