Kusarudza basa
Kusarudza basa ndiro chisarudzo chinokosha zvikuru, nokuti iyi ndiyo nzira iyo munhu angakwanisa kuenda nayo makore makumi mana ehupenyu hunotevera. Nezera remakore gumi nemasere, vashomanana vane kukwana kwakakwana kuita zvisarudzo zvakadaro. Kudzidza ku yunivhesiti kuchapa mukana wekunzwisisa zvavanoda. Hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kuti izvi zvinotanga nevaya vashoma "nhema dzinotanga", nokuti jaya racho rinoda nguva yekuparadzanisa zvido zvake kubva pane zvinotarisirwa nevabereki vake. Mukugadzirwa kwekuita basa, wechidiki anowanzomanikidzwa nekusava nechivimbo chokuti achabudirira. Maererano nezvimwe zvidzidzo, vanhu vakamira pamucheto webasa remakambani vane mikana yakawanda yekutambura nekutambudzika kune avo vane masimba ekutarisira. Somuenzaniso, kushungurudzika kwakanyanya. Mudiki wehofisi yehofisi anowanzosangana nekutya kukuru. Kutanga nekambani ine chirango chakasimba uye purogiramu yakasimba yezuva ndeyekunetseka kune vakawanda.
Kusununguka kwezvemari
Vazhinji vechidiki kwenguva yekutanga muhupenyu hwavo vanova vakazvimiririra mari. Sezvo kugamuchira chikwereti uye zvimwe zvikwereti hazvisisiri kubva kuvabereki, vanosarudza kushandisa mari yavo pachavo. Dzimwe nguva paunotanga kushanda iwe unofanira kutamira kune imwe guta, iro pacharo rinotakura zvakawanda zvitsva. Zvisinei, izvi zvinokonzerwa nematambudziko anoshanda - somuenzaniso, kuzvimiririra kutsvaga dzimba pasina rubatsiro kubva kuvabereki. Dzidzo yepamusoro inogadzira tsika yekusununguka kwakakwana. Kusarudzwa kwezvidzidzo zvekuchikoro uye kunyange kupinda misangano kunowanzoenderana nemudzidzi. Pamitengo yakakwirira yekugara, kunyanya mumaguta makuru, kutenga imba yako kana imba yako inowanzoita sechinangwa chisingawanikwi. Kune vechidiki vakawanda izvi zvinokwanisika bedzi nekutsigirwa kwemari kubva kune hama. Kuparara kwehukama hwehukama, kushaya simba kwehukama hunoshamwaridzana kunoita kuti pave nematambudziko asingadziviriki.
Shamwari itsva
Ukama hwehukama hunosungirirwa munguva iyi kakawanda hunopera hupenyu. Kupinda yunivhesiti, jaya riri pakati pevanhu vatsva vasina kufambidzana nemhuri. Kwenguva yekutanga iyo iri pakati peavo vakaungana pamwechete nekuda kwezvavanofarira. Yunivhesiti inzvimbo yakanaka yekuziva nevanhu vemazera ako, yakabatana nezvinodiwa. Shamwari dzemakore emudzidzi dzinowanzoramba shamwari dzehupenyu.
Tsvaga Mubatsiri
Vechidiki vakawanda vanosarudza shamwari dzepedyo pakati pevaya vanodzidza navo kana kushanda pamwe chete, asi kutsvaga uku kunogona kutanga nemutambo wakaoma wekuedza. Vamwe vechidiki vane hukama hukama hwepedyo, vamwe - vashoma chete. Sezvo vakaronga hupenyu hwehupenyu, vechidiki vanotanga kupedza nguva yakawanda pamwe nemudiwa wavo kana kuti shamwari yavo kupfuura shamwari neshamwari dzavo. Maererano nekutsvakurudza, vanhu vazhinji vanosarudza mumwe wevadzidzi pamwe nenharaunda imwechete yezvidzidzo uye kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yemagariro evanhu. Iyi muenzaniso, zvisinei, inogona kuchinjwa nezvinhu zvakadai sekuonekwa uye kuchengeteka kwemari. Kune makore makumi matatu, vanhu vanowanzouya kuzoongororazve ukama hwavo nevabereki vavo. Vakawanda vanotanga kuonga mupiro wevabereki muupenyu hwavo. Kune avo vasina kugadzirira kugadzirisa hukama, huroorana hwemhuri ndiyo mukana wekubatanidza zvakanakira kurarama pamwechete nehukama hwehukama.
Upenyu Hwokubatana
Nzira yekuwana dzidzo kuitira kuti "inokwezva" huri kuyaruka, kuti hupenyu huri pamwe musati waroorana hunova rudzi rwechimiro. Munguva yedu, apo kusabvumirana kwehukama hwehukama hakuitungamiri kurudziro rwemagariro evanhu, uye simba rekudzivisa rechitendero harina simba, vechidiki vakawanda vanosarudza kusaroorwa kana zvachose. Chikonzero chikuru chekusika paviri ndechekudzivirira vana pavanotarisira kuchengetwa kaviri kune rumwe rutivi rwevabereki. Zvisinei, ichi chinhu chisina maturo, chimiro chacho chiri nguva dzose chiri pangozi yekugona kutengesa, kuparara kwehukama kana kurambana.
Kuvimba nevabereki
Mushure memakore makumi maviri, vazhinji vanoona kuti vachiri kuchengeta kuvimba kwepfungwa kune vabereki vavo, kunyanya mumatambudziko ehupenyu. Mukuwedzera, mumamiriro ezvinhu ekuwedzera kwekugara kwekugara, vechidiki vanofanira kurarama kwenguva yakareba nevabereki vavo kana kudzokera kumba mushure mokunge vapedza kudzidza kubva yunivhesiti. Kunyange avo vanogara vari voga, dzimwe nguva vanoramba vachida mari kune vabereki vavo. Kuvandudzwa kwehupenyu kunogona kuonekwa sekuenzaniswa kwezvikamu zvehupenyu humwe, imwe neimwe iyo inobatanidzwa nekubuda kwematambudziko chaiwo epfungwa. Kusvikira kune makore makumi matatu, vechiduku vakawanda vanovimba zvakanyanya mukutonga kwavo uye vanobatanidza kukoshesa kwekubvumirwa kwevabereki. Vanotanga kuona munhu mumai kana baba vavo, uye kushanyira kumba kwavo kunowedzera nguva shoma. Vamwe vabereki vakaoma pakurambana uku. Munguva ino, ukama huri pakati paamai nemwanasikana hunogona kunge hwakanyanya kuoma. Kazhinji amai vane maonero avo pokuti vangararama sei mwanasikana. Mwanasikana anoedzawo kuzvisimbisa mumabasa emukadzi mukuru.
Kuberekwa kwevana
Mumhuri dzakawanda, kuparadzaniswa pakati pevana nevabereki ndekwenguva pfupi. Kuonekwa kwevazukuru kazhinji kunotungamirira kune kubatana kwezvizvarwa zvose zvitatu, pasinei netsika yekuita semurume mumhuri yemudzimai. Kunyange zvakadaro, vamwe vanasekuru navanasekuru vanosarudza kusashatisa nguva yavo vachibatsira mune dzidzo yevana vazukuru. Kuswedera kwera kukwegura kwevabereki zvakare kunotungamirira kune kuchinja muhukama - iye zvino mabasa avo anoenda kuvana. Matambudziko emhuri uye emari anobatanidzwa nekuchengeta vabereki vanorwara anogona kuva netsika dzakanaka, mumuviri uye mune zvemari kunetsa. Vanhu vanowanzorohwa pakati pezvinodiwa zvevana vavo nevabereki vavo.
Kuenderera mberi kukura
Kubudirira kwevanhu hakugumi nekuguma kwehucheche nekuyaruka. Murume ane makore gumi nemashanu kusvika makumi mana mukukura kwake anoenda mumatanho mana. Mumazuva okutanga (kubvira makore 17 kusvika ku22), anozvimiririra nevabereki vake uye anoziva "kurota" kwake. Akazvisimbisa pabasa revakuru, anotanga "kutevera kurota" - anovaka basa, anozviwana ari murume, uye dzimwe nguva - anowana mhuri. Anenge makore makumi mana nemakumi mana, nguva yekuvandudzika kwehutano inotanga, dzimwe nguva inotungamirira pakugumisa kuti zvinangwa hazvigoneki. Chikamu chokupedzisira (kazhinji chinouya kusvika makore makumi mana) ndiyo nguva yekushandura kusvika pakugadzikana. Upenyu hwemukadzi hunonyatsozivikanwa nekuda kwekubereka uye kushanduka kwakafanana mune basa rehupenzi, saka zvakaoma zvikuru kuvadzidzi vepfungwa kuti vatonge kuvepo kwezvikamu zvakadaro mukugadzirwa kwayo. Upenyu hwevanhu vakuru hunobatanidza matambudziko emari anokonzerwa nekubhadhara kwezvikwereti uye zvikwereti. Kuti urege kudzivirira mari inobva pakuzvigara, vanhu vaduku vanogara vachigara nevabereki vavo.