Ukama pakati pemukomana nemusikana: nguva dzakaoma

Ukama nemukomana - zvakaoma, dzimwe nguva basa rekushongedza zvishongo, zvinokumbira iwe kwete chete unyoro, rudo nekudziya, asiwo kusasimba uye kushivirira. Uye zvose nokuti isu tose takasiyana, uye dzimwe nguva tinorarama nemanzwisisiro eumwe munhu zvinoitika oh, sei zvakaoma. Asi pano iwe watova nemakadhi ari muruoko: kana iwe uchifunga kuti zvakakosha kuti utambure uye kuedza kuburikidza nekuda kwehukama, ipapo zvinhu zvose zvinotofanira kuitika kwauri. Nyaya inoti "Ukama pakati pemukomana nemusikana: nguva dzakaoma" ichasimbisa matambudziko anozivikanwa zvikuru anowanikwa mumhuri dzechidiki, umo tichaedza kupa mazano anobatsira kudzivisa nguva idzi, kana kuti kubva mazviri, kutakura kurasika kwakanyanya.

Chero chii chakanaka iwe wawakanga usiri iwe, asi mune ukama pakati pemukomana nemusikana, nguva dzakaoma dzinoitika kune vose. Zvinotaridzika: zvinhu zvose zvakanaka newe, hapana kukakavadzana uye kunyunyuta kwakambomuka, asi kamwe pakarepo dutu rakabuda. Ngatitaurire kamwechete: saka zvose kamwechete zvese zvinodha uye zvinoputika, hazvimboitiki. Kazhinji, iwe nemurume uyu makanga mune zvimwe zvinyadzo mukati menyu, kuitira kuti musaparadzanisa ukama hwekutanga. Zvisinei, hazvigoneki kuchengetedza shungu kwenguva yakareba, dzimwe nguva inopera shure mushure mimwe. Uye kukanganisa kukuru kunopera, izvo zvinotosiya kushata kwehukama pakati pemukomana nemusikana. Kunyarara kune chibereko chekusatendeseka kwakanyarara. Zvakaoma, hongu, kuvimba munhu wausingazivi kwenguva yakareba sezvaunoda. Asi kana ukasarudza pane ukama hwakakomba, saka unongoda kuratidza zvimwe zvishoma zvishoma kuvimba nemudiwa wako, kana zvisina kudaro achawana pfungwa yokuti iwe unogara uchitsvaga uye uchimuchengeta. Uye vakadaro, nditendei, kwete semunhu. Hungu pane murume: mukadzi, zvakare, haazobvumiri kutsungirira kusavimba. Saka, dzidza kuvimba nevanoda, chero zvakadaro, kusvikira ivo (kamwe-kamwe) vachiratidza kuti havagone kuvimbwa. Asi zvino, zvichida, hukama huchapera.

Kazhinji, murume nomudzimai vechiduku vane nguva yakaoma vachikakavara kana zvasvika pakushamwaridzana kwavo. Kunyanya, kukakavadzana kunogona kusimuka pamusoro pevamwe shamwari neshamwari yako yekakomana. Ngatiti iwe unoda kugara mu cafe nevasikana vako uye mukomana, inwa tiyi uye taura nezve chimwe chinhu chinokosha uye chinonakidza. Uye murume wacho anonetseka kuti akudzivise kubva kumapenzi aya, mukufunga kwake, kumhanya, kumbira shamwari dzake, kutenga doro uye shrimp uye manheru manheru uone kukohwa kwegoridhe yenhabvu yenyika. Nenzira, iwe hausi kuda bhora kubva paudiki. Nokudaro, iwe, pamwe chete iwe unogona, kurwisa zvirongwa zvevanhu vako. Ko chii chingaitika? Hongu, hapana chakanaka. Nemhaka yekupesana kwako, munhu wose achagara ari oga, uye somugumisiro, iwe uchapedza manheru ose paTV pasina kutaura kune mumwe nemumwe. Asi zvaifadza kushandisa nguva! Asi vakanga vasingagoni kuwana kuwirirana.

Kunyange zvazvo kune vamwe vashomanana. Yokutanga wavo: nhasi uno kuenda kufambidzana nevanasikana vako kune cafe umo iwe unoswededzwa zvakanyanya mangwanani. Uye mukomana wako uye shamwari dzake dzinofadza dzichafara nekambani yevarume uye yebhola newaini. Iwe haugoni kudzokera kumusha zvishoma, asi varume vachapedza kuratidzwa, iwe nemurume uyu muchazara nemafungiro anonakidza, mugogovana pamwe chete nguva dzinofadza dzamanheru, uye, anofara, enda kunorara. Chisarudzo chechipiri: iwe uchaita purogiramu isina kukodzera yekufamba neshamwari dzake uye nevanasikana vako. Ngatiti nhasi nhasi unopedza manheru neshamwari dzake, uye mangwana iwe unoenda kurima mumigwagwa yako. Zvakanaka, pane chinangwa, unofanirwa kugadzirisa manheru akawanda sezvinobvira kune maviri. Uyezve, zvinokurudzirwa kutanga chimwe chinhu chinonakidza: taura, kuenda ku-cinema, kune ice ice kana kungoenda ku cafe. Uye zvino nokuda kwekufamba kwenguva iwe uchangobva kurega kupedza nguva iwe oga.

Imwe nguva yakaoma iyo inogona kumira munzira yekusagadzikana-ukama hune hutano hwezvaunofarira. Ngatiti mukomana wako anofarira kusununguka zvakasimba: usamupa chingwa, kungomurega aite chimwe chinhu chinonakidza uye chakanyanyisa. Nhasi iye anokukwevera kuti uende-kart, mangwana - kukotamira, zvino-kuruka kubva kubhiriji. Uye izvi zvose zvinoita kuti utye chete uye kutya. Iwe unowanzogara wakagara pamba manheru, kuti uwane huwandu pane cafe. Mukufadzwa, iwe wakatora nguva yakareba uye wakashongedzwa zvakanaka, uye hauswededze pabasa rinoshingaira uye kutambira. Somugumisiro, pakutanga kwehukama, iwe, nemeno ako, enda kune waunoda iwe kwaanoda kuenda. Tarisa kuti anoshanda sei mumakwikwi ebhasikoro eine ngozi, ane mwoyo unononoka, tarisa sezvaanokwira kubva kubhiriji, achiteverwa nekacheka rubber band. Uye iwe haugoni kubvisa kuchema paanotora danho iri muchimita mamita makumi mana. Asi munguva pfupi iwe haugone kuzvidzivirira iwe uye pachena kutaura kune uyo munhu kuti varaidzo yakadaro haisi pamusoro pako. Uye, hongu, iwe unomuratidza achicheka bvudzi rakaonekwa pamisangano pamwe naye. Ipapo murume anokutsamwira kwekanguva uye anoteerera akagara pedyo newe, achitarisa nzira yaunomusunga nayo yechinomwe chando chechando. Asi izvi hazvikwanisi kupfuurira kwenguva yakareba - munguva pfupi pachava nokukakavadzana, kunotarisirwa nechokwadi chokuti hauna chokuita pamwe chete, kuti iwe wakasiyana zvikuru. Kakawanda vanhu havagoni kuzvirongedza pakarepo ndokuwana pakati pezvinhu zvinonakidza zvemudiwa wavo chimwe chinhu chichafadza iye naye. Avo vanobudirira mairi vanogona kutaurwa kuti vane ruzivo: vanotanga kupinda mune chimwe chinhu, kuenda kune mamwe mabasa nemufaro uye kutaura pamusoro payo kwemaawa. Vamwe vakaroorana vanenge nguva dzose vanongokundikana.

Pane humwe humwe humwe humwe humwe hunogona kutyisa hupenyu hwehukama hwechidiki. Semuenzaniso, ukama uhwu neyekare. Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti vamwe vevari vaviri vane hukama hwakanaka nevaya vekare. Vanokwanisa kunyange kusangana mu cafe kweawa kana maviri, kukurukura uye kunwa kofi. Hazvishamisi kuti mamiriro ezvinhu aya haatenderwi kune imwe hafu uye inokonzera godo rakanyanya. Iyo iyo "yehafu" yekutanga inopindura kune vakatsamwira: "Handizoregi kutaurirana navo. Ivo vanhu vakanaka chaizvo! ". Asi pano iwe unofanidza kuedza kunzwisisa hama yako uye kuzviisa panzvimbo yake. Ungada kuva panzvimbo imwechete, gara kumba uye kumirira murume kubva ku cafe, paanochera nerunyararo nemusikana wekare? Heano mhinduro yekutsamwira kwako, zviri nani kuputsa zvose zvekare uye kusanganisa hupenyu hutsva.

Pakati pezvikonzero. Zvinokonzera kukakavara muviri, pane pangave nemamwe mararamiro, semari, kuonekwa kweumwe wako (iwe pamwe pamwe kamwechete muupenyu hwako waifunga kuti mune bvudzi rakadaro iye angave ari nani, uye hazvina kukodzera jeans kupfeka, asi murume uyu kusagadzikana mukusarudza kwake), ukama nemhuri ... Sei takavaidza "vaduku"? Nokuti zviyero zvavo hazvikoshi chaizvo. Kana iwe uchida mukomana wako, iwe uchadzidza kuwana zvinopesana uye nechiremera kuti ubve mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma muupenyu. Uye hupenyu hwako huchazadzwa nehuwandu hwakanaka hwekunzwa uye kusagadzikana kufara!