Pasinei nekurwisana kwepabonde, kana kuti bacchanalia yemitambo paTV, uye mumutambo, pasinei nekuita sekuneta kwechiremera chemhuri, vakadzi vakawanda, savarume, edza kudzivisa rudo rwetatu. Mune izvi zvinouya kune rubatsiro rwemafungiro asina kujeka.
Rudo rwechirwere chetatu - zvirongwa pachazvo hazvina kugadzikana. Kunyanya kana vachibatana nevarume vakaroora. Sezvo mutemo, vanoparadzanisa zvakananga mushure mokunge vauya. Zvechokwadi, kune mamiriro ezvinhu apo hukama hutatu huripo kwemakore, asi mumatambudziko akawanda kusengedzwa kwemukaro kunova iyo nguva inokosha muhupenyu hwemhuri, izvo zvinoita kuti kuongororwa kwakakomba kwehutsika. Mhuri yacho inoparadzanisa, iyo inowanzoitika kakawanda, kana murume anodzivisa kufambidzana kune rumwe rutivi, izvo zvinowanzoitika kashoma. Sezvo mutemo, chigadziro chinokonzera kuparadzaniswa kwepatatu chinowanikwa kuwanikwa kwemukadzi wemutemo weupombwe. Uye chikamu chiduku chemavhisi ose anoroora anogona kugara kwemakore.
Uyezve, pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo vose vatatu vanoziva pamusoro pechanhatu, asi ivo vakanyarara. Kwemakumi emakore, pangava nekurwa kwemunhu umo pasina munhu anorasikirwa uye mukadzi akakunda. Kune mumwe chete anokunda - murume pachake. Hazvishamisi kuti inofungirwa kuti nzira yakanakisisa yekuparadza ruvara runyararo ndeyekutanga kweiye ari mairi mune imwe chete. Mune mamiriro eruvhisi ane murume akaroorwa, kazhinji munhu iyeye oga anokwanisa kuita sarudzo ndokugumisa ukama "hwevatatu".
Kana iwe uripo kwenguva refu mukati mehukama nemurume akaroorwa, zvakaoma kuti iwe ukanganwe rudo rwemunhu akadaro. Mushure mezvose, kubatana nemurume akaroorwa kunoparadza kuzviremekedza kwomudzimai zvakanyanya zvokuti kubuda muukama naye ndiko kwakanyanya kuoma kwenguva refu. Uye zvakadaro zvakakosha! Kana uri kufunga nezvekukanganwa rudo rwomurume akaroorwa, unofanira kuziva mitemo yakasiyana-siyana yekuvaka ukama naye.
Chinhu chokutanga chaunoda kunzwisisa ndechekuti haasi mukadzi wese anogona kuona rudo rwemurume akaroorwa. Iwe unofanira kufungisisa zvawakaita, ukama mumhuri yevabereki. Zvichida kuti shoko rokuti "rudo" rinobatanidzwa newe nemashoko okuti "mhirizhonga," "kunyadziswa," "kurwadziwa." Munyaya iyi, iwe usina kuziva unogona kutsvaga hupenyu hwose kune varume vane dambudziko, kusanganisira varume vakaroora, nokuti ukama navo huchakubatsira kuti uve nemafungiro emhuri yemubereki. Tsika - haina kureva zvakanaka, uye kubva pamitemo yakaipa iyo inofanirwa kubvisa. Kuti uve nemukana wekukanganwa rudo rwemurume ane chindori chechato pamunwe wake, unofanira kuwana simba uye ushingi hwokubata nemutoro wekare. Iyo yakaoma kunzwisisa uye ichivhiringidza hukama pakati pevabereki vako pakati pavo, zvinoreva zvakanyanya kuva kutendeukira kumudzidzi wezvepfungwa kugadzirisa nyaya iyi.
Chinhu chechipiri icho mukadzi wese anofunga nezvekukanganwa rudo rwemurume akaroorwa anofanira kuziva, idzi inzira dzekuwedzera kuzviremekedza. Ukama nemurume akaroora inopikisa kuvimbiswa. Kazhinji, vakadzi vanoenda kumaruwa akadaro vatova nechekuzvidzivirira. Vanozviti vakaipa, mapenzi, vasina kukodzera rudo. Kusatenda iwe pachako kunokonzera matambudziko muhukama hunosimbisa chete uye hunosimbisa kusatenda uku. Icho chinopera denderedzwa rakaipa: pasi pasi kuzviremekedza, varume vanonyanya kuoma iwe unokwezva.
Mukuwedzera, varume vakaroorana vanowanzofarira kuva neukama nevakadzi vaviri kana kupfuura, vanogona kungodira mafuta pamoto wezvinetso zvenyu nekuzviremekedza. Vanosimbisa munzira dzose dzavakabatsirwa kubva pane zvamunofunga, vachikuponesai kubva kusurukirwa kusingadzivisiki. Saka mushure mokuguma kwevheti yakadaro mukadzi anowanzoda chirongwa chakakomba chekudzorera kukwanisa kuzvida iwe pachako. Nzira yakanaka mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro ndyo kunyora urongwa hwemhando mbiri dzevanhu. Rudzi rwekutanga rwevanhu - shamwari dzako, shamwari dzako, dzinokubvuma nemoyo wose, sezvauri. Rudzi rwechipiri ndirwo vanhu vanogona kunzi mavhiringidzi emanzwiro. Vanofara kukugumbusa, kuedza kutarisa zviri nani pane zvawakabva. Vanogona kunakidzwa nenyonganyonga yako kana zviitiko zvisingafadzi pamusoro pekutsoropodza kwavo. Kuti udzorere kuzvidzora, mushure mekunge wawana rudo kune murume akaroora, kwechinguva - mwedzi kana maviri - edza kunyatsoronga denderedzwa yekukurukurirana. Vanhu vanobva kune chikamu chekutanga cherongwa vanofanira kuva shamwari dzenyu dzepamweya uye chikonzero chekusimbisa tsika. Uye vanhu vanozvitsigira pachavo pamatambudziko enyu, ngavarege ivo vachirasikirwa nekanguva mukana wokutaurirana newe.
Nyaya ine murume akaroorwa ihwo muedzo mukuru kune mukadzi anopa zvose mufaro uye kusagutsikana panguva imwe chete. Tsvaga simba munguva yekuziva kusakosha kwehukama hwakadaro, enda uye edza kukanganwa rudo rwevarume vakaroora.