Dzimwe nguva kunyemwerera kwakadaro kunopenya pachiso uye mwana wevhiki vhiki, asi yekutanga Smile Smile inowanikwa kune imwe nzvimbo munharaunda yevhiki 4-8, apo mwana, kunyatsogadzirisa maziso ake pachiso chenyu, achinyemwerera kwauri, uye hakuna mumwe munhu. Zvinonakidza kuti kunyemwerera ndeyekushaya maitiro, maitiro akasiyana-siyana, uye kwete "sobeyazannichchennoe" kubva kumeso amai kana kuti baba - mukupindura inzwi ramai vangu, kunyange vana mapofu avo vanoberekwa bofu vanogona kuseka, avo vasingagoni kutevedzera ani zvake.
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Kuseka nekumwemwerera kwemwana muduku ndeimwe yezvinyorwa zvinonakidza zvechiso checheche, sezvinofanotaurwa nezvakasikwa. Saka mwana wacho anozvidavirira, anokonzera tsitsi, anokumbira kudzivirirwa kuvakuru. Hazvibviri kurwisana naro! Dzimwe nguva mwana anogona kuseka pakuberekwa, kana kuberekwa kwaive kwakanyarara uye kwepanyama.
Unoziva here kuti kusemwerera kunobatsira pakuvandudza mano ezvimedu?
Kupararira kunofadza, kwakagadzirirwa amai, kunobatanidza nhamba yakawanda yemasumbu uye kushandisa nzvimbo yakarurama yepfungwa dzehuropi, kukudziridza mafungiro ekufungidzira, mafungiro, kugadzirisa uye intuition.
Kuseka uye kunyemwerera kwemwana muduku, kunopiwa kune vanhu vatisingazivi, kurudzira nhamba shomanana yezviso zvepamusoro uye hafu yakasara yeuropi, zvichibatsira pakuvandudzwa kwemafungiro uye kuongorora mafungiro.
Mukutaurirana!
Zvinonakidza kuti kuseka kokutanga uye kuseka kwemwana muduku kana mwana achangoberekwa hazviiti kuonekwa kwechiso chemai vangu, asi kune inzwi rake. Kunyemwerera kwomwana inoshevedzwa pakukurukurirana. Kana mai vakaseka mukupindura, kunyemwerera kwake kunowedzera, iye anofara kuti ainyatsonzwisiswa, uye amai vangu vachafara zvikuru-iwe unekutanga kutaura. Pane hukama! Kubva pane zvidzidzo zvinokosha zvekukurukurirana, iyo yakagadzikana inoramba ichiyeuka kuti kusemwe nguva dzose kunofanidza kusemwerera mukudzoka. Kana iwe uchikwanisa kuigadzirisa mupfungwa dzake, zvino nokuda kwecheche izvi hazvina mubvunzo kuti zvinokurudzira kusimudza kakawanda sezvinobvira. Kana achiona kuti kunyemwerera kwake mukana wokutanga kutaurirana newe (pamwe nababa vake, mukoma, mbuya), achaedza zvakanakisisa kuti "zvirongwa" zvakadaro zvidzoke kakawanda sezvinobvira, izvo zvinoreva kuti achanyarara pamusoro pake uye kutsvaga nzira dzekuti cheer you up.
Chokwadi
Masayendisiti akawana kuti kana amai vachiona chiso chemucheche wavo anonyemwerera, anoshandisa nzvimbo imwechete dzeuropi sepamusoro pekutora mishonga. Kunyemwerera kwechechecheyo mishonga yemasikirwo uye isina chakaipa.
Smile inoreva kuti "ngatitambe nemwi uye tive shamwari!"
Ikutanga, kubva pazuva rechitatu rehupenyu kusvika pakuguma kwemwedzi wokutanga, inofanirwa kusvidza-kunyemwerera, kufungidzira. Inozviratidza kwechipiri uye inenge isingaoneki. Inogona kunge yakagadzirisa inzwi remukadzi, kuratidza.
Kunyemwerera kunowanzoonekwa mushure mevhiki yechina yehupenyu. Zviri nyore kuziva: iyo yakaoma inogadzirisa maziso ezvinhu zvakapoteredza, vanhu. Mumwedzi wechipiri wehupenyu hwemwana, kumwemwemwemwe kwemazuva ano kwakamirira kunowanikwa. Mwana wacho anonzwisisa zviso zvevabereki, anopindura kune ivo.
Kuseka mune pfupi pants
Uye iye zvino mhuka inoshanduka inove nemwedzi 3-4 uye vabereki vanoshamiswa kwenguva yekutanga ... Hungu, hongu, mwana anoseka! Ichokwadi, vana vose vanozviita nenzira yakasiyana: mumwe munhu anoseka akanyarara, muromo wakazaruka uye dzimwe nguva achigunun'una, mumwe munhu anoputika mukuseka kunopararira, dzimwe nguva kunyange kutsika kubva kune dutu remanzwiro, mumwe munhu anoita mheremhere inonzwika zvishoma sekuchema, asi inogutsikana Chimiro chechiso chinoratidza zvakajeka kuti mwana ari kuseka. Iyi ndiyo nguva yakakodzera kwazvo kuti vabereki vatange kushingaira kutsvaga pakati pemabasa akabatanidzwa avo vanoita kuti mufaro mukuru, kuseka nekumwemwerera kwechecheche. Tanga nemarudzi ose evanhu "inotora mbudzi," "makumi mana-chema", "ladushki-ladushki," "enda, enda kumusha kuti uve nutswe." Shingairira, shingairira pamwe chete, shingairana kuti mufare! Imwe yemitambo inonakidzwa yenguva ino ndiyo inonzi peek-a-boo munyika dzinotaura Chirungu-yekutanga chivande uye tsvaga. Amai, somuenzaniso, vanovanza pasi petafura, kumashure kwefambisi, seri kweketeni, uye ipapo mwana anoratidzwa. Zvose zvaanoona iyo cub inosangana nekuseka kunofadza kwekununurwa. Anotsanangura kufara kwake mukuti amai vangu vakawanikwa. Kutamba chivande uye kutsvaga, muduku wacho anodzidza nerubatsiro rweseka kuti akunde kutya. Uye iye anoziva zvechokwadi kuti amai vake havambofi vaenda!
Ongororo dzinoratidza kuti vanhu vanotarisira kuona firimu inonakidza, 87% inowedzera muzvinyorwa zvekukura kwehomoni!
Uyewo vanobudisa imwe yechitatu beta-endorphin kune avo vanoronga kutarisa nepepanhau nemishumo yenjodzi. Kukura kwehomoni kunokonzerwa nekuchengetedzwa kwezvirwere, uye beta-endorphin inobatsira kukunda kushungurudzika, kuora mwoyo uye kufungidzira.
Saka sarudza iwe zvaunenge uchiverenga kana kutarisa mhuri yose - iyo firimu ine mavara ane ma heroes chaiwo kana kuti inofadza.
Kunyadzisa kunoderedza hutsinye hwomumwe munhu uye kunoderedza kukanganisa mukukurukurirana nekumwemwerera. Kwete chete izvozvo »inobatsira hutano! Avo vanoseka kuseka, kurarama kwenguva refu. Vana vanoseka kakawanda kupfuura vanhu vakuru - vanotamba uye vanowanzowira mumamiriro ezvinhu anonyadzisa
Imwe manzwiro evanhu vanonzwisisika tsitsi, kukwanisa kwevanhu kunzwira tsitsi, kunzwira tsitsi, kuziva manzwiro evamwe uye "kuvabatana" navo. Iye, akaita seforogo yekugadzirira, anobata mafungiro ake uye anogadzirisa kwaari. Unyanzvi hwekunzwira tsitsi hunokura zvakanaka chete kana mwana achishandisa nguva yakawanda nevabereki, uye kana nyika yavo yepfungwa yakasiyana. Amai, nguva dzose vari mumamiriro ekuzvidya mwoyo kana kunyanya kuzvidzora, vachivanza manzwiro avo, hazvipi kupa mwana ruzivo rwekuona maonero akasiyana uye akajeka. Kukudziridza kunzwira tsitsi mumwana wako, unopa ramangwana rakanaka rezukuru vako nenzira yakatendeka kupfuura kuvhura nhoroondo kwavari mubhangi.
Zvidzidzo zvemashoko
Zvisinei, kana kuseka kwekutanga uye kunyemwerera kwemwana muduku kunogona kukonzerwa nyore nyore nekumukwezva zvinyoronyoro, kukanda padenga, kuita chiso chinotyisa kana kutevedzera kuora kwake, saka mumwe munhu anofanira kuomesa kufara mwana. Mukuwedzera, inguva yekufungisisa nezvekurera munhu anofara, munhu ane masimba ane pfungwa yakanaka yekuseka. Uye zvinogoneka.
Zvechokwadi, chikamu chinokosha chekunakidza, kuseka nekumwemwe kwemudiki mwana kuberekwa: chero amai vane vana vanopfuura mumwe vanozosimbisa kuti vana vanoberekwa vane vanhu vakasiyana: mumwe munhu anofara, mumwe munhu anofunga, mumwe munhu anofambidzana, mumwe munhu iye anowanzova oga ...
Zvisinei, pasina mubvunzo, pakurera uye kuchengetwa kwemwana, pamwe nekuvandudzwa kwezvakanaka zvekuziva (kuverenga uye kuverenga mugore nehafu), panofanira kunge kune nzvimbo uye kukura kwekunzwa kuseka. Mushure mezvose, haisi kungoita kuseka paimba yose kubva kune joke yakanaka kana, pane kudaro, kuita kambani inoseka inoseka. Ichi ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha mupfungwa yepasi, iyo inodzidzisa kusafunga pamusoro pezvinetso, kutarisa hupenyu hune tariro, kuona zvinhu zvakanaka, kufara zvishoma.
Vabatsiri mune dzidzo yekunzwa kuseka
Mamiriro ezvinhu ose mumhuri. Kana papa achiuya achibva kubasa neve beech nemasvingo kubva kumhuri ane terevhizheni, kana amai vasina nguva yekuita chero chinhu uye vanoziva chete kuti vanofanira kudanidzira uye vave nekutya kana mbuya vachigunun'una zuva rose pamusoro pekuti haana kuremekedzwa pano uye haafaniri kutarisana naye kana tateguru Kutya kunetseka nekuda kwekuvandudzwa kwehutano kwemazuva ano ... Zvichida wakanzwisisa: hazviiti kuti vadzidzise mwana kuwana vanhu vanofara muupenyu hwavo vasingazivi kuzviita ivo pachavo.
Fara mune chero kuseka uye kunyemwerera kwemwana muduku. Rega achiseka kazhinji, yeuka chii chinoita kuti afare. Fara kuti iye atokwanisa kuona chimwe chinhu chinonakidza, kunyange iwe usinganzwisisi. Rega aseke zvakanyanya sezvinobvira, yeuka zvaunofarira paanoseka, uye manzwiro ake aanoseka.
Sarudza mabhuku anonyadzisa, mapikicha - chimwe chinhu chisingagoni chete kuisa tsika dzakadzama mumwana we subcortex, asiwo kumutsigira. Ngatitangei pakutanga inongova musanganiswa wemanzwi mubhuku raunoverenga: "Bach! Tsi-tyr-tyr! Zhzzhzh! "Kana zviitiko zvinonakidza sababa vanoshaya mu" Prostokvashin ". (Izvi hazvirevi zvachose kuti mwana wako achaparadzwa kusvika pakuguma kwemazuva ake kuti afire kuseka pameso omunhu akawira mugomba.) Usafungisisa zvakaoma kana mwana wako asina kutanga kuterera kune dzimwe ndima uye kana achizvinzwisisa, zvinogona , kuti iye achanzwa chimwe chinhu mavari. Verengera vana vana maitiro anonyadzisira: "Winnie the Pooh," "Carlson," bhuku raE E. Uspensky, nhoroondo pamusoro pembwa Sonia A. Usachev.
Usanetseka nokuti hauna kutakura mwana "unonzwisisa, wakanaka, nokusingaperi", asi anofara. Usakakahadzika, hutsika hutsika uye hutsika huchaita kuti iwe uite pereimet, achikutarisa, asi kuseka nekumwemwe kwemucheche kunoda kudzidziswa nekuwana.
Usakanganwa kuti mwana wako kubva pamwedzi yekutanga apo zvitsva zvinowanikwa muhupenyu hwake, pakutanga, anotarisa maitiro ako kutanga, "anonyora" iyo muchiyeuchidzo sezvakarurama. Dzidza "kuchengeta chiso chako", zviongorore iwe, edza kudzivisa mafungiro asina kunaka kana uri mwana, uye kusimbisa zvakanaka. Kana iwe uchifadzwa nevashanyi, kana iwe uchikwanisa kunyatsozvibvunza, kuyemura, kuratidza kufara - zvose izvi zvichaendeswa kumwana wako. Kana, kana achifamba, achiedza kutora danho rokutanga, iwe unomhanyira kwaari nechiso chinotyisa chekutya, hakuna chinhu chingaishamisika kuti achawira mudiki pane zvishoma kudzvinyirira. Saka edza kuita sarudzo yekutanga kune zviito zvakasiyana, kuitira kuti iye, achitarisa kushamisika kwauri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, anogona kukukopa iwe. Somuenzaniso, kana inowira (zvakasununguka, isu tiri kutaura pamusoro pechiedza chinowira), tinogona kuti: "Bam-mms!", "Oops!", "O-la-la!", Uye izvi zvose nekunzwira tsitsi, asi kunyemwerera. Zvechokwadi, pane dzimwe nguva unoda kuzvidemba, asi kuitira kuti mwana asapinda mukanaka yenyaya iyi. Nezvaunoita, iwe sekuti iwe unoti: zvinhu zvose zvakanaka, hapana chinhu chinofanira kutya, izvi hazvina maturo!
Vana vakwegura vanobatsirwa chaizvo kuti vave nekunakidzwa kwemarudzi ose emitambo inonakidza, circus uye kunyanya tricks. Zvakanaka, kana iwe kazhinji uchiita zvishamiso kumwana wako - regai vasave, asi zvinonakidza. Zvakanaka kana iwe ukanyora nyaya pamusoro pake pamusoro pezvinhu zvinonakidza zvevarume, pane zvaanogona kuseka pakukwirira kwezvakaitika kwaari, somuenzaniso, taurai nemakore matatu ane makore pamusoro pomumwe munhu asingagoni kudya nehupuni, uye zvipi zvisinganzwisisiki zvaakawana nokuda kweizvi. Zvechokwadi, zvichava zvinonakidza kwaari, kana iye pachake achiziva izvi kare kare!
Vakomana vakatodzidza kutora kana kutonyora, nekufara kukuru kutamba "zvisina maturo" - yeuka, izvi ndezvokuti kana mumwe munhu akwegura chikamu chemuviri, somuenzaniso, musoro, ndokusunga chigamba chepapepa, kuisa maoko ake kune mumwe, uye uyo asingaoni zvakaswededzwa torso nemaoko, kunyora ... Kana iwe unogona kunyora nhetembo, uchisiya shoko rekupedzisira rhyme. Imwe mhuka huru uye inouraya inonakidza i "Associations", apo vatambi vakapatsanururwa kuva mativi maviri, mumwe nomumwe wavo achifungidzira pfungwa, mazita emimhanzi, mabhuku, uye zvino mumwe munhu kubva muboka rinopikisa anoverenga vanozvikudza uye anoedza pasina mazwi kuratidza boka, kuti vadzivisi vavo vaida. Kazhinji pamagumo, munhu wose ari pasi pasi achiseka, nenzira, mutambo uyu unonakidzawo kune "vakuru" mazororo.
Nguva dzose mukukurukurirana nemwana uye nevamwe, ipai mwana wenyu muenzaniso wekuchenjera, kuseka nekumwemwerera kwechecheche. Paunenge uchitaura naye, ramba uchiseka uye unokurudzira kuedza kwake kupindura. Ita sokuti hauzivi chimwe chinhu (chausingazivi), hauzivi kutapira, somuenzaniso, kutamba zviduku zviduku (zviri nani kuzviita nevana kupfuura gore - vana kusvikira pagore vanogona kutora marwadzo ku "kuchinja" kwaamai "). Witusi haisi kungoita upenzi chete, asiwo kukurudzirwa kwekukurumidza kuita, unyanzvi, kwete chete unyanzvi hunokosha hwokukurukurirana, asiwo hutano hwekufunga, saka pfungwa yekuseka inowanzobatanidzwa nemaitiro akanaka ekufunga.
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Mumwedzi mitatu kusvika kumana mwana achakufadza iwe nekumwe kubudirira mutsva: iye zvino haasi kungosemwerera iwe nemiromo nemeso ake, uyewo anofamba achinyemwerera nekusvinudza maoko ake, makumbo, uye buzz. Anokuratidzai "kuti anofara kuona uye akagadzirira kutaura.
Hazvipi kuti kuparadza pfungwa yekusekwa inherent mu mwana? Edza kudzidza kudzidzira paanonyanya kuseka, uye kana achiseka. Usabvumira mwana kuti atyeke. Cynicism haisi mwana achiri kunzwa. Imwe tsanangudzo »yokuti iwe unogona kuseka nevezera rako. Nevakuru, nguva isati yasvika.