Sei mukadzi wechizvino achifamba kubva kumurume

Ndakagamuchira runhare kubva kune vandaimboziva uye ndakagovana nhamo yangu: "Takave takaroorana naOne mumwe kwemakore gumi, uye zuro akaunganidza zvinhu ndokundisiya. Sei? Chii chandakaita chakaipa? Ndinomuda. " Iyo hurukuro yakandikurudzira kuti ndifunge nezvekuti sei varume vakawanda vasingafariri madzimai avo kwechinguva? Ivo "vanovhiringidzwa" nemafambiro avo, kuti mukadzi akagadzirira kuenda chero maziso ake achiona, kwete kuti ave naye. Ichokwadi, pfungwa yekutanga iyo inomuka apo mudikanwa anokukanda - ane mumwe! Uye kana kwete? Sei vakadzi vemazuva ano vachisiya varume nevarume? Vadikanwa, vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba vanoratidza kuti tinofunga zvikanganiso zvakanyanya pakuzvibata izvo zvinogona kutungamirira pakuparara kwehukama.

Doro

Zvichida chikonzero chakakurumbira chekuenda kwemukadzi wemanhasi kubva kumurume chidhakwa chechikadzi. Kana murume asingakwanisi, asingadi, haadi kurega kunwa doro muzita remudzimai wake nevana, iye angangodaro akarasikirwa nomudzimai wake. Kushandisa nguva dzose doro kunotungamirira kukuti murume anorasikirwa nezvinodiwa zvake zvekare, anova nehasha, anokurumidza kutsamwa, kusava nehanya muupenyu, kumhuri yake. Murume wacho anova akareruka, anongova nechido kune rimwe doro rekumwa doro, ane shamwari dzine zvimwe zvinodiwa, hazvipi zvakasiyana nepfungwa. Saka zvinosvika pakuti kune rumwe rutivi - chido chemudzimai, kushingaira kwake, chido chekuponesa mhuri, kudzorera murume wake , uye kune umwe - kuda kunwa. Sezvo mutemo, wekupedzisira kunze. Mukadzi anorarama mukutya nguva dzose, mumamiriro ekutya, anonyara pamusoro pemudzimai wake wehupenyu, anonyara naye. Zvose izvi zvinotungamirira kukuvhunduka kwekutya, kuora mwoyo, kusava nehanya, kuonekwa kwakashata. Tendera vana vanoregererwa, vose baba naamai, nokuti vakabatikana kugadzirisa dambudziko rakaoma, iro rakaoma zvikuru kurarama naro. Nokudaro, mushure mokutaurirana kusingaperi, kunyengetedza, kutyisa, kushungurudza, mukadzi anosarudza kusiya murume, nokuti masimba haasisina.

Poboys

Kusvika iye zvino, vakadzi muRussia havazombochengetedzi kubva kumhirizhonga mudzimba. Hazvina mhosva kuti chii chakakonzera kurohwa kwekutanga, zvinokosha kuti zvakakosha kuzvidzokorora. Hazvisizvo zvachose kuti munhu ave nekutambudzwa kwakanyanya, kusiya masaga uye zvinhu. Zvinokwanisika kuti kudengenyeka, kukanda kwezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana, kurohwa uye zvichingodaro, inova tsika yekuita. Kana munhu akasunungura maoko ake achidhakwa, uye asingakanganwi chero chinhu (kana kuzvifananidza kuti haayeuki), ichi chiratidzo chokuti munguva yemberi iye achakwanisa kurova mukadzi paanenge achinyatsoona. "Dzimba dzomumusha" hazvichinji nguva zhinji. Zvose zvivimbiso, kunyengetedza zvinorasikirwa nesimba ravo, kana mukadzi achiita semurume wake asingadi. Saka zvinopera kuti nzira chete yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu apo pane chisimba mumhuri chiri kuwana kurambana uye kusiya. Iri ndiro danho rinopinda muruponeso. Ndosaka vakadzi vemazuva ano vari kusiya varume.

Kutuka.

Mukadzi mumwe nomumwe wechitatu munyika yedu, kamwechete kamwe muhupenyu hwake, akanga achichema kubva pane izvo murume wacho ainge amushandura. Misangano neshamwari, kana imwe yeiyo ichakuudza kuti murume wake akachinja zvakare, ichangobva kuva mamiriro ezvakawanda. Kana kuwirirana kwaiva kamwe, saka vakadzi vakawanda, nekuda kwekuvapo kwekunzwa, mhuri, tsika, mutoro, kukanganwira murume wake. Iye anozvinyengedza pachake kuti yaiva kungoita zvepabonde, uye kwakanga kusina kuwirirana mupfungwa pakati pemurume uye mumwe mukadzi. Asi kunyange kuti uzvione izvi, zvakaoma zvikuru, kuparara kwekutya, kushungurudza, kuchema kusuruvara, kutsamwa, kushungurudzika kunochengetedzwa. Vamwe vakadzi vemazuva ano vanozviona sevakachenjera, kana, zvechokwadi, ivo, vanotarisa kusatendeseka kwemazuva ose emurume, nekuda kwemhuri, kana nekuda kwekuti murume wavo anopa uye haapindiri muhupenyu hwavo hwega. Asi, munyaya iyi, zvakaoma kutaura pamusoro pemhuri chaiye. Mune rimwe dambudziko, upombwe hwemurume hunogara huchigarire, pasinei nezvose zvaanovimbisa zvokuti hazvichazoitiki zvakare. Nguva imwe neimwe, apo paunodzidza pamusoro pekutsengedzwa kutsva, kukudzwa kwemukadzi kunowira pasi pebhodi. Somugumisiro, kuneta nekureva nhema, kutengesa, kwete kuremekedza, mukadzikadzi wemazuva ano anobuda kumurume.

Kusina rudo

Mushure mekunge imwe nguva mushure mekutanga kweukama kana hupenyu hwekubatana, varume vanowanzotanga kuona mudzimai sechinhu chakakosha, sechinogara chiri pedo navo. Uyezve, vazhinji vehutano hwakasimba havatombofungi kuti kune chikonzero chakadaro chekusiya. Vane chokwadi chokuti ichi ndicho chikonzero chechikonzero uye chisina maturo. Mukadzi anoonekwa sechinhu chakanaka, chidimbu chepachena kuhupenyu hwake. Mudzimai muchengeti wemba, musikana, unobata zvepabonde, dzimwe nguva, uye inowanikwa mari. Kana mukadzi asinganzwi kuti anodiwa, kuti anoremekedzwa, anokoshesa, anotarisirwa, ipapo kuzvikudza kwake kunowira pasi pepinth, kusaderera kwake kwakakomba kunogadzirisa. Izvo zvose kutaura pamusoro pekuti haana kutarisira zvakakwana nekudziya, kunoguma nekuti murume wacho anotaura kuti haasi kumupandukira, anoda, anopa, haashamisi. Chii icho chaanoda, asina hanya? Panguva imwe chete, zvose zvido zvemudzimai, zvido zvake, zvido uye zvido zvake, hazvina kukanganiswa zvachose mukufunga kwemaonero omurume. Chido chokuratidza murume wake kuti pedo naye iye chaiye, mudzimai mupenyu, mudzimai anogona kuenda kunonyengedzera. Anotanga kutsvaga kufara uye kutarisa kune rumwe rutivi, kuhuwana, uye, achizviratidza kuti pane humwe hukama, anosiya murume wake.