Peter Pan Syndrome

Chirwere chePeter Pan - izvi zvakajairika mumakore achangopfuura, izwi rinoshandiswa kureva chimwe chinhu chakakosha chepfungwa. Izvi zvinorevei? Saka vanoreva mukomana kwenguva refu, kusada uye kukwana kwemukomana kuti akure. Vasikana havasi pasi pehutano hwakadaro. Izwi rakadaro rakagadzirwa nemuongorori wepfungwa weAmerica Dan Cayley, akatumidza chirwere ichi mukuremekedza gamba renyaya yemunyori weChirungu James Barry.


Munyika ino nyaya iyi haisi yakapararira, zvakare, iyo yakaratidzwa paTV, haina kukwezva zvakanyanya. Nhasi, bhuku iri rave rinopfuura makore zana, uye zvikwangwani zvakaratidza hupenyu hutsva hweHollywood, hunobata chirwere chezita rimwe chete, uyezve, vazhinji vanyori vane kodzero vanocherechedza kudiwa kwayo.

Tale inotanga nemashoko aya: "Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare vana vose vanokura. Kunze kweumwe ... "Peter Pan aigara ari nemakore gumi nemaviri, akanga ari mwana akasiyana-siyana akafananidza mafungiro evamwe varume.Iye jaya rakanga risina vabereki, Petro akararama pachiwi chinyaradzo, pamwe chete nevanoshamwaridzana, vaiti vehondo, vaFairies, vaIndia, uye nguva dzose vaine hanya zvinonakidza adventures. Dzimwe nguva hupenyu hwake hunoiswa nehutambo, asi aigara achibuda uye asinganzwisisiki achiona zvipingamupinyi zvose.

Pane dzimwe nguva, Peter anonyura munyika yedu inonyangadza, kunyanya kuitira kuti titeerere kumasuo emusikana waWendy. Apo Petro akaziva musikana uyu, akamudanira pachiwi chake uye, zvirokwazvo, vakabvumirana. Zvisinei, mazuva mashomanana gare gare, Wendy akasarudza kudzokera kumusha, kwaunogara uchida kuzviwanira iwe kudya, uko vana vanokura mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Uye Peter Pan anogara ari mwana ane makore gumi nemaviri ari pachitsuwa cheAdventures uye nhau dzenyaya dzekuti Wendy achaudza vana nevana vazukuru.

Kufanana nenhau dzose dzakanaka, bhuku raBarry rakasiyana-siyana uye rakarangarirwa, uye zvishoma zvichishungurudza Peter Pan haisi nyaya yekuyemura, asiwo yekunzwira tsitsi. "Akazvichengetedza" paucheche, Petro haazive kuti mabasa uye zvisungo ndezvipi, hupenyu hwake hwose hunofadza uye hunofadza. Uyezve, haana rudo rwechokwadi. Shamwari kwaari ndeyevanhu vaanofara naye panguva ino, asi kwete. Kunyange kana vanhu vakasiya hupenyu hwake kana kufa muhuwandu, anohuona iwo sechinhu chinotambudza dambudziko, kwete kurasikirwa. Haazive kuti kuzvipira kwakasiyana zvakadini.

Iye zvino pane munyori mumwechete wemazuva ano uyo akati anoda mudzimai wake nevana, asi haana kubatanidzwa navo. Kunyange kana vakanyangarika kubva paupenyu hwake, kana kubva paupenyu huripo, achabata ichi sechinhu chinowanzoitika chechisikigo.

Mashoko aya chete anokwanisa kubvisa chero munhu upi zvake, kunyange kana munyori uyu akasika mabhuku akawanda anofadza. Tongere iwe pachako, nokuti anoti kurasikirwa nemhuri kwakaenzana nekuti iye anopona mvura inonaya iri kunze kwewindo. Kubva kuvanhu vakadaro zvakakosha kuti ugare kure. Asi zvakakosha here kutaura kuti Piterov Penov ari kurambanazve nekuwedzera?

Zvechokwadi muhupenyu hwako kune "kuzvigutsikana", vakomana vane hasha vane makore akasiyana avo vasingatsvaki uye vasingazivi kuti vanozviremedza sei nemabasa uye rudo, kurarama zuva rimwe chete, vanokoshesa chete zvido zvavo nezvido zvavo. Kana vakaudzwa kuti vanoda kukura, vanozviona sekurasikirwa kwebasa ravo rekuzvipira. Pete Pans anoramba kubvuma kuti hupenyu pachahwo hunofadzawo, kunyange hahuna nguva dzose hunoita senyaya isingabatsiri, asi yakatooma, inorwadza uye inorwadza. Mazuva ano Pete Pans haadi kutyora mararamiro avo, saka vanoenda vasingatyi pasi pasi, uye zvichida havangotyi ...

Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzekune dzimwe nyika dzinogutsikana kuti chirwere chakadaro chikonzero chekuremara mumhuri yezvidzidzo. Mazuva ano Peter Pan ari kuve mufananidzo wechitendero chemazuva edu, haane chikwereti kune ani zvake, ane zvose. Asi musikana Wendy, uyo akanga achiedza kudzokera kumusha kumhuri yake, kudzidza uye basa, munguva pfupi ichava munhu anozviziva.

Nhoroondo yekare yemunyori weChirungu Bharry inotsanangura kuti vana chaivo, kunyange nenzira yavo pachavo, vakanaka uye vakanaka, pakutanga nemasikirwo avo havana mwoyo, vasina hanya, vane hanya, vasingakwanisi kuzvidzora kana kuzvidzora. Nenguva chete vanogona kuva vanhu vakanaka, uye mune izvi vanofanirwa kubatsirwa nevakuru vanopedzisira vadzidziswa uye vanowanzozvidzivirira kune zvinoitika muupenyu hwevanhu vakuru. Kana vabereki vasingaiti izvi, ipapo mukomana haazokwanisi kukura. Chii chiri kuitika kwaari?

Iye pachake haana hanya nezvaari, uye vanhu vakavapoteredza vanotambudzwa pamwe naye nekushorwa kwake, pfungwa dzekufungidzira, kusagadzikana kusingagumi mune bhizinesi, kuramba kusingadi kutarisana nechokwadi mumaziso ake.Anogara achigumbura vanhu avo vanoratidza rudo uye vanomuteerera, vanopfira ivo mumweya, kunyange achida kudiwa nekuremekedzwa.

Pfungwa dzepfungwa dzemazuva ano Peter Pan:

Emotional paralysis. Zvaanoita hazvina kukwana, uye manzwiro anodziviswa. Anoratidza kusagumburwa kwake nehasha, kufara nehana, uye kuora mwoyo nokuzvidzora uye nezvimwe zvakadaro.

Kusabatsirana mune zvekugara. Hazvina mhosva kuti akaedza zvakaoma sei, haana shamwari chaiyo, nokuti iye pachake haazivi kuonga vanhu uye anogona kutengesa nyore nyore. Sezvo achiri kuyaruka, anowira pasi pesimba revezera rake. Haazive zvakanaka, uye chakaipa, saka vanoita zvisingaiti. Peter Panowedzera kufarira uye kufarira zviratidzo zvehuchuthim kupfuura mhuri yake. Ndiye munhu akasurukirwa uye kana izvi zvinonzwisisika zvinouya kwaari, kutya kunopinda mukati.

Mhou yemhou . Anotsvaga kusaona matambudziko, achifunga kuti achagadzirisa pasina kubatanidzwa kwake. Haana kumbokumbira ruregerero, nokuti haabvumirani zvikanganiso zvake. Anofanirwa kuva nekwakanaka kwekupa mhosva vamwe pane vamwe.

Kuvimba neamai . Anofunga nezvemai vake - anomutsamwisa uye panguva imwechete iye anonzwa ane mhosva, asi achiri kuda kubvisa kutarisira kwake uye simba. Ane hukama hwakanyanyisa naamai vake, nokuti anonyengera achitarisa nekupenya kwetsitsi. Munguva duku Petan Pan anoshamwaridzana nemanzwiro ekuzvidzora, kuitira kuti amai vake vamupe zvaanoda, kunyanya panyaya yemari.

Kuvimba nebaba. Nababa vake haagoni kutaura zvakanaka. Anoda kuswedera pedyo naPapa mumweya, asi haatenderi kugamuchirwa kwake uye rudo. Kunyangwe muhukuru, baba vake vanoramba vari vakakodzera kwaari. Nemhaka yeizvi, zvinetso zvekusingaperi zvinoberekwa nekutonga.

Kuita zvepabonde kuvimba . Anenge asingabatsiri mune zvekugara zvokuti izvi zvinosiya chikamu chakakosha paukama hwake nevakomana vakasiyana. Apo usati hwasvika, Peter Pan anotanga kutsvaka shamwari, asi nokuda kwekusaziva kwake, vasikana vanomuchema kubva sedhiyabhori kubva kune zvinonhuwira. Anotya kuti acharambwa, saka tinovanza izvi pasi pechigamba chetsinye uye utsinye. Nokudaro, kunyange mushure memakore makumi maviri, anoramba ari mhandara, hongu, anonyara kuzvigamuchira uye anoudza munhu wese nezvekukunda kwake kwekufungidzira.

Zviratidzo:

  1. Kubvira pazera remakore gumi nemaviri kusvika kune gumi nemashanu, Peter Pan ane unhu hune hunozviratidza huri mumhando dzakasiyana - kutyora kwebonde, kusagadzikana, kusurukirwa uye kusava nehanya.
  2. Kubva pamakore gumi nemasere kusvika pamakumi maviri nematanhatu vanomira kuramba zvinhu zvinosangana nevamwe uye vari kungoshanduka kuva vananyengeri. Vanotsungirira kugunzva zvepabonde ivo pachavo, vanozvirumbidza ivo pachavo. Uyezve, ivo vanoratidzwa nechisimba zvakanyanya.
  3. Kubva pamakore makumi maviri nemaviri kusvika makumi mashanu kune dambudziko rakakomba, vakanyadziswa muupenyu, vanotanga kukurukura nemhando yavo.
  4. Kubva pamakore makumi maviri namapfumbamwe nemakumi matatu nemashanu, Petro Peters akayananiswa nehupenyu hwekuti upenyu hunopera uye hunotanga kuzvikumikidza kuva munhu mukuru, pasina kutora basa kune chimwe chinhu.
  5. Kubva pamakore makumi matatu nemasere kusvikira kune makumi mana nemashanu-panguva ino, zvechokwadi kune mhuri, vana uye basa, asi havaregi kuora mwoyo, nekuda kwehupenyu hwavo hunovhiringidza uye hunotyisa.
  6. Mushure memakore makumi maviri nemashanu aPeter Pan anotanga kuora mwoyo uye kutsamwiswa kunyanya. Pane dzimwe nguva apo vanofunga pamusoro pekuti hapana chinangwa muupenyu uye havanoda hupenyu. Vanotanga kutsvaga huduku, kusiya mhuri uye kutsvaga madzimai maduku.

Vazhinji vedu takatoziva kuti chitsuwa chepachizvaro chiri chinyararire. Dzimwe nguva tinogona kuyeuka kuti hwakanga hwakanaka sei muhuduku, nyore uye husina hanya, asi usaedza kudzokera ikoko. Zvechokwadi nokuti vakamira vasina kuva nemoyo, vanozvikudza uye vasina hanya. Asi, nhamo, kwete dzose.