Uye zvakaoma sei nguva dzimwe nguva kuitika kuti ubvume kuti munhu waunovimba naye zvakavanzika zvako zvose, uyo kwemakore akawanda akatoziva pamusoro pako kudarika imwe mweya upi noupenyu munyika ino yava mutoro. Pane zvikonzero zvizhinji zvekuti izvi zviitike. Shamwari dzinogara dzichibatana nezvinodiwa, zvinonzwisisana, kuvimba uye manzwiro ekuvimbana zvakakwana kune mumwe nemumwe. Zvisinei, kuchinja muhupenyu hweumwe wenyu dzimwe nguva kunogona kuunza mhedzisiro isingadiwi. Chirongwa ichi chinozivikanwa nemarwadzo uye chinodzokorora kanopfuura kamwe muhupenyu, asiwo mumabasa emabhuku uye cinema.
Vasikana vaifara vaifara uye vakararama, sezvavanotaura, mweya mumweya, uye ipapo mumwe wavo anowana jaya, uye mamiriro ese ezvinhu ari kuchinja. Havasisiri kupedza nguva yakafanana yenguva pamwe chete, kuvimba kwehukama huri kuderera, nokuti mumwe wavo ane chimwe chinhu icho mumwe wacho haachiiti. Kana zvakanyanya kuipa, apo musikana wacho anotanga kuva neshanje nemurume wechidiki, dzimwe nguva achida "kuisa" chimiro chake, achiedza kudzoka zvakare mazuva ekare, apo iye aive pakati pekucherechedza. Vanhu vazhinji vanotarisana nedambudziko iri nenzira yakakwana, nokuti izvi hazvigoneki uye zvinowanzoitika. Kutaura kwakanyatsojeka kuti nzvimbo yemumwe musikana mumoyo mako yakasara nzvimbo yake, uye jaya iro rakasiyana zvakasiyana nemanzwiro uye hukama, semutemo, zvakakwana. Zvave zvakanyatsovharwa kubva kumunhu wawakanga uri shamwari dzako kwenguva yakati uye akagovera zvose zvawakawana naye, zvakashata uye kwete ushamwari. Hongu, uye chimwe chinhu chinoitika muhupenyu hwako hwega, uko vazhinji vedu tichagunun'una? Tsvaga nguva yekutaura naye, tsanangurai mamiriro ezvinhu ose, uye kana ukaita zvose zvakanaka, iwe uchagara nevose musikana wako uye munhu waunoda, uchigadzirisa hupenyu hwako.
Dzimwe nguva kune dzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu apo zvinonakidza kune vasikana kuti vataurirane vachitaurirana zvinetso zvemumwe, vachikurukura nezvekubuda kubva mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, vachitsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune mumwe. Uye zvakare, pakarepo imwe yei ine hupenyu huchatanga kuvandudzwa, imwe inotanga kunzwa sekusakosha uye isingakoshi. Mune mamiriro ezvinhu, zvingasarudzwa zvinogona kuitika. Chimwe chazvo ndechokuti musikana wako akazviisa pasi pachake basa re "mupi wezano" uye "chiuno" muhupenyu, uye haagoni kurarama pasina munhu anoda nguva dzose. Kazhinji vanhu vorudzi urwu havana kurongeka muupenyu hwavo hwega uye kwavari ivo zvinodiwa kuti vazvinzwe ivo pachavo mune zvinodiwa mumamiriro ehupenyu zvakakosha. Uye apo iwe uri mose wakaipa, ivo vachava newe, vachikuitira iwe nekutendeseka kwose nekubatsira kwako kutora chikamu pane zvaunofunga.
Uye kana iwe uchisimba, uye hupenyu hwako hwakagadziridzwa, haungatombogadziri mutambo wekutaura pamusoro pechikamu chisina kufara. Mune mamiriro ezvinhu, hazvifananidzi kukurumidzira kubvisa ukama neshamwari, nokuti, pasinei nokuti chii, munhu uyu aive rubatsiro rwako uye akambobatsira, uye hazvina kunaka kubhadhara kusatenda kwezvinhu zvakadaro. Edza kuunza chimwe chinhu chakanaka muupenyu hwomusikana wako, kuratidzira kuti hakuna mazamu mashoma panyika. Regai iye aedze kunzwa achifara zvakare. Sezvo wakachengetedza shamwari yakadaro, uchimutsigira munguva yakaoma kwaari, iwe uchazowana mune ramangwana. Izvo zvinoitika, uye imwe, apo shamwari isingogunun'uni nemwi chete, uye kunzwa pamusoro pezvinetso zvako nematambudziko, inowana kugutsikana mukati mukati kubva pakuzadzika kwehumwe humwe hukuru. Izvozvi zvinoitika, uye haufaniri kutsungirira mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kunze kwekuti iwe uchibvumirana hupenyu hwako hwose kuti uve chikonzero chekuzvivimbisa kweumwe munhu. Zvinonyanya kuitika kuti kana iwe uchingobva pane zvinetso zvenguva duku, munhu akadaro acharasikirwa newe uye zvose zvichagadziriswa pachako.
Zvisinei, haisi zvinhu zvose zvinogara zvakashata zvakadaro. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, dambudziko iri muhukama ndeyechinguva uye rinoitika kuvanhu vose, zvisinei nezera uye chimiro. Ushamwari ihwo hukama hwepedyo hwehukama, shamwari dzinoramba dzichitsigirwa uye nzvimbo, dzimwe nguva inotora nzvimbo yakawanda mumoyo yedu kupfuura hama. Tinogona kuvimba navo vose, pasina kutya kwekutengeswa kana kusekwa, zvisarudzo zvavo kazhinji zvakatibatsira kuti tive mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma. Zvinonyanya kukosha kukwanisa kuvada nazvo nechiremera, uye kwete kuparadzirwa nehukama hwehukama hwevanhu nekuda kwematambudziko epanguva pfupi. Uye kana iwe uchinzwa kuti shamwari yako yakashungurudzika newe, asi iye achiri munhu mumwechete wawakavimba nemakavanzika ako uye akakubatsira kanomwe mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, saka edzai kutanga kunzwisisa zviri kuitika. Zvichida, iwe unongopedzisira uchineta uye zvakakosha kuenda pane imwe nguva kwekuzorora uye kuwana mamwe manzwiro. Kukurukurirana kunoda huzhinji hwemasimba uye zviri pachena kuti mumwe wenyu anogona kunzwa akaneta, usatya kumutaurira nezvazvo.
Ko kana shamwari yangu ikava mutoro kwauri? Usamboshamiswa nemagumisiro uye usaita zvisarudzo zvine utsinye pamusoro pomunhu anokosha kwamuri, nokuti mazwi nemabasa hazvigone kudzorerwa zvakare, uye kurasikirwa neshamwari yakanaka zviri nyore kupfuura kuwana chimwe chitsva.