Vanaamai vakawanda uye vanababa, vachiona mwana akanyarara, vachishingaira mubhizinesi ravo, vakagomera negodo: "Asi ini handigone kugara chinyararire kweminiti! .." Uye kazhinji havafungi kuti basa rakawandisa harisi unhu hunhu, asi kuongororwa. Ndezvipi zvakasiyana nedzimwe mwana asina kunyanya kushanda? Uye nzira yekuzvibata nayo kwatiri - vabereki? ..
NDI ZVINHU ZVINOGONA KUKUNDA?
Kunyatsotaura pachena, kufamba kwakanaka kunofananidzwa nevana vose vekuchikoro kwezera. Asi kana kusagadzikana kwomwana nguva dzose kuyambuka miganhu yose uye kunobatsira matambudziko mukukurukurirana nevezera rako, nevabereki uye vadzidzisi (vadzidzisi) chiratidzo chokuti zvakakosha kubvunzurudza nyanzvi.
Kazhinji, dzimwe "mafambiro" anowanikwa ku "sila mumadhongi". Chokutanga pane zvose, ndiko kusakwanisa kuisa pfungwa, kuita mubhizimisi rimwe chete kwenguva yakareba, kusava nechinangwa. Dambudziko iri rinonzi kusakanganiswa kwehutano hwehutano (ADHD) syndrome.
Sei vana vachikura izvi? Vanachiremba vanotaura zvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana: uku ndiko hutano, uye zvirwere zvinotapukira mucheche, uye kunyange - zvisingadikanwi - zvokudya zvinokonzerwa nehuwandu hwezvibereko. Asi, maererano nehuwandu, kakawanda (muna 85 muzana yezviitiko) kupa gi-
Peractivity inotungamirira kumatambudziko pakuberekwa uye (kana) kubereka. Somuenzaniso, kana amai vanotambura ne toxicosis panguva yekuzvitakura, saka nekuda kwehurombo hwake hwehutano, mwana haana nguva ye "kukura" dzimwe nzira dzehuropi. Mukutambudzika kwekuberekwa, chirongwa ichi chakasiyana. Ichokwadi ndechokuti panguva yekufamba kwemwana kuburikidza nekuberekwa kweamai kunobereka, humwe hukama hunosimbiswa pakati penzvimbo dzehuropi hwake. Kana "chirongwa" chekuberekwa chikavhiringidzika (taura, pane zvakaitika muKesariya chikamu), izvi zvakabatana zvinogona kusati zvanyatsogadziriswa sezvinodiwa zvakasikwa.
MUPARIDZI MUMUSORO
Pasinei nechokwadi chokuti vanachiremba vanosiyana nemaonero avo pamusoro pekusava nemafungiro, kufanana kweruzivo rwemwana wekare nechinetso ichocho kuchiripo. Heano maitiro acho makuru:
♦ Mwana asina kuchena haagoni kurangarira kwenguva yakareba;
♦ Zvakaoma kuti ateerere mutauriri kusvikira kumagumo, anokanganisa vamwe vasina mugumo;
♦ kazhinji "haanzwi" apo vanhu vanomutaurira;
♦ haagoni kugara, fidgets muchigaro, kutendeuka, kusvetuka;
♦ kufara kutora bhizimisi idzva, asi rinenge risati rapedzisa kutanga;
♦ Nenguva dzose inogumbura inorasikirwa nezvinhu zvake;
♦ Kunyange kuchikoro, haakwanisi kutevera zuva nezuva pachake (anoda "kumhanya");
• nyore nyore kukanganwa zvose zvisingamufariri;
♦ Maoko asingagari, mwana anoramba achinyengedza chimwe chinhu, anotora uye akadhakwa neminwe yake;
Anorara zvishoma;
♦ inoti zvakawanda;
♦ kazhinji pasi pesimba remanzwiro anoita kuti aite chisimba;
♦ haadi uye haagoni kutarisira nguva yake;
♦ Movement yakakosha, zvisingafungi, semugumisiro wezvinhu zvakapoteredza nemhepo inovhuvhuta kusvika pasi.
Kana zviratidzo izvi zvinorwadza kwauri, usakurumidza kubata musoro wako. Ndiye chete chiremba anogona kuongorora, uye kunyange zvakadaro kwete pamusangano wokutanga. Nyanzvi dzakakodzera dzinocherechedza mwana kwemwedzi inoverengeka, achigadzira zvidzidzo zvinowanikwa kana zvichidiwa. Mushure mezvose, zvinenge zvese zviri pamusoro apa zviratidzo zvinoratidzira kwete kungova nehutano hwemwana muduku, asiwo nezveimwe humwe hunobudirira. Mukuwedzera, zvakakosha zvikuru kuti mwana anozviratidza nenzira yakareba zvakadini nenzira iyi, zvichida kungova danho rinotevera rekukura "nemigumisiro," panzvimbo yehutano hunoonekwa.
MAZANO KUVABEREKI
Hazvisi chakavanzika chokuti kubva pakutaurirana nemwana asina kunaka, kunyange vabereki vane mwoyo murefu uye vadzidzisi vane ruzivo dzimwe nguva vanorasikirwa nemoyo murefu uye vanotanga "kumhanyira padenga": Handizvo, handigoni kubata ne "perpetuum mobile"! Heano mazano mashomanana anozobatsira kusimbisa ukama uye kubudirira kubva kumwana wako unhu hunodiwa.
• Kazhinji kokurudzira mwana wako - ava vana vanoda zvakanyanya kurumbidzwa uye zvinokurudzira (sweets, toyipi, nezvimwewo). Edza kubhadhara kune zvakakwanisa kuitwa nemwana, izvo zvakapiwa kwaari nekuoma kwakanyanya - kushivirira, kururamisa, kusagadzikana, nguva, nguva.
• Rongai mabasa ezvidzidzo nekufambisa mangwanani, zvino migumisiro ichave yakakwirira.
• Ita zvikumbiro zvako kumucheche wechidiki - muna 1-2 zvinyorwa, kuitira kuti zvimwe akanzwa kuguma.
♦ Vana vasina simba vanokurumidza kuneta. Nokudaro, kazhinji inotora mapoka mumakirasi (mune chero, kunyange anofadza mwana).
♦ Yeuka: kana mwana wako ari munzvimbo yepachivande anotanga kuzvibata nenzira isina kukodzera maererano neshoko rinowanzogamuchirwa (kutaura nenzwi, kupopota, kusvetuka), kuvhomora kure hazvina maturo. Edza kumvhiringidza pfungwa yake nehurukuro inofadza, zvinyoronyoro kupwanya zvinyorwa, matama. Kunakidza tactile kunzwa kunobatsira kuderedza kushungurudzika mupfungwa. Uye kuitira kuti usasurukirwa kune vamwe, edza kuzvitenderera kuti mwana haasi mhosva yekuzvarwa nenzira iyo, iye pachake anotambudzika nekusazorora kwake.
• Kana uchitarisana nemwana asina kunaka, usamuda kuti azadzise mitemo yakawanda panguva imwe chete: gara wakanyarara, nyora (kucheka, kutora, nezvimwewo) zvakanyatsoteerera, teerera zvakanyatsonaka, nezvimwe. Sarudza chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha panguva iyo, somuenzaniso, nyora zvakanaka, asi nokuda kwekuti mwana anoramba achikwira, anokanganisa chibata, iye zvino anoparadzanisa, edza kusamurova. Kana mwana akazadza chirwere ichi - iva nechokwadi chekurumbidza. Nguva inotevera inosarudza imwe mamiriro ezvinhu - gara ugare.
♦ Kana iwe uchida kuti mwana wako atevere zuva rega rega zvakarurama, kusati kwapera bhizimisi rimwe uye pakuchinja kune "chinhu chinotevera chepurogiramu", iva nechokwadi chekumurangarira (zviri nani kwete, asi 2 - katatu): "Tora maminitsi gumi, masikati ! "Vana vakwegura, vanogona kutsanangura nguva neawa, vanogona kugadzirira kuchinja kwebasa nekubatsira kweawa yeawa.
• Ita zvakafanana zvezuva kuitira kuti mwana asave nousimbe uye maminetsi gumi. Mwana akadaro anoda kugara achiita chimwe chinhu, kuitira kuti asanyatsogadziriswa.
♦ Zvakakosha kunyora mwana asina kuchena kubva pazera remakore mune zvemitambo uye (kana) nguva dzose achitamba nayo mumitambo yemitambo.
♦ Nzira yakanakisisa kana vabereki nevadzidzisi (vadzidzisi) vachibatanidza kuedza kwavo mukudzidzisa mwana akaoma zvakadaro uye vachaita pamwe chete. Uniform zvinodiwa mu-kindergarten (chikoro) uye kumba kunobatsira murume muduku kukurumidza kuenzanirana nekuraira.
CHITANGWA: TARUKA!
Kune zviitiko zvakawanda apo vabereki vane vana vasina kuchena vane hanya, "kutenga" pamagariro avo akakwirira, vakapa mwana wavo kuchikoro zvishomanana kupfuura izvo zvaidiwa. Uye nei kwete? Pashure pezvose, kana mwana, somuenzaniso, akadzidza kuverenga pamakore mana, anowedzera kusvika kune mashanu mupfungwa dzake kana kuverenga kune zana uye achifara achidzokorora zvinyorwa zvishoma zveChirungu, chii chaanofanira kuita muchikoro chechikoro?
Asi hazvisi zvose zviri nyore. Chimwe chezvizivo zvevana vakadaro ndiyo asynchrony yekufambiswa. Mwana wacho chaizvoizvo ari mberi kwevezera rake mune zvimwe zviyero, asi mune dzimwe nzira, marwadzo, akavhara shure kwavo. (Kazhinji mutungamiri unoenda chaizvo maererano nekugadzirisa kweunyanzvi, uye inongo iri mumamiriro ehutano hwevanhu.) Kune mwana akadaro, chidzidzo chinogara kwemaminitsi makumi matatu chakafanana nekutambudzwa. Anotendeuka uye anokanganisa, achidarika mazwi omudzidzisi nenzeve uye, achiziva kugadzirisa basa rakaoma, achafunga kwemaminetsi makumi maviri nemashanu pamusoro pekutanga. Uye tsamba dzayo dzichakurumidza kufanana nezvipembenene zvekunze. Anongova "asina kuibva" kuchikoro physiologically uye mupfungwa!
Ndiko kusati watanga kupa mwana asina kuchena nekusava nehanya kwechikoro, zvinonyatsokosha kuti uzviratidze kune vanyori, zvichida zvishomanana, somuenzaniso: nyanzvi yezveutano, chiremba wepfungwa, defectologist. Uye zvino-tevedzera mazano akakagamuchirwa, kuvanza vavariro dzavo dzevabereki kusvikira nguva dzakanaka.
Kana iwe uchinzwisisa kuti iwe "wakafara" nechikoro chekare apo mwana wako akaenda kukirasi yekutanga, hazvina kunonoka kuti adzokere kumunda, "achimutambira" chimwe chikamu chehuduku. Chiitiko chinoratidza kuti chokwadi chekuchinja kubva kuchikoro chechikoro kusvika kuchikoro chinowanzokosha zvikuru kunababa naamai kune vechidiki vechikoro ivo pachavo.
Kunyange kumabasa akaoma kune nguva dzose mhinduro. Uye kana zvasvika pakuita kuti upenyu huve nyore nyore iwe pachako, asiwo kumurume muduku, achiri kudzivirirwa mberi kwehupenyu huno, kune masimba, kune vanyori uye mashoko anodikanwa. Uye rega kushivirira dzimwe nguva kutungamirire, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti iwe unoda mwana wako, uye inokuda, uye, saka, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare iwe uchasangana nematambudziko ose nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare.