Muchikamu chino tichakurukura zvikanganiso zvakanyanya zvakaitwa nevakadzi patinenge tava kuzivana nevanhu, uye tichazoongorora mubvunzo wekuzvibata kumudzimai paunosangana nemurume and zvikanganiso zvipi zvinofanira kudziviswa. Iko panyaya yekubvunza mubvunzo, kusavhunduka kana kushaya unhu hunoita, kukura kunze kwezvakanaka zvako, nezvimwewo. Zvechokwadi, kufara pamusangano wokutanga kana musi wekutanga kunonzwisisika, kunyanya kana uri kutarisa kufarira uye kukwezva kune munhu. Asi kunyanya kuratidzwa kwavo kunobata njodzi panyaya dzehukama. Varume havadi madzimai maduku uye vanoedza kuvadzivisa. Zvechokwadi, unogona kunge une zvikonzero zvechinangwa zvekufunganya, asi iyi haisi chikonzero chekutya kunyanya kuisa phalanx yeminwe yako, kusungira rutsoka rwako, kana kushandura bundu remvere pamunwe wako.
Izvi hazvifananidziwo kuvakwa pakusangana kwekutanga kwezvirongwa zvemazuva mazhinji, uye zvakakosha, kuzvikanda pamusoro wekuzivana kwako mutsva. Kunyanya kana zvirongwa izvi zvinosanganiswa nomunhu wake ane mwero. Murume angatya basa rako rakaipisisa munyaya iyi, kunyanya sezvo vanhu ivo pachavo vanoda kufadza zvose uye kuronga. Regai vatange kutenda kuti ivo ivo, uye kwete iwe uri mutariri wehutano uye hukama.
Kukanganisa kwakaipa kwazvo kumurume, uye kazhinji avo vakamupoteredza, kunounza kutaura kwakashata, mazwi asinganzwisisiki kana kuseka kusina kukodzera. Hakusi chete unoratidza hutsika hwehutano hwako, iwe uchiri kuisa pfungwa yevanhu vakasununguka avo vane chido chavo chose chakaderedzwa kupfekedzwa, kupfeka mahembe, manicure nekuzorora kumahombekombe kune dzimwe nyika. Maonero akapararira ekuti varume havadi vakadzi vakangwara inhema. Ichokwadi, varume vanofarira, vanokoshesa uye vanokoshesa vakadzi vakangwara, chete vakadzi vanotya kwavari apo mukadzi anoratidza hukuru hwake pamusoro pomunhu maererano nekudemba, kuverenga, nezvimwe. Uye izvi zvinonzwisisika, iwe unobvumirana, kune munhu chero upi zvake, pasinei nehutano, Hazvina kufadza pavanomusimudza sebenzi kana benzi.
Mukubata nemurume, usashandise kufarira kwake kwauri, usashamwaridzana nevanhu uye usaderedza kukudzwa kwake kwevanhu - hapana anoda kunzwa sechiputi mune maoko eumwe munhu. Kunyangwe kana muridzi wezvamaoko aya akadikanwa uye anonyengera.
Wit, majee akanaka, kunyemwerera nekuseka kunosunungura mamiriro acho ezvinhu zvakanaka, asi cackling yemusango mukushanda kwemaikadzi asina kusimba inoratidzika isina kukodzera uye yakaipa.
Kuwedzererwa manzwiro kunomutsawo munhu. Zvechokwadi, mutsa wako netsitsi zvicharamba zvichiwedzerwa, asi kushaya hanya nekuchema pamusoro pekufa kweimba yako yaunoda makore gumi apfuura kana kushaya joke kwakaipa pamusoro pemumwe munhu kuchaita kuti anzwe achinetseka uye asinganzwisisiki. Yeuka, misodzi yemadzimai yakasimba zvikuru nhumbi yekushandisa nayo mumamiriro asina kukodzera. Zviponese ivo zviri nani nekuda kwezviitiko zvakakomba, kuitira kuti varume varege kukura panguva ino.
Kunzwa kusuruvara kunokonzera murume wacho zvakadanidzira kudanidzira, kutya, kutuka kwezvinokonzera, nezvimwewo. Antics dzakadaro dzinodzinga murume kubva kurudzi, kuratidza kuti hauna kukwanisa kuzvibata uye kugadzikana kugadzikana pane mamiriro asina kufadza.
Iwe haufaniriwo kufambidzana nemunhu wose uye kubvumirana nemafungiro ake ose - kusava nemafungiro ako pachako kunotaura iwe semunhu asina kuchena uye kunoderedza kufarira kwevarume. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe uchataridzika sechiroro chakanaka kwaari, uye kwete munhu ane maonero akaumbwa pamusoro pehupenyu uye tsika yehutsika uye tsika dzakanaka. Asi, paunenge uchitaura zvaunofunga, usazviisa kune vamwe vanhu. Yeuka kuti vanhu vangani-maonero akawanda.
Hazvina kumboitika uye hazvizombotauri nekuyeuka nemurume mutsva wevakomana vake vekare. Varume ndivo vaeni, uye kutaurwa kwevamwe, kunyangwe kwevaya vaimboita makwikwi, vanoita pamusoro pavo, semuvara mutsvuku pane imwe nzombe muSpanfight yeSpain. Kana iwe uchikumbira pachena, iwe unogona kutaura kuti hazvibatsiri, sezvo vose vari munguva yakapfuura. Mune mimwe mibvunzo pamusoro pechiverengero chavo, nyatsotsanangura pfungwa imwe chete yekuti kune vakawanda vashoma vanoita zvepabonde muupenyu hwenyu kupfuura zvaaive nazvo.
Usambosimudza inzwi rako pane murume. Mutemo wekutaurirana unofanirwa chete muhukama hwevatungamiri, uye kwete kune unogona kuda, saka dzivisa mazita mumutauriro wako mumamiriro ekuda. Kana iwe ukakumbira murume kuti akuitire chimwe chinhu - ita mvura, shandisa ventilator, nezvimwewo - usakanganwa kuwedzera shoko remashoko "fadza", uyewo kumutenda nokuda kwebasa rakashandurwa.
Madly besyat varume uye kazhinji vanodana kumusikana, vachikurukura navo pafoni panguva yezuva, pfupa yekuputira, nezvimwewo. Munyaya iyi, murume anotanga kunzwa asina kufanira uye asingafariri, uye akarasikirwa nechido chekuramba achiziva.
Iyo yakanakisisa mufambiro kana uchiziva murume ndekwechido chechokwadi kumunhu wake uye kukurukurirana kwakashamwaridzana, kusava nehanya kwakanyanya pano hakuna maturo: varume vazhinji vanoti kunyara kunonyanya kukanganiswa mumukadzi kunowanzoonekwa navo sechinhu chinokwezva uye kunyange chekuita zvepabonde, kunyange zvazvo chinyararire sechifananidzo hachisiwo zvakafanira.
Ngwarira pachinzvimbo chako panguva yekukurukurirana - kutungamirirwa kwemuviri wemuviri kumutauriri kunonzwisiswa sechido, nekuparadzaniswa - sechisimba uye kuratidza kwehukuru. Mukadzi kazhinji anonyanya kufadza kune mumwe wako kana agere mumamiriro ekudzikama uye maoko asina maoko akaputika nemakumbo. Kupindirana chiratidzo chisingazivi chekutya uye kudzivisa kusangana.
Uye pakupedzisira, mazano mashomanana akawandisa pamusoro pekuzvibata kune vakadzi pavanosangana nemurume: zviise iwe semudzimai ane rudo uye anokwanisa kufara noupenyu (varume havadi vanorwara nevasikana nevakadzi vanobatwa), edza kutarisa zvakakosha sezvinobvira (mukadzi akanaka anotanga kumutsa munhu mumaziso ake), usaratidze chido chako chakanyanya chekuroora, kuva nevana uye kuronga hupenyu hwehupenyu hwako, usasimudzira kufambidzana kwehukama hwako, tarisa zvimwe zvisingakwanisi (ita munhu wacho akukunde iwe), tarisa usiri, asi nenzira yakakodzera, tarisa kutaura kwako uye gesticulation.