Nzira yekudzorera sei rudo mumhuri yehukama

Kunyangwe hupenyu huri kubudirira hwemhuri kakawanda husina rudo, unhu hwemazuva ekutanga. Ndinokwanisa kudzorera iyo kune ukama makore mushure memuchato here? Nzira yekudzorera sei rudo muhukama hwemhuri - musoro wenyaya yacho.

Wheel of Happiness

Kwemakore aya yave ichiwedzera kuoma kwandiri kuti ndichengetedze "iyi moto usingaperi" mukati mangu uye nomurume wangu, kuchengetedza kutsva kwekunzwisisa. Panzvimbo yepanguva yakajeka, isingakanganwiki yakauya upenyu hwakanaka hwakaenzana, takatanga kunyura muitiro. Mhemberero dzemazuva ekutanga, mwedzi nemakore ehupenyu pamwe chete nemudzimai mumwe nomumwe nguva dzose dzakagadzirirwa mune rudo rukuru. Vakawanda vakaroorana vanotenda kuti muupenyu hwavo mhemberero-yevhisi ndiyo yaifara zvikuru. Ipapo hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hunotanga, umo huri kugaya kune umwe neumwe, kazhinji hunoenderana nehukuru hunosangana nevamwe. Uye kusununguka, kunaka kwehukama, manzwiro ezuva nezuva ezororo, iyo yakaratidza kutanga kwenyaya yacho, inofanira kukanganwika. Muchiitiko ichi, munhu anogona kuda munhu, anoona chido chake, asi panguva imwechete anonzwa kusuruvara pedyo naye. Mumakore ose aya, kune ngozi yekugumburwa mukukakavadzana nekukakavadzana kwemhuri. Kuberekwa kwomwana kunogona kukonzerawo mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Mushure mezvose, inenge nguva yose inofanira kupiwa kumucheche, uye zvishoma nezvishoma kune mumwe. Asi chinangwa chekubatana, hukama hwepabonde haisi kungogadzirisa nyaya dzepamba chete. Hazvisi kukanganwa kuti vabereki vari vanhu vari pedyo, vakaroorana, vanoda ... Hazvisi nyore kudzorera kunzwa kwomufaro kubva kukurukurirana. Mhuri therapists inokurudzira chikafu chepasi rose ... nguva dzose kuenda kumatsetse nemumwe.

Dzorera rudo rwehukama

Misangano inotibatsira kunzwa kuti hupenyu hahuna kungova mubereki chete uye kukunda matambudziko emhuri. Icho nenzira yekudzoka kune nguva iyoyo inofadza yemisangano yekutanga, patakanga tangoziva uye taifarira mumwe nomumwe. Muiti wehupenyu hwakadai anogona kuva murume. Kunyangwe kakawanda kakawanda pfungwa yekudzorera kutsva kwekutarisa muhukama hunobuda zvakanyatsobva kune mukadzi anonyanya kunzwa uye anonzwa. Ndiye iye anonzwa kusava noukama hwepamweya nemurume wake, mudiwa, shamwari. Chimwe chinhu chinokosha pamusangano wakadai ndechokugadzirisa zvinhu zvakabatana, izvo zvausina (kana kuti wakazviita) kwenguva yakareba. Izvi zvakakosha kuitira kuti tikwanise kuona mumwe wako muchiedza chakasiyana, kusvika pakuziva mumwe, kusvikira iye zvino asingazivikanwe newe kurutivi rweunhu hwake. Misangano yakadaro mumamiriro asina kukodzera ingangodaro ichishandurwa. Pane imwe nguva, mumwe wenyu aida kufamba-famba muguta manheru, iwe unogadza imwe musangano panzvimbo chaiyo iyo zuva rako rokutanga rakaitwa. Uyezve, pasina kukurumidza, iwe uchapfuura nemigwagwa inozivikanwa iyo yese nemudzimai vane: magwendefa akanyarara mukati, nzira, zvinyorwa, mapaki. Iwe unogona kupedzisa kufamba munzira yako yaunofarira kana yekutoro. Asi zvisati zviduku mararamiro evaya vakashanyira avo vaifungisisa zvakanaka uye vakarongwa newe. Nenzira, hazvina basa kuti unoita sei mumaawa awa, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti iwe uchavashandisa pamwe chete (unogona kutarisira vana vane nanny kana kuronga nababambuya nasekuru). Uyewo yeuka kuti chinhu chawakasarudza kutsaurira maawa mashomanana,, chinofanira kukufananidza iwe mose.

Zvinogona, zvisinei, kuti kune vamwe vakaroorana vasina kujairika, asi panguva imwechete, nguva yekugashira yakanyanya ... inenge yemhuri manheru pamberi peTV. Kufadza kwakadaro kwakanyarara kuchava kuravira, somuenzaniso, kubatikana zvikuru nebhizinesi ravo nebasa ravo, vakaroorana vasingawanzokwanisi kuwana ruzivo rwokukurukurirana mumwe nomumwe kumba ... Kana zvamunoda uye zvido zvenyu zvisingafanane, munogona kutsanangura tsanangudzo. Ngatitaurire iwe uri muimba yemitambo iyo isingarasikirwi kamwe chete, uye bhora riri pedyo naye. Saka iwe unotenga matikiti maviri kumitambo uye umumire kumukana. Iye-maviri matikiti ebhodhi, uye iwe unoona mutambo wezana remakore pamwe chete ... Mukuona kwedu, chinhu chinonyanya kushamwaridzana nguva dzose chiri korona yezuva rorudo. Rendezvous nemurume wake haigone kuguma nehupombwe. Kunze kwenyaya apo kunongororwa kwepabonde chete kunochengetedza vaviri vacho pamwe chete. Kana kana mumwe wevakaroorana akakuvara kana kusava nechokwadi, haufaniri kushevedzera pane izvi. Kune vakaroorana, zvakakosha kuti tigone kuchengetedza kusawirirana mune zvehukama uye kwete kuedza kumutsidzira hutano hwepabonde, kuedza, semuenzaniso, chimiro chekuedza kuuraya, kwete chimiro chako. Zvinowanzovhundutsa munhu. Uye hafu-mazano, zvigaro zvese, zvigumbuso - izvi zvose zvinomuponesa kunzwisisa kuti ndiye oga uye anoda iwe.