Ushamwari hwakasimba hahuzoputsi,
Izvo hazvizobvisi mvura nemvura.
Shamwari inoshaiwa haizoregi, haazobvunzi chinhu chakashata,
Ndizvo zvinoreva shamwari yechokwadi yakavimbika.
Shamwari inoshaiwa haizoregi, haazobvunzi chinhu chakashata,
Ndizvo zvinoreva shamwari yechokwadi yakavimbika.
Muhupenyu hwedu, vanhu vose vanotaurirana, nokuda kwekuverenga kana kuti nekuda kwekugutsikana mune zvemweya. Dzimwe nguva kugutsikana mune zvemweya kuburikidza nekutaurirana kunotungamirira kushamwari Uye chii chaicho ushamwari uye zvinobvira nhasi ? Rudzii rwehukama hunofanira kuva? Uye ndiani waunoda kuva shamwari?
Shamwari, shamwari isingakudi nokuti hauna chimwe chinhu kana kwete nokuti uri munhu mukuru muguta, shamwari dzinokuda nokuti iwe uri. Hungu, iwe uri munhu mukuru, asi mumoyo yavo, kana kwete kunyange muguta. Ndivo vanouya kwauri kuti vabatsirwe kana nekubatsira kana iwe uchida. Iko pamusoro pako iyo inorangarirwa munguva dzinofadza, uye vanoda kugovana nayo iwe. Iwe uri shamwari yake, uye iye ishamwari yako. Iwe unomusiya paanenge asiripo, uye kana nguva yasvika yemusangano, iwe unofunga "uye kuti ndakamusuwa zvakanyanya?".
Ushamwari - uyewo rudo, kunzwa kwakasimba kunobatanidza mwoyo. Mazuva ano zvakaoma zvikuru kuwana shamwari, kana zvingave zviri nyore, tine zvakawanda zvatinoda kuti shamwari ishamwari. Kana pfungwa dzedu dzinongotanganisa nezvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda. Uye zvichida haufaniri kutsvaka shamwari, vanozviwana ivo pachavo kana uchida rubatsiro rwemumwe munhu. Yeuka apo waida rubatsiro rweumwe munhu, ndiani akakubatsira? Aiwa, usaunza zvikwama kuimba, uye hauna kupa rubatsiro rwemari, asi chimwe chinhu chinokurudzira, icho chinokosha zvikuru kwauri. Uye iwe unogona here kumutumidza shamwari?
Rubatsiro rwemumwe munhu haufaniri kunge rwunokosha, runofanira kuva rwemweya. Mushure mezvose, ushamwari hahusi chinhu, asi manzwiro. Zvatinoda mumuviri zvekubatsira ndezvimwe chinhu muhupenyu, asi ivo vanoita basa guru kwatiri, nokuti tinovapa hanya zvikuru. Zvido zvetsika kana zvemweya - ndizvo zvinokosha, kana munhu ari mudhirobrium aine pachake, nenyika yake yomukati, ari mukutambudzika, saka hapana rubatsiro rwepanyama kana rubatsiro ruchabatsira.
Ushamwari hwechokwadi muhutano huzhinji hahugoni kuva nemitemo, shamwari dzinozvimisa mitemo yavo pachavo muhukama hwavo, sekuti shiri dzinogadzira dendere, zvinoreva zvakadzama sedendere, kuitira kuti vagare imomo uye vadzike mazai, vana vanozvarwa, asi kuti vangaisa sei mashizha kana shandi kana shiri yacho inosarudza kuti inamatira. Saka zviri muhukama - shamwari pachedu vanofunga kuti zvinokwanisika kuti hazvigoneki. Nenzira, ushamwari haufaniri kungotorwa chete, asiwo hunoitwa. Asi nguva dzose imwe inotora zvinopfuura imwe. Kuremekedza, kutendeseka, kuzvipira kune chikamu chehukama, kwete mitemo.
Makore mashomanana apfuura ndakasangana nepump cutie, takava neshamwari kwazvo naye, tinogona kutaurirana kwemazuva, tichipa zvipo kune mumwe kune mazororo, kuenda kumapato, kufamba, kuenda kunotenga, kubatsirana, uye kutsigira munguva dzakaoma. Asi pane chimwe chinhu chakaitika, nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero takakakavadzana naye. Handingatauri zvakawanda, asi takagumburana kune mumwe nemumwe. Iye zvino mararamiro edu akaparadzanisa nzira, uye ini ndinowanzofunga nezvazvo. Izwi rokuti "tine, hatidi, tinorasikirwa nekuchema ndezvechokwadi." Dyara kunyora nyaya ino, ndakanyatsofunga pamusoro pehukama uhwu uye nezvazvo, zvichida ndiye musikana wangu? Pakutanga, pandakanga ndiri shamwari naye, handina kufunga nezveshamwari uye zvinorehwa neshoko iri uye kukosha kweihukama. Iye zvino ndinonyatsofunga nezvehukama, pamusoro pezvinorehwa uye zvakakosha zvechiitiko ichi, uye ndinoedza kuita shamwari yangu kune wese shamwari yaanoziva.
Hazvishamisi kuti ivo vanoti ushamwari hunobereka rudo. Kune imwe nzvimbo, ndinotenda kuti ushamwari rudo. Iko kunotyisa kune shamwari, chido chekumubatsira kana kumunyaradza, kana kufara panguva dzinofadza muhupenyu hwake, hazvisi zviratidzo zve rudo here? Icho chimwe rudzi rworudo runovapo muhukama hwechokwadi. Kungova munhu kune mumwe munhu kunyanya kusatambudzika, uye handidi kufara, pane kufara kwaizova negodo. Uye izvozvo zvaizoziva ushamwari hwechokwadi, zvichida zvinoda kuburitsa vamwe. Uye mushure mokunge uchitarisana nezvipingamupinyi uye zvipingamupinyi, zvose zvakafanana zvicharambira - ushamwari.
Iye zvino ndinowanzofunga kuti ndiani anonzi shamwari, ndiani asingafaniri. Ikozvino shoko iri rine zvarinoreva, asi pamberi pandinokwanisa kudana munhu wese nerudzi urwu. Uye zvino ndinofunga ndisati ndaimudana shamwari. Ndinofungidzira ndiri kunyanya kushamwaridzana neshamwari. Saka, ndine shamwari imwechete. Ndinomuziva kwemakore anenge mashanu. Pakutanga akanditsamwisa zvikuru, inzwi rake, kuseka, mufambiro, tsika - muzvinhu zvose! Kunyange kuonekwa. Ini neimwe nzira ndakanga ndisingadi kuwirirana naye, asi kudzidza mukoroji kwakange kwakanyengera, isu pamwe chete nayo yakashandiswa kutaura saizvozvo, mumaonero angu, kana kuti panzvimbo yandaizvienzanisa nayo. Ikoko kwakanga kune ushamwari huri nyore, ndinofunga kuti zvingava kuponesa munzvimbo iyi, uye kwete kumira muchamupupuri hwezuva nezuva. Kwange kuri makore maviri kubvira patakapedza chikoro ichi, uye kwenguva ino, ndinofunga, yakanyatsoshandisirana, uye tichiri kutaurirana. Ndakashamwaridzana naye kwemakore aya, kunyange zvazvo achigara kure neni, asi tinowanzokurukura naye, asi tinoona nguva nenguva. Iye zvino ava nepamuviri, mwedzi wapera, uye ndiri kumirira mwana wavo naye, uye anofara kwazvo nokuda kwake.
Vanotaurawo kuti havasarudze shamwari. Uye, mumaonero angu, kunyanya kusarudza. Mumazuva edu, shamwari yedu yakasarudzwa inofanira kuzadzisa zvese zvatinoda, sekuti tinosarudza foni yakasiyana-siyana iyo iri nani uye inodhura. Nekubatsira kukuru uye mari shoma. Vabereki vakawanda vanotaurira vana vavo "usashamwaridzana naye! Haakwanisi kuva shamwari yako! ", Kuti vachataurirana nevana kubva munharaunda yavo. Kubva kune denderedzerei? Vana ivo vana. Havana dzidzo kana basa. Hapana. Havana denderedzwa, zvinoshanduka kuti vabereki vanosarudza shamwari yevana vavo, vachitarisa vabereki vemwana uyu. Shamwari dzine zvingakwanisi here? Mushure mezvose, hazvidi kuti shamwari iite basa rakanaka, kana dzidzo yepamusoro, kana kunyange yepamusoro maviri. Shamwari shamwari, uye hairi kuyerwa nemari muhombodo yake, kana nepamusoro. Iwe unogona kuva shamwari nevanhu vose uye kwose kwose, nemunhu. Ukama hunokosha hwomudzimu pakati pevamwe shamwari, kwete mari. Takakanganwa kuti tinonzwa sei, kune chete chete kuverenga kwakashama mukati medu. Usavhiringidza ushamwari nehuwandu. Kana mumoyo mako usingafungi nezvekufunga kweshamwari, saka hazvigoneki kuti iyi ishamwari.
Handifungi kuti neshamwari yechokwadi pano inofanira kunge iri zvinangwa zvakafanana uye zvinoda, zvinokwanisika kuva neshamwari pasina. Kunyangwe munguva yedu ishamwari nevanhu ivavo vane zvido zvinowanzodiwa, nokuti vanhu havadi kuzvishungurudza pachavo nekutsvaga shamwari yechokwadi kune avo vangave vaine zvido zvakasiyana. Mushure mezvose, zvinonakidza dzimwe nguva kurwisana neshamwari pane dzimwe nyaya dzinobata iwe kana iye. Ingova shamwari, zvisinei kuti chii. Kurukura nemunhu, kumuremekedza, ona nyika yomukati yomumwe munhu. Ingova shamwari neshamwari yezvaari, ingoremekedza iye uye zvaanoda, nokuti ndiye shamwari yako.
Kunyange zvazvo ndiri shamwari neshamwari yangu, avo varipoteredza vanoonekwa sevamwe shamwari, uye ini ndinoedzawo kuona uhu hukama hukama hwedu. Kuyunivhesiti, hatisi kubva kune umwe kune imwe nhanho, nguva dzose uye kwose kwose pamwe chete. Uye zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti muhukama hwedu anotora zvakawanda kupfuura zvaanopa. Handisi kunyanya kufarira kukurukurirana pamusoro pehupenyu hwangu hwega, uye anonyanya kugamuchira, ndicho chikonzero ndinoziva zvose pamusoro pake, asi iye haatombofungi nezvangu. Apo tichiri kudzidza, isu nguva dzose tiri pamwe chete, asi munguva yedu yakasununguka kubva pakudzidza isu hationi nguva zhinji, hatiwanzoitanidzi. Ndakakanganwa kutaura kuti tiri kudzidza nekunyora. Saka unogona kufungidzira kuti ushamwari hwedu chii. Uye ini ndinomirira ushamwari zvakasiyana.
Ndinoyeuka chaizvo zvakajeka kurwisana kwedu kwokupedzisira. Isu tinopika chete zvese, chaizvoizvo hatina kupika, asi saka takataura boka rezvinosvibisa kuti ani zvake anogona kurwara kubva pamashoko akadaro uye kutaura. Kunyangwe vachitaura sokunge shamwari dzisina kupika, dzinogara dziri shamwari. Mune izvi ndakave nechokwadi. Zuva rakatevera takazotanga kutaura, sekunge pasina chakaitika. Kana kuti zvichida izvi zvakasimbiswa nehutano hwekudzidzira kuIsi Institute kweimwe makore mana ??? Icho hachisi muenzaniso wakajeka weushamwari hwekugona nyore here? Uye kunyange zvazvo ndine shungu dzekudzidzira iye uye zvisinei kuti tiri kukakavara zvakadini, havazoperi. Uye kana ndikarasikirwa naye, ndichafunga pamusoro pake here? Uye kana ini ndichida kudzoka neshamwari? Nokuti apo isu takabatana neyunivhesiti.
Ndinonzwisisa kuti munhu wese ane maonero ake pamusoro pehukama hwechokwadi, asi, zvinosuruvarisa, pfungwa dzacho hadzisi nguva dzose dzinofanana neichoicho, uye zvinokwanisika kuchinja dzimwe pfungwa muchokwadi, asi kwete ushamwari. Uye, zvichida, shamwari dzechokwadi dzine mumwe munhu asingafungi nezvehukama uye asingatambudzi pamusoro pezvinoreva uye zvinoreva, ndiye shamwari dzepedyo, kwete kufunga. Uye uyo anofunga pamusoro peizvi zvose zvinoreva kuti anosarudza shamwari dzake nedzimwe nzira dzinogona kusimbisa ushamwari hwakanaka hwepfungwa dzake. Shamwari chaiyo haina kusikwa, inomuka. Saka, haufaniri kufunga, asi unofanirwa kunzwa nekuteerera mwoyo wako. Usafunga, asi gamuchira ushamwari sezvazviri. Zviri nani kusafunga nezveshamwari, asi ingova shamwari!