Chero hukama hunofanira kunge hwakavakwa zvakanaka, nokuti kune marudzi akasiyana ehukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Nokudaro, pakutanga, iwe unoda kunzwisisa zvakajeka rudzi rwehukama hwavaripo panguva ino. Izvo izvi zvinongova zvepabonde, kana vanhu vanosangana, kana kurarama pamwechete. Muzvinhu izvi zvose, vanhu vane mafungiro akasiyana kune zvepabonde uye mumwe nomumwe.
Ukama hwehukama
Kune vaviri vakangotanga kudanana, tinogona kukurudzira, kuwedzera nguva yerudo rwehukama hwavo, kuitira kuti rudo rwukure. Rudo rwakanakisisa rwehukama huri mukuyaruka uye mukukwegura kwakanyanya. Ino ndiyo nguva yekuti vanhu vakwana kuti vachatarisa mumaziso, akachengetwa nemabvi, nyora tsamba, yeuka sipo yavo yavanofarira, cheese iyo munhu anoda, vanozoshandira zvakanaka jasi, nezvimwewo.
Zvinosuruvarisa, munguva yedu hukama hwepabonde hupihwa nguva shoma. Uye munguva ino hatina nguva yeku "kuwana" iyo yezviyeuchidzo zveukama hwepabonde, urwo rudo rwedu rwunoramba rwuchiripo. Semuenzaniso, kuyeuka kwekutarisa kwake, kutadza kwake, kana akanyora nhetembo, zvaakanyora, kana akatenga zvipo, kana akakumbira zororo, akarota, akatarisirwa, nezvimwewo.
Munhengo imwe neimwe inotanga kusangana, nguva duku idzi dzinokura nenzira dzakasiyana. Somuenzaniso, takasangana mu cafe, takataurirana mitsara miviri kana mitatu uye tinonzwisisa - isu tiri vanhu vane pfungwa. Takatarisa zvakatarisana uye takaziva: Ndinoda kurarama nemunhu uyu kusvikira ndakwegura. Takataura pamusoro peMusiki, akabata maoko uye akaziva-isu tiri pamwe. Uye zvino zvakasiyana papi paunotanga hukama hwepedyo nhasi, muvhiki kana mu 1.5 mwedzi, sevamwe vanoita zvepabonde vanokurudzira.
Kana iwe uchida kuva pedyo
Izvi zvinoitika kuti vhudzi rinova "rack", misoro yako yemisoro, maoko ako ari kuzununguka, kusvikira iwe uchida munhu pano uye ikozvino. Ndakadana usiku, ndakadanwa, kunonzi taxi uye iwe unoenda. Dzimwe nguva manzwiro akadaro uye chido zvinogona kumira kana pfungwa ichiti, "Mira, haisi nguva, kutsungirira." Kana pane mukana wakadaro wokuwedzera ukama, zviri nani kumirira, kana pasina mukana iwoyo, usateerera kune ani zvake, kudanana mumwe mufambisi, pakunyura, mumotokari. Zvose izvi manzwiro nemanzwiro atinotora nawo muhuchembera.
Kana munhu akapa mukadzi maminetsi mashomanana pazuva, uye mukadzi anoshanda pane hukama kune maminitsi mashomanana, zvino zvinosvika kuti vaviri ava vanenge vasingadi kugovana. Uye zvino hazvisi mutsauko kana vakarara pamwe chete kana kwete.
Office romance
Ndiyo apo pane rudo rukuru rwemabasa apo isu tine nguva shoma, tinonzwisisa kuti kana nhasi isu tisingafambisi, saka tichafamba mupaki kwemazuva anoverengeka, ipapo tichava nekugadzira maitiro, uye ipapo tichachema, taura zvakanaka pachiteshi uye hapana munhu kune ani zvake haazonyora, hakuna munhu achauya kune ani zvake. Ukana hwokuti izvi zvichaita kuti imba yakasimba ive nerudo, zvichida imwe yezana.
Paunenge uine nguva shoma uye iwe usingadi kunyatsodanana, unonzwisisa kuti munhu uyu acharamba achiyeuka, mufananidzo wakajeka waunotora mukukwegura kwako, svinudza meso ako kuchokwadi uye upinde muukama uhwu, uye kwete kuzvizvidza pachako nokuda kwemikana isina kuwanikwa. Kana iwe ukagona kumira, simira, coo, famba uende kune imwe nzvimbo yerudo, iyo isinganyadziswi saka ichagovana neshamwari yepedyo kana kunyange nemurume wake.
Ndekupi kuparara muhukama? Apo vaviri vanotanga kuita zvepabonde uye muvhiki yekutanga mushure momuchato, vamwe vakaroorana vanotanga kuratidza mavara akasiyana ezvinyorwa zvavo zvepabonde. Asi usakanganwa kuti hupenyu humwe, hurefu uye hwakareba uye iwe unofunga kuti iwe unenge iwe woga mukaroorana.
Pasinei nokuti uri murume kana mukadzi, musikana kana mukomana, unofanira kunzwisisa kuti muupenyu hwako unofanira kugara uchiunza chinhu chitsva. Semuenzaniso, kana kudya kwehupenyu kunoratidzika, kunowedzerwa kana kuwedzera shuga yakawanda, inenge isingaoneki, saka muupenyu - munhu wese akatarisa, munhu wese akaona, achiverengwa semabhuku akaverengwa - izvi hazvibvumirwi. Ramba uine ukama hwako, funga kumira, shandisa dzimwe nguva kuitira kuti ushamise mumwe wako, ita zvakaipa, ngatizviregerere iwe pachako.
Kunaka mune zvepabonde
Asi maererano nekuita zvepabonde, saka zvekusimba kwehutano mune zvose zvinoratidzwa. Uye pamusoro pekugadzirisa kupi zvako, unoda kugadzirisa mafungiro. Kazhinji munyori kana muveki anonzwisisa kuti pa8: 00 ndinotora brashe uye ndinonyora unyanzvi. Tinofanirwa kumirira kugadzirisa mafungiro, uye mafungiro achiripo anopa rudo rukuru. Uye izvi zvemashiripiti zvechido chepabonde uye rudo rukuru ndirwo runoita kuti mwoyo igogodza pamwe chete.
Mumwe wako anofanirwa kunhuwa, kutarisisa, kuteerera kumunhu kufema, tarisa maitiro ake, uye usashamisika. Sezvo pane dzimwe nguva apo varume vanoti ndinotarisira mukadzi, aive nemanzwiro akadai, kwete shoko rimwe rinonyadzisa, asi maitiro aaiita pamubhedha, ndakanga ndanyadziswa zvachose, zvakanaka kuti hatina kuroora. Uyu ndiye munhu akasiyana uye ini handidi. Ichokwadi, mumhuri imwe neimwe, ukama uhwu huri hwega, asi zvepabonde rinotarisa mavara akajeka muhukama hwose.
Zvepabonde nerudo
Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika muhukama hwomukomana zvokuti mumwe anodikanwa, mumwe anozvirega achidiwa, mumwe anoenda kumusangano, mumwe anotarisira, mumwe nomumwe ane nguva iyi nenzira yake, asi apo vanhu vanodzvora, zita racho rinopera, "iwe" unoenda, magamba uye kune vanhu vasina zvikuru aesthetics. Iyi ndiyo nzira yakanaka, iyo ingangodaro isina kunaka chaizvo kubva kunze, somuenzaniso, kwete seyakanaka seyemafirimu epafirimu. Yakasvibiswa mascara, chiso chinosuruvara, tsvina yakasvibiswa.
Asi kana uchiita zvepabonde nekuda kwerudo uye pawakapa rudo urwu mukana wekuzvarwa uye wakakura, zvino izvi zvichaita hukama hwako hupenyu hwose, kunyange iwe usingabvumirane nemafungiro, pasinei nezera rako zvakasiyana, pasinei nehukuru boka revatsigiri.