Sei rudo ruchienda?

Rimwe zuva, zvinogona kuitika kuti iwe unomuka nepfungwa yokuti rudo rwakapfuura. Tarisa munhu uyo ​​waimboda nemwoyo wako wose, uye unzwisise kuti mumoyo mako kwaari hakuna maonero akanaka uye akajeka.

Zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti akachinja. Haasi izvo zvawakamuda. Uye imi, hamusi kuchinja here? Iwe unofunga chaizvo here kuti iwe wakaramba uri kuseka kwakadaro kwakafanana kuti munhu, akambosvibiswa newe, aive achida, semunhu anopenga.

Mashoko mazhinji nemitsara yakaumbwa pamusoro penyaya yekuti nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare vanoda mashizha. Vamwe vanhu vanosarudza kuzvidzivirira kubva mukana wekunzwa kunzwa kwerudo. Nokuda kwezvinhu zvokushandisa simba rako nemanzwiro ako, kana rudo ruchiguma. Mushure mezvose, maererano nemafungiro evanhu, rudo rune mararamiro ehupfumi.

Zvichida zvakakosha kuongorora, ndizvo izvi uye nei rudo ruchienda.

Rudo chii kwauri? Ichokwadi, munhu wose anonzwisisa nenzira yavo pachavo. Asi, kune umwe neumwe mushure musana wake anokura mapapiro. Kana uchida, ndinoda kunakidzwa noupenyu uye kufadza munhu wose akandipoteredza, kunyanya chinhu chinodiwa. Iwe unoswededzwa kumudiwa wako, uye iwe haugone kufungidzira hupenyu hwako pasina iye.

Munhu anodiwa anova pakati pezvose. Kunyange pfungwa dzisingasimuke kugumbura, kutengesa kana kunyadzisa. Mushure mezvose, rudo rwako ndicho chinhu chinokosha uye chinokosha muupenyu hwako.

Zvechokwadi, zvose izvi zvinonakidza manzwiro achazopera. Uye, zvino chii chichasara?

Kuti unzwisise kuti sei rudo ruchienda, zvinokosha kuti unzwisise kuti sei wakawira murudo nemusanangurwa wako. Kana chete nokuda kumwemwemwerera kwakanaka, muviri wakanaka, nhoroondo dzomukati, zvepabonde zvakanaka - saka kukwanisa kwekuparara kwe rudo kunowedzera. Pashure pezvose, zvose zviri pamusoro apa hazvina kukosha. Uye, zvakaoma, zvakakosha kufunga kuti ichi rudo.

Zvichida wakawira murudo nemunhu bedzi nokuti ane hanya newe uye akakuteerera? Iwe unoda maitiro ake iwe pachako. Kutanga kwehukama hwe rudo kunoreva kunyanya kutarira kune nyaya yerudo. Asi, apo "magirazi-mavara" akadonha, fuse yekunzwa kwakasimba ichapfuura-chii chichazogara mumoyo mako? Pachava nemafungiro emitambo, maruva ezuva nezuva, kofi mumubhedha uye mazuva ekudanana acharasikirwa. Zvichida, zvichida, iwe uchave wakanyadziswa nemumwe wako, sezvaunonzwisisa kuti iye, kunze kwako, ane hupenyu hwake.

Ichi "rudo" chinokurumidza kupera.

Rudo apo iwe usingadi kutaridzika kwakanaka, kwete kutarisira kwake iwe pachako. Rudo nderwo iwe unoda munhu iyeye, saiye.

Uye, zvino funga, kana iwe ukadanana nemunhu, nokuti anoda vana, ane mutsa, anovimba naye. Funga, rudo ruchaenda, kana iwe uchida munhu uyu sezvaari? Asingateereri kuti pane nguva, akadzoka kana kuti akarega, nokuti pakutanga akatakura maruva kumakumbo ako? Unokoshesa nyika yake yomukati, unhu hwake. Hongu, hongu, ine zvipingamupinyi, asi iwewo wakadzidza kuti ungavada sei.

Nditende, kana rudo rwako rwakafanana neizvozvo, saka haruzoperi. Mhedziso iyo chete inofungidzira rudo inoenda, asi haisi.

Rudo runogona kusvibiswa. Izvi zvinokurudzirwa nezvinhu zvezuva nezuva - hupenyu hwezuva nezuva, zvinetso pabasa, zvinetso mumhuri. Nguva dzose kukakavadzana nekudzikisana kune mumwe nemumwe - rudo runourawa nekukurumidza.

Kana, iwe uchida kuchengetedza rudo muhukama hwako kwemakore akawanda, zvino dzidza kunzwisisa nekuremekedzana.

Urarame zuva rimwe chete uye ramba uchiramba uchifunga kumashure. Yeuka kuti iwe haugone kudzorera manzwiro ekare. Asi, kuzovandudza ivo ndezvechokwadi.

Nhasi, paunobva kubasa, tarisa mumwe wako nemamwe maziso. Zvichida akachinja kunze, asi, zvakadzika pasi, achiri mukomana waimbowa muhupenyu nemoyo wako wose.