Kugadzira.
Kugadzira mhemberero yemuchato, iyo inosanganisira kupa kune mwenga wemwoyo uye ruoko rwemuwani, vabereki vomuchato vanofanira kuvapo pamhemberero. Muchiitiko ichi, munhu mukuru ndiye mukomba. Asi zvinotenderwa kutumira vatambi vanofananidza kuvabereki vemwenga panzvimbo yavo. Kazhinji, vatambi vanofananidza vanamwarikadzi kana hama dzepedyo zvemuwani. Nenguva pfupi musangano wacho, vabereki vevaduku vanobvumirana pamatambo ekugadzira.
Pamusangano uyu muwani anosungirira, sekutonga, sutu uye anounza maruva maviri maruva. Mumwe wavo anopa amai vemwenga (amai vamwene), uye mumwe - muroori wechidiki. Mumwe mukomana anoudza vabereki vomuchato kuti anomuda uye anokumbira maoko ake. Kana vabereki vemwenga vachibvumirana, baba vomwenga vanotora mwanasikana wavo neruoko rwake rworudyi ndokuisa mumaoko emuroori.
Vakataridzi.
Imwe nguva inosungirirwa yemhemberero yemuchato yeRussia ndeye vakaroorana, apo vabereki vemuwani, mubatanidzwa pamwe nemukomba vanoongorora uye vanofunga zvakakodzera zvemwenga. Kazhinji mwenga-madonhwe akabatwa mushure mokumhanya kwemasikati kusati kwasungwa. Uyewo, kuroora chirikadzi kunorevawo kuti vabereki vomuchato vakaongorora kuvepo kwemurimi wekuri mukomba, pano ivo vakanyatsocherechedza kuwanikwa kwechingwa, mombe, nguo nemidziyo.
Mushure memhemberero, vabereki vakazopedzisira vakurukura zvose zvinyorwa zvemuchato unouya: mari, zuva uye nguva, dowry uye zvipo. Apo rukobitiya inowanzogovera zvikamu pachato. Chigumisiro chekupedzisira chechikafu-ruoko chaiva chokubatanidza maoko nemaoko kumadzibaba kumativi ose maviri.
Makore gare gare, mutambo wekucheka wakabatanidzwa muitiro wemwenga.
Kuwedzera.
Kuwedzerwa, kana rudzi rwemhemberero yekuchema, rwakatungamirirwa nehama dzechikwenga. Izvi zvaireva kuparadzana nevabereki vake neshamwari dzake. Mwenga akanga akapfeka rudzi rwechifukidzo pamusoro wake, raifanira kuvanza maonero ake, uye hama dzake dzakamutevera. Kana mwenga akabudiswa, akawira.
Chikamu chekuku.
Akachengetedza chikamu chebhehelorette nguva dzose 2-3 mazuva vasati varoorana kana mazuva anotevera mushure mekuurayiwa. Pahowa yemadzimai, iyo yakaitwa pavasikana, shamwari dzakauya, dzakaimba nziyo dzomuchato uye dzakasangana pamwe chete nezvipo zvake zvemuwani uye hama dzake. Panguva yemutambo uyu, mwenga anofanira kunge akachema, akachema uye akazununguka, izvo zvaireva kuti aparadzanise nehupenyu hwomusikana, nokuti mberi kwake kwaiva upenyu husina hanya hwewanano.
Chimwe chiitiko chakakosha zvikuru muboka revasikana chaiva chiitiko cheRussia chekuita zvisingaiti scythe yemwenga, izvo vasikana varo vaipedza. Izvi zvaireva kuti mararamiro ake ekare akanga apera kwaari.
Zvadaro zvakatevera musangano wekusvibiswa kwemukadzi wechidiki mumubhedha. Yakaitwa manheru emuchato kana mangwanani-ngwanani kusati kwatanga kupemberera. Rwendo rwokuenda kubhadharo rwakange ruchiendeswa nenziyo uye rukudzo, kwaiva nemitambo yemashiripiti.
Dowry.
Nomuchato, musikana wacho aifanira kuunganidza pfuma yakawanda. Uye pano, zvakare, shamwari dzake dzakauya kununura. Nguva yekuunganidza dowry yakatarwa nevhiki. Dowry yakaitwa nezvinhu zvakagadzirwa nemaoko: bhandi, featherbed, mitsipa, pamwe nemapuranga akavezwa, shati, mabhanhire uye zvitsvuku.
Zuva rokutanga remuchato.
Zuva guru kana zuva rokutanga remuchato raisanganisira kuuya kwemuwani, achifamba pasi pekorona, kutumidzwa kwe dowry, kuendeswa kwomuchato kumba kwemuwani, chikomborero chevabereki uye mhemberero yemuchato pachayo.
Druzhko.
Druzhko, kana shamwari, yaifungidzirwa somunhu anokosha pamuchato, sezvo akanga ari mutariri wemhemberero yemuchato. Shamwari yakagadzwa kuva shamwari yepedyo kana hama yechikwenga. Kazhinji aisungirirwa pamapfudzi ake nemucheka wakaisvonaka wakarukwa.
Kusvika kwemuwani.
Mune dzimwe nzvimbo pazuva remuchato iye anonwa ushamwari kuimba yemwenga uye akashamisika kana akanga akagadzirira kugamuchira chikomba. Nenguva iyi, mwenga aifanira kunyatsogadzirira, kureva, akapfekedzwa zvipfeko zvemuchato uye akagara mumakona matsvuku.
Ruregerero.
Pakuuya kwemuwani pachake, mutambo wakadaro wemuchato wakaitwa sechirudziro. Zvakagadzirirwa kuti muwani aifanira kubhadhara mari yacho kusvika kumukwenga. Iyi rite yakauya mumazuva edu. Vakatenga mwenga, sekutonga, kubva kuvabereki neshamwari dzake.
Kuroora.
Vasati vaduku vaenda kuchechi, baba vemadzimai naamai vakakomborera nechingwa uye chiratidzo. Saka, musati waroora, mwenga akashongedza bvudzi rake uye akanga akashongedzwa nemashira maviri, uye ipapo vhudzi rake rakange rakafukidzwa nemusoro wepamusoro kana mutsindo.
Kusvika kumba kwemuwani.
Mushure memutambo wechato, mwenga akaendeswa kumuwani, uko vabereki vake vakanga vatovakomborera kare. Vamwe vanhu vane tsika dzekudyara mwenga nemukomba pahombodo, iyo inoshanda seyamute yavo. Munguva yechikomborero, unofanira kugara uchichengeta chingwa uye, sekutonga, chiratidzo. Mukadzi nemukomba vanofanira kuruma chingwa ichi.
Mabiko emuchato.
Maererano nemitemo yezuva rokutanga remuchato, vabereki vomuchato havafaniri kugara pamabiko emuchato, pakanga paine mutambo unonzi "kudana vanozvikudza." Kazhinji kereke iyi yaiitwa nevacheri kubva kumativi emwenga nomwenga. Vanhu vazhinji, vakauya kuimba yevabereki vemwenga uye vakavadana patafura. Mushure memutambo wechato, kuchema komwenga kunosvika pakaguma uye zvifaro uye zvinofadza zvikamu zvemuchato weRussian rite rite rakatanga. Pakupera kweizvi, vechidiki vakaenda kumba komwenga kune zvipo, ndokubva vaenda kune mukomba, uko zvinhu zvose zvaive zvakagadzirira kumuchato. Panguva yemuchato, vairamba vachiimba nziyo dzechikwenga nemwenga, pamwe chete nevabereki vavo. Muimba yemadzimai emwenga vaifembera zuva rechipiri remuchato. Kana mutambo wacho wakagara kwemazuva matatu, ipapo zuva rechitatu rakapemberedzwazve mumba mavabereki vomukati.
"Kuvhara" uye "kudonha."
"Kuisa" avo vakaroorana vusiku usiku vakagadzira machemaker, kana izvo zvinonzi mavheti, izvo zvakagadzirirwa mubhedha kune vechidiki. Nokuti muwani uyu wechidiki aifanira kubhadhara rudzikinuro. Mangwanani vakauya kuzomutsa shamwari dzechidiki, mutambo wemasikati kana amai vamwene. Maererano nemitemo, paiva nemhemberero yekurembera mapepa nemafuta eropa, izvo zvakaratidza kukudzwa komwenga.
Zuva rechipiri remuchato.
Pazuva rechipiri, chiito chikuru chaiva kutsvaga mwenga, kana "kutsvaka benzi." Chinokosha chaicho chiri mukutsvaga muwani - "mufudzi" - uye hama dzake dze "benzi" rake - mwenga, uyo aivanda pane imwe nzvimbo mumba.