Albert Camus.
Mazuva ano munyika kune vanhu vakawanda vanowirwa neusuru uye vanogara vachishamisika-sei zvakaoma kuwana rudo rwako?
Chimwe chezvikonzero zvakakosha zvekukundikana mukuwana rudo rwako nderangariro yevaya vanotsvaka mweya yavo yemukati, kuti ivo vachada chete kana vachinge vazvida ivo pachavo uye vanowana vanhu vanovada navo. Singles vanotarisa rudo rwavo, asi ivo vanogunun'una pamanzwiro aya. Rudo runotamirwa mangwana uye, saAlberta, Alberta, haanzwisisi kuti mangwana haazombofi yakasvika. Sei? Kunyanya munhu anoda, kusimba kunzwira tsitsi uye kufarira kwevamwe, uye zvinopesana - kusava nerudo kunoparadzanisa vamwe.
Varume nevadzimai vakafamba munzira iyi, nenzira yega, havazivi mafungiro aya epfungwa, asi inowanika nguva dzose. Pamutambo, muzororo, mune imwe yemitambo, mafirimu ane nguva inonzwisisika, imwe chete uye mamiriro ezvinhu akafanana: inova chero chiitiko, mukadzi achitsvaka rudo, ataura nevarume vaviri uye asingawani mutungamiriri pabhiza jena, mashizha kana anotaura chete nevanozivana navo, uye vose vamwe vanhu vanongomira kuvapo.
Sarudza kuti iwe uri kubvisa rudo rwako, izvo zvinoreva upenyu, mangwana, unogona kuedza pane zviito zvinotevera: kana iwe unonoka kutenga zvinhu zvakanaka, kudya, kutenderera kunofadza uye zvivako kusvika kuchiedza uye zvakafanana zvezuva iroro "guru" munguva yemberi, apo iwe kusangana nerudo, saka iwe unorarama mangwana uye uone rudo rwako ruchava rakaoma kwazvo. Kuti urege kupedza nguva uye uwane imwe yako nehafu chete iwe unoda kudzidza humwe unhu hunofarira hupenyu hupenyu hwehutaneti, dzidza kupa uye kugamuchira rudo. Zvose izvi zvichakwezva kwauri chaizvoizvo vanhu ivavo vane unhu hwaunoda.
Mukuwedzera pane izvo zvataurwa, zvinogona kuva nezvimwe zvinokonzera kusurukirwa, nokuda kwekuwana izvo zvinowanzodiwa kwenguva pfupi, mupfungwa, zvichida zvemari nezvimwe zvinotarisirwa zvinodiwa. Chinhu chakakosha apa hachisi kurasikirwa netariro kwenguva dzakanaka.
Chero chii chakanga chisina kuoma kuwana rudo rwako, pane imwe nzvimbo, zvechokwadi, unofunga kufunga nhamba dzinoverengeka dzinonakidza. Zvakakosha kutarisa-svetuka kubasa - kamwe-kamwe waunoshanda naye agere patafura iri pedyo iwe hafu yako? Iwe unogona kuedza kukurukura nevashandi pamwe navo, uye zvichida ukama huchakura huve chimwe chinhu chinogutsa, kwete kunyanya kuda, asi somuenzaniso ushamwari hwechokwadi uye hwakasimba, hunove hunokosha zvikuru.
Iwe unogona, iwe wakagadzikana mukunyaradza kweimba yako, ita unyanzvi kuburikidza neInternet, iyo iyo, kana iwe uri kukurumidza, inogona kuita kuti chimwe chinhu chinakidze. Mugwagwa unopawo mikana yakawanda yekudanana - dzimwe nguva kungotaura mazwi mashomanana muchitoro, bhazi kana kune imwe nzvimbo mupaki inogona kuwana munhu akareba kwenguva refu.
Izvo zvinokwanisika kuti uzive mumakwikwi, masayenzi, mafirimu, maresitorendi nedzimwe nzvimbo dzevanhu, uyewo pane imwe nzvimbo yekugara kana mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana dzekushanyirwa. Muzviitiko izvi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti mufambiro wevanhu, kuonekwa kwahwo kunogona kugadzirisa kuve nekuremekedzwa, izvi zvinonyanya kukosha munyaya dzekubiridzira uye kazhinji. A inoverengeka pagungwa, panzvimbo iyo inongogumira kune zvepabonde chete, izvo zvinounza mufaro, asi zvinopera mushure mekunge iwe ugova pamativi akasiyana uye zviyero. Kune dzimwe nzira dzakawanda dzekuzivana uye kuwana mweya wako wechirume, pano chinhu chikuru hachisi kugara wakamira uye kumirira kana ichiuya, uye kuita uye iwe haufaniri kufunga nezvekuti sei uye nei zvakanyanya kuoma kuwana rudo rwako.