Nzira yekutamba nemurume

Nzira yekutamba nayo nevarume? Hazvibviri kupa mhinduro isina kufanira kumubvunzo uyu. Asi zvakadaro kune dzimwe nzira dzevakadzi nezana zana kubva pamatambudziko pavanhu vose.

Saka, vadiwa madzimai, akakwana kuti mukande maziso ekunyengera, enda kumapurisa ane simba uye chigumisiro hachizokuchengetedza iwe kumirira. Ndine chokwadi kakawanda muhupenyu hwako iwe hauna kungwarira kutamba nemurume wawakada, kunyara uye kusava nechokwadi kuti iye achapindura zvakafanana, akakubata. Saka yeuka chokwadi chimwe chete, pane dzakawanda zvavo munyika yedu: vanhu vose vanoda kufanana nemadzimai, uyezve, vanongokwidzika kubva pauri. Havana kuona chero chinhu chakaipa mukuratidzira, kunyange kana varume ava vakaroora kana kuva neukama hwakasimba. Nguva dzose zvinonakidza kutaura nevanhu vanofarira iwe.

Vanenge vasikana vose vanotya kuregwa kubva kumurume, kwete kuva nechokwadi chokuti ane mukana nemurume uyu. Yeuka, varume, kunyange vakanaka kwazvo, kazhinji vanonzwa kuzvikurudzira ivo pachavo, kuzvikudza kwemukadzi hakubvumiri kuti aratidze kukoshesa kwake. Kune rumwe rudzi rwevakadzi vanogona kutora nyore vamwe vanhu. Sezvo mutemo, kazhinji vasikana vakadaro vanova sechinhu chokuratidzira kune vamwe varume. Kutamba kwavo, vanopa, sezvipo, vasingatsvaki chero chinhu chinotsiviwa. Izvi zvinokwezva varume semapute kune uchi, vanoenda kune vakadzi vakadaro uye vanofarira kushamwaridzana.

Nhengo dzose dzehutano hwakasimba dzinoda hukama hwepedyo nevadzimai vasingamanikidzwi, uye havaratidzi chido chavo chekugara pamwe navo. Kufambidzana nevarume havana mhosva uye vane ushamwari.

Yeuka kuti munhu pakutanga achafunga nezvechikonzero chekutamba kwako, saka usapfuurira uye kusava nechokwadi kwake kuchakurumidza kupfuura. Asi kana murume wacho atova akanaka kwazvo, uye iwe unoda chaizvo kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvako nekutamba kwako, saka iwe haugoni kuita kunze kwezvimwe zvivako. Saronga zvisati zvaitika kuti kukurukurirana kuchava kunofadza uye kuchaunza mufaro wose, pasinei nemugumisiro. Ratidza ruremekedzo uye kunzwisisa kwako, panguva yekukurukura maziso anofanira kupenya. Iva nechivimbo, uri musikana anoyevedza uye anofadza, murume uyu anofanira kuchema nemufaro, kuti iwe wakamubhadhara iwe. Fungidzira uri heroine yaunoda, unogona kunyange kuedza kushandisa mifananidzo yakasiyana, asi zvichida nevasingazivi. Shamwari dzekare, zvechokwadi, kukuziva iwe zvakanaka, uye kana zvatove, iwe unogona kuva nechokwadi, iwe unofadza kutaura, uye unyanzvi hwekuita zvepabonde nevarume mauri hwakange hwaiswa nehupenyu hwemadzimai pachake. Saka, shandisa hutano hwako, kugogodza munhu wese pasi nekunyarara kwako uye kugadzikana, asi usakanganwa nezvechakavanzika chinoitwa nemukadzi wese.

Ndinogona kugovera nhau inofadza, seumwe weshamwari dzangu, musikana anozvininipisa, kwenguva yakareba haagoni kudzidza kutamba nevakomana, izvi uye akatambura nekushaiwa kwevarume. Saka, pane imwe sangano re bachelorette isu, tashandura shamwari nesibatsiro chezvipfeko uye zvigadzirwa, zvakamupa mirayiridzo yakananga. Chibvumirano chakaita sezvizvi: tinomutarisa zvinyararire pabhenji rinotevera, paanoshingaira kumisa meso ake uye kunoseka zvinonaka. Kutendeseka, handifungi kuti vangani varume vakaratidza chido chokusangana naye, kune vakawanda vavo, nevamwe vachiri kutaura. Vose vakafara nemugumisiro, kunyanya musikana wedu anonyara. Nokudaro, kana iwe uchizvibata iwe pachinhu chakadaro, dzokorora zvakaitika kwatiri neshamwari dzedu. Mukana unofadza uye usina mhosva unogona kukubatsira zviri nani kupfuura chero nyanzvi yepfungwa. Uye iwe, mushure mekudzidziswa, saizvozvo, iwe unogona kuenda pakutsvaga chaiyo, nechombo chakashinga zvikuru munyika yevanhu, kutamba.