Mukadzi munguva yedu yekufambira anowedzera uye ane simba. Munhu asingadi, asi tanga kuvateerera. Uye, chii chavanogona kuita, kurwisana nevakuru uye madzimai anokurudzira achivatonga.
Kutonga kwechikadzi ndiyo dzidzo yekuteerera kumurume. Kana iwe uri mukadzi ane simba, iwe unoda kuwana munhu asina simba kupfuura iwe. Iko kunobva kwaari kuti iwe unogona kusimudza iyo yaunoda. Iwe unogona kuita chinhu kubva kwaari, kunyanya muranda. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuita zvinhu zvose zvakarurama, dzidzo yenyaya iyi inoda kuderedzwa kuduku uye imwe nguva.
Pakutanga, varume vakadaro vanonamata mukadzi, vanopfeka mumaoko ake chaiwo uye nenzira yokufananidzira. Vanoda kumupa mukadzi zvose zvavari uye zvakanyanya. Mukadzi wacho anonakidzwa uye anowedzera pakarepo mudzimai wake "pasi pezvitsitsinho." Vanhu vasina simba havaiti zvakanyanya kudzivisa, ivo vanoda chaizvo kuteerera. Kazhinji kazhinji varume ava vaiva amai vakanyanyisa avo vairamba vachimukurudzira kuti ave mukuru pane zvepabonde.
Kuti munhu wako azviise pasi uye asingagoni kukuudza pamusoro peshoko, unofanira kutanga uzviisa pamusoro payo. Saka akabva aziva nzvimbo yake yechokwadi. Kana iwe pakutanga waiva usina hanya uye wakanaka, uye ipapo uchitanga kuratidza mitsetse yako, zvino munhu anogona kutya uye kutiza iwe.
Munhu asina simba achakumbira nguva dzose kukupa mazano, acharatidzika zvakananga mumuromo wako uye kumirira mhinduro iyo inogadzirisa kwaari. Kana iwe uchiramba, inogona kungoita mapenzi. Iwe unomutora iye naamai vake vanodikanwa, avo vaityisa zvakanyanya, asi panguva imwechete iye airemekedza uye akaonga.
Kudzidzisa kuzviisa pasi kwevanhu vasina simba kwakanyanya nyore, akatowana kwauri kuzviisa pasi, akagadzirira kuzadzisa chero ipi zvayo yako. Yeuka mitemo yakawanda yekurera uye kusungirirwa kwekurera.
Iwe unofanira kumuudza iye kubva pakutanga kuti iwe uri musoro wemhuri;
Shoko rako ndiro rokutanga, uye-rechipiri uye harisi kuzofungidzirwa nguva dzose;
Iwe ndiwe wekupedzisira kuva nekodzero yezvinhu zvose, uye anongova nemvumo yako yakananga;
Chido chemukadzi uyu murairo usingagoni kudziviswa;
Mukadzi ndiye akakwirira kupfuura ose, anogona kungove akadzika kupfuura Mwari, asi kwete pasi kune munhu;
Iwe unosarudza zvauchaita uye zvaunoita, ita sarudzo, uye anongoteerera mirairo iyi chete.
Kubva pamitemo iyi iri nyore uye isinganzwisisiki, hupenyu hweMadzimai uye Mushumiri hwakavakwa. Asi chete kana iwe uchida chaizvo kutenga "dzimba", iyo isina kodzero yekuvhura muromo wako mukururamisa kwako. Nokudaro haatauri chero zvaanenge akanganisa uye ane mhosva, uye angarangwa.
Kurangwa kwakasiyana, zvichienderana nezvamunoda iwe mose. Zvinogona kuva zvose kuranga nemuromo uye kurangwa mumuviri. Izvozvi chirango chinotakurawo hukama hwepabonde pakati pako. Saka kuti utaure chirevo chekutanga pamberi peusiku hutsva. Kazhinji varume vakadai pamubhedha vanofarira kuteerera mukadzi. Kunyangwe mune zvepabonde, mukadzi anogona kutamba basa guru, uye kuita kuti iye anoda aite chero chaanoda. Kubva kutsvoda makumbo ake, kumitambo yakakura yemitambo.
Munyaya ipi zvayo, kuitira kuti vakaroorana vasasimuka mumhuri yavo, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti haifaniri kumanikidzwa. Hapana chikonzero chokurwisana pamunhu kune munhu, kunzwisisa kumwe chete kunodiwa mune zvose.
Usati watanga "kutamba" mumhuri yeMhandara uye Muranda, ronga pamwe nemumwe wako pa "gungwa" kuti achaita sei pane izvi. Uye, kana akagadzirira mamiriro ako ese, ipapo unotanga kudzidzisa kuteerera kwake. Uye ita pamusoro pake sezvinoda moyo wako. Iwe unoda kuzvidzora iwe kumurume, tsvaga mumwe mudzidzi akakodzera. Zvimwe zvine simba uye zvine simba, uye ipapo basa rako mumhuri richachinja, iwe uchava muranda weTenzi wako.