Kutsanya kune pamuviri uye amai vanoyamwisa
Pano iwe unogona kuita kugoverwa muzvikamu zviviri: zvakanyanya vakadzi vanotenda, vane ruzivo rwenyaya iyi rwakakonzerwa netsika dzemhuri uye vaKristu vemazuva ose, vasina ruzivo rwakanyanya munyaya dzekutenda, asi vachiri muzinga risina kunzwisisa vanoziva kuti kutsanya chinhu chinokosha muupenyu hwedu hwemweya. Havana kuziva nzira yekuzvitsaurira ivo pachavo mumashure uye kuti vangateerera sei; nokusingaperi, mumwe anoda chimwe chinhu uye anoda kuzvidzora pachake mukudya, zvinowanzova nyore kunetseka.
Timofey weArekizandriya mumutongi wayo wechitanhatu unoti mukadzi akazvara mwana haafaniri kutsanya, asi kuti azvisimbise nechinguva chakanaka nekuda kwehutano hwemwana. Asamo kuberekwa atova nechokuita pamberi paMwari uye naizvozvo kana achida kutsanya, kuitira kuti arege kukuvadza hutano hwake uye utano hwomwana. Uye mamiriro ake ezvinhu munguva ino inofanira kunge inofadza, inofara, nokuti inopfuudzwa kumwana. Mwari haasi mumiririri uyo anonyora kuti iwe unodya zvakadini, zvinokosha kwaari kwaari kuti unokura sei mwana wako uye mune tsika dzipi dzamuchaunza.
Zvipire iwe kuzvitsanya pakutanga uye zvakanyanya mukusaziva, kuvaraidzwa, kutongerwa, nekuwedzera kune vamwe, nekusimbisa rubatsiro rwevamwe. Ichi chichava kudya kwakanakisisa.
Zvakakosha here kuti urambe uchitsanya muukama hwemhuri ?
Panyaya iyi, kunyanya vafundisi vanoshingaira vanowanzoti peregibayut tsvimbo, vachitora rusununguko rwekuti panguva yekutsanya, pasina mhaka mumwe wako anofanira kuita zvepabonde. Haisi chokwadi kana isu tichati, hafu-chokwadi. Zvakare, regai tishandure kune zvinyorwa zvinobudirira. Kunyange Mupositora Paulald kumhuri yakaroorana vakagadzikana zvakadaro: musanyara kubva kune mumwe nemumwe kana kungobvumirana kwenguva pfupi, iyo iwe pachako iwe pachako uchagovera kuminyengetero nekutsanya. Azatem zvakare vave pamwe chete, kuitira kuti Satani arege kukuedza nekusaziva. Uye ndeupi mumwewo watinofanira kuvimba nenyaya idzi, sei kwete kune mumwe wevadzidzi vaKristu?
Saka pano zvose zvinonyatsojeka: murume nomudzimai vanofanira kusarudza chiyero chekutsanya uye kuti vangatarisa zvakadini. Ishe haadi kuti mhuri iparadze nekuda kwekuzvidzora muhupenyu hwewanano. Nzvimbo yakadaro inonyanya kukosha, mushure mezvose, chinhu chakakosha ndechekuchengetedza hukama hwakanaka mumhuri nemamiriro ese ezvinhu.
MuTimoti Timoti anotsanangura kuti mazuva ekuzorora anogamuchirwa kubvisa, uye ichi ndicho chikonzero chemazuva ano muLiturgy Church the Divine Passes. Kana iri Rende Rokukuru, vhiki dzekutanga uye dzekupedzisira bedzi zvichave zvakamanikidzwa. Mune mamwe mazuva - chete paanoda.
Tinofanira kutsanya vana here?
Uyu mubvunzo wakaoma. Muchidimbu, hapana mhinduro inoparidzirwa nayo. Pano, uye kutendeuka, uye pfungwa dzechiremba nevadzidzisi dzinopesana.Kakawanda, mwana, semuviri unokura, haafaniri kurega kuputika uye mairi.
Nokudaro, zvinodikanwa kugadzirisa mwana asiri mune zvigadzirwa zvaanoda pakugadzirwa kwemuviri (iyo nzvimbo inenge ichiri kure), asi, somuenzaniso, mumitambo, kugara pamakombiyuta, kutarisa mifananidzo. Iwe unogonawo kugadzirisa kudya, kusingaverengi kubva kumanyoko emishonga yemwana iyo inobva mumuviri isingauyi. Somuenzaniso, makeke, makeke uye masipi. Izvi zvinoreva kuti izvi ndezvokudya zvinofadza, izvo zvinokurudzira mwana zvakanyanya kukuvadza kupfuura zvinobatsira. Saka, zvinobvira kuunza mitemo yakadaro kumwana. Uye havangavi kukuvadza muviri uye kuunza mweya kumweya.
Tinofanira kutevera vanhu vakwegura nevarwere here?
Pakati pevanhu iye zvino iko kukanganiswa kwakakwana mumanzwiro. Mumwe munhu anotenda kuti zvakakosha kuchengetedza nzvimbo yacho maererano nemitemo, iyo chete inoramba nyama, uye inotevera "haidyi hove, asi inodya munhu," saSeraphim weSarov akati. Zvinoreva - kubva kumiti yezvipfuwo zvinoramba uye kutumira zvine chekuita nekushingaira, asi pedyo-kukanganiswa nehasha uye kusagadzikana hazviiti. Asi ndiani anoda iyi chinyorwa? Kutsanya kwakafanana, kutanga kwekuzvidzivirira pakunamata, uye zvekunyama.
Saka, Baba Vechechi vanoti kutsanya kunokosha, sezvinogona kuitwa nomunhu. Vamwe pundits vanotenda kuti kupedza zvakanyanya kudya kunobatsira munhu ane utano, asi murwere anofanirwa kuva nekuzorora kukuru, kunyanya kana chirwere ichi chakakomba. Vadzidzisi vanobatisisawo maonero aya, vachikakavadzana kuti Chechi haina kumanikidzira munhu kutora pane izvo zvisingakwanisi simba rake. Mitemo yekutsanya yakasikwa kusvika pakuzara uye hakuna kuparadzana kwevatongi uye vatendi mavari, saka munhu wose anofanira kusarudza pacheche yake yekuzvidzivirira.Asi kana kutsanya kunopera, munhu anofanira kuchema pamusoro pokushaya kwake, kuitira kuti Ishe avakanganwire.
Zvirwere zvatova nemiganhu yega pachayo, inodaro Baba John, uye kana munhu asina kunyunyuti panguva yekurwara, asi anotora mutsa, achiziva kuti izvi zvose zvinobva kuzvitadzo zvedu, zvino izvi zvatova kutama. Uye kana panguva imwechete iye asingazvidziviriri pakudya, asi mwoyo wake unorugare uye mafungiro anofara, ipapo nzvimbo yacho yakarurama. Uye kana munhu panguva ino anoita rudo, anobatsira vanoshayiwa, anogovera chidimbu chechingwa - izvi zvinonyanya kufadza Mwari.
Kukurumidza sei munhu wemazuva ano - mazano anowanikwa
Munguva yekare, chokwadi, vanhu vainyanya kutsanya asi asi zvisikwa zvipenyu zvaive zvakasiyana, vanhu vairarama zvakanaka. Zvokudya zvakanga zvakasikwa uye mvura-yakachena, kiyi, inobatsira vanhu. Isu tave iko zvino zvakasiyana zvikuru nemadzitateguru ekare nehutano hwavo, zvakare, zvose zviri zviviri uye, pasina mubvunzo, mumweya. Munhu wese anobvumirana, kusanganisira vafundisi nevarapi. Nokudaro, tsika dzemadzitateguru edu hazvibvumirwi zvachose kwatiri, nhasi, nemakumbo edu mapenzi, guta risina maturo uye kutya kunotyisa.
Vanachiremba veOrthodox vanopupura kuti chinangwa chikuru chekutsanya ndechekuchenesa mwoyo kubva kuzvitadzo, kumira mumazuva ose asina maturo uye kufunga nezvehupenyu hwako, pamusoro pezviito nemabasa, pamusoro pewakapoteredza. Ichenesa mwoyo wehasha, kutsamwa, godo, kuzvikudza uye kuwedzera kuhupenyu hwako kunyanya zvishoma rudo uye tsitsi kune vamwe.
Nokudaro, hazvina kunaka kurondedzera kutsanya chete kumiganhu yezvokudya. Kutsanya ndiko kurovedza kuda, kuedza kunoitwa nomunhu pamusoro pake, kuramba kubva kune zvinodhakwa, tsika, kudhakwa, kukara uye nzira yakasununguka yehupenyu. Igovera chimedu chechingwa kumakwikwi, tungamira murwere uye ubatsire murume akwegura - uye nzvimbo yako ichave yakanyanyisa kuna Ishe kupfuura kana iwe uchinzwa nzara, asi mumoyo mako uchagara nekutsamwa uye kuvenga kune vamwe.
Kupfupisa, tinokwanisa kuziva pfungwa huru dzepasita nhasi:
- Chengetedza Lent, uyewo mugore rose pasina kukanganisa - Chitatu neChishanu.
- Kutsiva pasina nyama uye mukaka kutakura.
- Mavhiki ekutanga uye ekupedzisira - nzvimbo yakasimba, mune imwe nzvimbo - unokwanisa kugadzira hove uye hove.
- Kunakidza kunobata pavhiki yevhiki kubvumira.
- Usatevedzera mutemo wekutonga uye usaisa kushingaira kusina kunaka kune iwe nevamwe.
- Dzidzira iwe mumabasa ekuratidza, ita kuti vanhu vave nerudo uye vabatsire kutambura.
- Enda kuchechi, kureurura uye kugamuchira kuyanana.
- Usashamwaridzana, tungamira imwe nzira yakadzikama uye yakadzikama yehupenyu. Kwete kuti uchengetedze mukati memwoyo wehasha, kutsamwa, kutsamwa uye kusada, kwete kutonga munhu upi noupi uye kwete kunyomba. Usave uchivengana nemunhu upi noupi, ivai nemoyo murefu nekukanganisa kwevamwe vanhu uye edza kugadzirisa iwe pachako.
Iyi ndiyo mitemo inogona kukundwa nemunhu wose anoda kutsanya nekuchengetedza mweya wake wakachena.