Munyika kune hukama hwakasiyana pakati pevanhu. Uye chimwe chezvinhu zvikuru ndizvo rudo uye ushamwari. Ushamwari hwakakamurwa kuva mhando mitatu mikuru: ushamwari pakati pevarume, ushamwari hwevakadzi, uye ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Vakachenjera vakati, ushamwari hunobereka rudo. Ushamwari ndicho chinhu chakajeka zvikuru munyika. Inobatanidza vanhu uye inoita kuti iwedzere uye yakasimba mumweya. Rimwe remibvunzo inonakidza ndeyokuti ushamwari huri pakati pemurume nemukadzi here?
Zvichida zviripo, chete zvisingamboiti. Ushamwari huripo pakati pemurume nemukadzi haugoni kuvapo, kunze kwekuti aine hanya nevarume, saizvozvowo rwebhuruu, asi kune rumwe rutivi munhu akadaro anonzi murume, haasi iye mukadzi ari mukomana here? Uye kana iwe uine shamwari yechinhu chisingaoneki, ipapo ndiye chete achakuudza chokwadi kuti iwe unotaridzika kwakanaka, uye hauzokuudziri kukurumbidza, kungokukwezva iwe kurara. Uye ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi haugoni kuvapo, nokuti mumwe wemapato achada kunzwa mamwe manzwiro anopfuura ushamwari.
Uye kunyange kana kunyange ushamwari huripo pakati pekupesana kweviri, zvino hunogona kuguma nemuchato. Uye hazvisi nani here kuroora shamwari pane rudo? Mushure mezvose, ushamwari hwakanyanya kusimba kupfuura rudo. Rudo runogona kuonekwa kamwe kamwe uye kungoerekana rwanyangarika, uye ushamwari hunogara kwenguva refu. Ndaimbova neukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi, uye pakupedzisira munhu anova akachenjera uye ane njere uye anotanga kunzwisisa zvinhu zvakawanda. Uye saka kana iwe uine shamwari, zvino ziva kuti iye kana iwe une manzwiro. Uye nei uchifanira kuwirirana izvo zviviri zvinopesana.
Chii chishamwari pakati pevakadzi? Ushamwari huri pakati pevakadzi ndehuwandu hwekunyomba, hunofadzwa nenhema, uye hunosaswa neunyanzvi, zvishoma naizvozvo hunofungidzirwa. Zvichida kune ushamwari chaihwo pakati pevakadzi, asi mumabhaisikopo kana mumashure madzimai varume vanotaura. Asi rangarirai kuti ndiani achagoverana newe pamba panguva yakakodzera iwe, uyo achavhara shure kwako, apo iwe unoda kureva nhema kune mumwe munhu wawakarara usiku nemusikana uyo achaenda newe kuchikwata kana kuti achagovera chikafu chakanaka - shamwari. Ukama hwepedyo hwevakadzi hunogona kuonekwa sehuya hwevanhu vanofarira mune dzimwe nguva, iyo inogara kwenguva yakareba. Kana nyaya iyi ichinyangarika, ipapo kusangana kwevanhu vanofarira kunosvika ku zero. Asi shure kwezvose, pakanga paine kuonana, kwaive neshamwari. Ushamwari hahugoni kupera, ndihwo. Muhupenyu hwehupenyu, dzimwe nguva tinokanganwa nezvevamwe shamwari, kunyange zvazvo panguva iyo ivo vachatiyeuka nguva dzose. Zvichida, ushamwari hwevakadzi chete hunovakirwa pamutemo uyu, asi ushamwari huripo.
Uye chii chine ushamwari? Rudo rwebhola uye rwevakadzi, kusadzivirirwa musati manzwiro evakadzi nekunaka uye chido chekuzvivimbisa kwevarume zvinokosha. Kufamba nokuvhima, makuhwa pamusoro pevakadzi nevana vavo uye vachitaura nezvemotokari nemitambo. Zvose izvi zvinowanikwawo muhukama hwevakadzi - kutengesa mabhiza, makuhwa pamusoro pevarume uye kushaya simba kwavo, kutaura pamusoro pevatambi vepabonde uye nzira itsva dzekurwisana makwenzi. Zvinotendwa kuti ushamwari hwemurume ndiyo ushamwari hwakasimba munyika. Uye mhandara ndiyo inonyanya kukoshesa, inobva pakunyengera. Kuno chete muhukama hwepedyo, zvakare, ine zvikanganiso zvayo. Apo shamwari inodzivisa shamwari kubva kune shamwari yake, kana kuti inomukanda mumamiriro ezvinhu asingafadzi - iyi inofungidzirwa seushamwari hwechokwadi here? Hongu, muhukama hwevakadzi, zvakare, izvi zvose - makuhwa, kukurukurirana kumashure kwemumwe shamwari, kutengesa kwemurume nemusikana. Ushamwari hwepedyo hahupi hwakasiyana nehukama hwevakadzi, uye hakuna imwe yemhando idzi dzehukama inofungidzirwa zviri nani pane imwe.
Ushamwari humwe humwe hunotyisa hwehupenyu. Isu tose tinorota ushamwari hwakavimbika hwakasimba, hwehukama husingazombotisiyi mumatambudziko, asi isu hatisi kufunga here zvose izvi? Ushamwari hwakadaro huripo mumabhaisikopo, sekuda rudo rwechokwadi. Asi godo nekutengesa zvinoratidzwawo mu cinema, uye zviripo muupenyu. Sezvo godo nekutengesa zviripo muupenyu, zvinoreva kuti ushamwari hwechokwadi nerudo inzvimbo muupenyu hwedu. Hongu, ivo varipo, chete iwe unoda kutenda uye kutsvaka, uye izvo zvinodiwa zvichawanikwa kana iwe ukashandisa chimwe chiitiko chekuedza. Shamwari haisi yakanaka, uye ushamwariwo, vanhu vakasiyana, vane matambudziko uye zvikanganiso, saka haufaniri kumirira ushamwari hwakanaka. Iwe haufaniri kuronga ushamwari, nokuti zvaunotarisira hazvizoenderana neichoicho.
Hauna zana reRuble, asi une shamwari zana. Nditendei, shamwari dzisingagoni kuva mazana zana, Mwari ngaarege, kana pane shamwari imwe chete. Mazuva ano zvakaoma kuwana shamwari. Nyika yedu yakafuridzirwa muzvinyengeri uye kunyengedza, kududzira. Munguva yedu, vanhu, vasinganyadziswi, kufara mumwe nemumwe, pasi pechirevo chehukama hwakachena. Tora vanhu nomwoyo wose, uye ivo vachapindura kwauri nenzira imwecheteyo. Tsvaka shamwari chaiyo uye utende mazviri.