Zvechokwadi, kusurukirwa kunogona kuve kwakasiyana: kusamanikidzwa kana nesarudzo yako pachako. Zvinogona kunge zvisingaiti chete zvinorwadza uye zvinodzvinyirira, asi zvakare zvinounza rugare, runyararo. Kusurukirwa kwemukadzi, kunyanya vakadzi vakanaka, kwakaoma zvikuru, kunze kwekuti hapana mumwe munhu waunoda pedyo, hapana munhu ane zvepfungwa pakuvanza, vakadzi vasina kuroorana havagoni kuzadzisa chinangwa chevakadzi chinonyanya kukosha - kubereka nekurera mwana. Ichokwadi kuti vamwe vakadzi vane simba, vane chivimbo uye vanozvimirira kuti vanogona kusarudza kurera mwana asina murume. Asi zvakadini nevakadzi vakadzikama avo, pamusana pemhando yezvakasikwa, vari kutsvaga mudziviriri uye fudzi rakatendeka? Zvinokonzera kusurukirwa.
Izvo zvakagara zvichitaurirwa kuti pfungwa dzakagadzirwa nezvinhu. Kana mukadzi, kunyange mukadzi akanaka zvikuru, nekuda kwezviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana zvisingabudirire kuronga hupenyu hwake hwehupenyu hwake, anotanga kufunga kuti haana kusikwa kuti mhuri ifare uye kwete kuzviziva nenzira iyi, munhu asina kunyanya kuoma achatanga kumukomberedza. Ndicho chikonzero kusurukirwa kwevakadzi vakanaka kwakasuruvara-nokuti ivo pachavo vanozvivimbisa pachavo kuti chimwe chinhu chakashata navo uye vanogamuchira migumisiro yakaenderana. Asi hazvifaniri kunge zvakadaro, munhu wose ane kodzero yekufara! Chikonzero chikuru chekusurukirwa ndechokuti vazhinji havazvinzwisisi kana kuvabvuma nekuda kwekukundikana kwekare.
Tumira kusurukirwa kumusuo wekuziva kwako.
Kudzinga kusurukirwa kunokosha, kutanga kune zvose, kuwedzera kuzviremekedza. Usachengeta varume vasina kukodzera pedyo newe nokuda kwekutya kusara uri woga. Kutsungirira kusengedzwa kwevarume vanorcissistic, hauna kuzviremekedza iwe pachako. Hazvibviri kuda munhu akadaro, kungova nehanya naye chido chinokurumidza kupfuura nokukurumidza kana asina chinhu chokudya.
Tsvaga chiremera mukati mako, nokuti munhu mumwe nomumwe ane zvikamu zvinonakidza uye zvinokwezva, uye anovaratidza pasina kunyengera kuzvininipisa, asi zvechokwadi pasina kunyanya kutaura. Mangwanani oga oga, rangarira kuti iwe uri nani, kana shamwari dzako dzisingacherechedzi ichi uye kwete kukuudza - ndivanaani rudzi rwehama? Iwe haunzwisisi, iwe uchawana nyore nyore matsva, kana uchida, nokuti zviri nyore kwazvo kuita vatsva vatsva, iwe unongoda chete, kunyanya nemichina yakagadziridzwa yakagadzirika yekutambidzana paInternet. Tenda, musimba rako uye iwe uchabvisa kusurukirwa, nokuti rutendo chinhu chiri munyika yedu chine zvakawanda!
Elena Romanova , kunyanya panzvimbo ino