Mukadzi mumwe nomumwe asina kuroorwa akazvibvunza mubvunzo wekuti "Ungasarudza sei murume kuti abudirire mumba?" Panguva imwe chete, gara nemurume uyu kwemazuva ake ose. Kubudirira kwakadaro kwezviitiko kwakagara zvataurwa kwatiri muhuduku, tinoisa chinangwa ichi, asi nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero hazvibviri kuti munhu wose aite izvi. Asi vazhinji havana kumbofunga kuti kukurudzirwa kwehukama husina kunaka ne "prince" wake kunogona kufanotaurwa kunyange pakutanga kwekubuda kwehukama.
Chii chandinofanira kutarisa kana ndasarudza murume kuti abudirire mumba?
- Tanga nemubvunzo iwe pachako-sei uchida murume? Kuva nemhuri uye kuitarisira? Kubereka nekurera mwana? Kana kuti uve neshamwari yakatendeka uye shamwari yako yaunofambidzana newe? Nokudaro kuti mumwe munhu mumba aigona kutambanudza rafu kana kugadzirisa bhuchuta? Uye zvichida, pakupedzisira, kuti uende nebasa risingadiwi uye ubatisise papfudzi romunhu ane simba? Zvichienderana nezvamunoda, mufananidzo wemurume waunoda, uchagutsa zvido zvako, zvichavakwa. Uchishandisa mhinduro dzako kumibvunzo yakadaro, kanda chimiro chepfungwa chemurume wezviroto zvako. Usakanganwa kuratidza zvaro, zvakasiyana.
- Pane chimwe chinhu chaunonyanya kukoshesa kune varume - kuwedzerawo rwandu rwemhuri yako yemangwana nematunhu aya. Uye maitiro kwete chete maitiro aro epfungwa, asiwo zvinodiwa kuti zvioneke, hutano hwevanhu, mavambo, basa uye maitiro. Iva nechokwadi chekunyora pasi! Kugadzirirwa kwepfungwa pamapepa kuchakuponesa kubva kudzokorora uye kuchaita kuti zvive pachena kuti ndeupi rudzi rwemunhu waunoda, kunyange iwe uchiziva zvakakwana kuti iwe unoda kureba, varume vane maziso matsvuku muunifomu. Kana zvakaoma kufungidzira zvipfeko zvekuchiva kwako, zvingava zvakaoma kuziva kuti ndeupi munhu, shamwari yako muhupenyu, uyo angada kuyananidza hupenyu hwake hwose naiye waanoda kufambidzana nawo zvose mufaro uye kushungurudzika.
Kunyora pane pepa kuchakubatsirawo kuona zvimwe zvinopesana. Zvinowanzoitika kuti vasikana vanopa munhu akasimba, ane simba-anoda uye anokosha, asi iye anofanira kunge ane mweya unonzwisisa uye unhu hunoshamisa. Asi zvisinei, mafungiro akawanda emapfungwa haana kungopindirana mumunhu mumwe chete, saka zvakakosha kuziva kuti chii chichava chikuru chako, chakakosha nekuda kwezvinangwa zvako, uye chii chinogona kuregererwa.
- Saka, iwe wakasarudza chimiro chomurume ane wanano, iwe unofunga, achabudirira. Nguva yekufunga nezvekupi, mune "dzimba" dzipi dzinogona kuwanikwa. Business training? Sangano revanoda mafirimu? Fitness club? Panyaya yevashanyi kana paratroopers? Kana ukangosarudza nzvimbo yekuzviitira iwe pachako, tanga kusika mamiriro ezvinhu evanhu vanoziva kuti unofadza.
- Wakawana mukana? Tarisa zvakanyanya, kana uyu ari munhu anoenderana nemifananidzo yako yakagadzirwa - hazvidiwi zvakadaro kuti iwe uchataurirana. Mushure mezvose, zvakakosha kubatanidza mazinga ako: mafungiro uye mazano, tsika uye kurasa vanhu, tsika dzehupenyu uye zvinangwa zvehupenyu.
- Pakutanga kwekuvandudzwa kwehukama, vazhinji vakaroorana vanongotarisa maziso "mamwe mashoma", ayo anogona kunge akazove matambudziko akawanda uye kusawirirana, kuerera mumakakatanwa. Nokudaro, inorayirwa kufungisisa zvakananga kana pane kusava nechokwadi pamatanho ekutanga ekuvandudzwa kwehukama. Ongorora: unoita kuti munhu wacho akwanise kupfuudza "kutarisa kwakanaka" here kana kuti haunzwi hupenyu naye, zvakakwana? Tora nguva yako nechisarudzo, shandura pfungwa dzako.
- Pasinei nokuti wakasarudza murume akakodzera kuti imba ibudirire, unogona kuwana nekushanyira mhuri yake. Iwe uchaona kuti hukama hunovakwa sei maererano nevarume, vakomana. Izvo zvakasimba zvepabonde ndeyevakadzi, hanzvadzi nevanasikana. Iwe pachako unotarisa mune ramangwana remhuri yako nekucherechedza mhuri yake. Urarame pamwe chete - kurudzira hupenyu hwemhuri, asi usanonoka kuguma kwechato chepamutemo. Kana, hongu, chinangwa chako hachisi kuroorana.
Zvichenjerere iwe, tarisira.
Uye usakanganwa nezvekuvandudza kwako. Chengetedza muviri uri mumamiriro ezvinhu akanaka, tarisa maitiro akanaka, uye mafungiro - nguva dzose mumweya unofara, ida upenyu! Nokufamba kwenguva, rudo runopisa, tsika dzinogona kuparadza uye semhashu, "idya" manzwiro ako. Ita nguva dzose, kuvandudza, usarasa kurasikirwa muupenyu uye nguva dzose edza kufadza mumwe nomumwe - ndizvo zvinowirirana nezvinangwa zvako zvakafanana nemanzwiro zvichabatsira kuchengeta chido nekuremekedzana kune mumwe nemumwe. Saka unowedzera hupenyu hwemhuri yako.