Uye kutanga, chizvisarudzira iwe, unonyatsoda here? Kana iwe ukangotya kuva woga, iwe unongoda mumwe munhu kuti ave pedyo, saka iwe haufaniri kudzorera munhu asingadiwi. Rimwe zuva muhupenyu hwako munhu achaonekwa, uyo waunenge uine manzwiro anonyorova uye echokwadi.
Kana ukasarudza kuti unoda kudzosera mudiwa wako, uye uri kuenda kutsiva kune muvengi wako nenzira iyi, zvino munyaya iyi yakaoma tinokupa nzira 7.
Nzira dzekudzokera kumhuri yemurume anopambadza
1. Usaratidze kuti nekubva kwomurume hupenyu hwako hwapera, iwe uchiri kutarisa kutarisa, kunakidza uye kwakanaka. Kuti uite izvi, iwe unoda kushandura bvudzi rako, ita zvinyoro, kugadzira zvipfeko zvakanaka. Uye kunyanya pameso kunofanira kuva kusemwerera kunonakidza. Rega munhu wako aone uye anzwisise kuti pfuma ipi iri pachiso chenyu akarasikirwa. Regai iye aratidze zvaanotanga uye adzokere kwauri, uye iwe nemaoko akazaruka kumubvuma uye kuratidza magnanimity.
2. Taura nehurumende yega yega, pane mari yaunowana, tsvaga mubatsiri kune unyanzvi wekunyengedza. Zvokudya zvinonaka, zvipo zvinodhura, kukurudzira uye maruva, zvichida kubva pane izvi zvose, mbuya wemurume wako anonzwa akazununguka, uye zvakangoitika zvichave mifananidzo yevashandi vega. Ipapo murume wako achaona kuti iwe uri kuchinjana. Mifananidzo inogona kutumirwa ne-e-mail, kana kutumirwa kunoshanda pane vanhu vakawanda. Uye kana munhu akazvimirira achange akakwanisa kutora dzimwe nguva dzepedyo pamusangano wekwenyengeri musikana uye mubatsiri wako, zvakare nyora zvakare rekodhi iri padhidhi kana kaseti. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuisa humwe uchapupu, uye huchavimba nezvako kuti ungaupa sei, zvimwe zvose chinhu chekufungidzira kwako.
3. Pashure pezvose, sarudza musangano usina kuitika. Apo munhu anodzidza nezvokupandukira, zvino, semurairo, iye achaenda kunodurura kushungurudzika kwake mune imwe nzvimbo. Uye iwe uchazviwana iwe uri pedo nepamitsipa yakadzika, mupfupi shoma, saka hauna hanya uye yakanaka. Kuderera kunononoka, mimhanzi isina kuchena uye girasi rewaini, kukunda kuchava kwako.
4. Kana ukashanda pamwe chete nemurume wako, ona zuva rimwe nerimwe, saka bvunza murume uyo murume wako asingazivi kuti akubatsire. Ita naye pamwe chete, kunyunyuta kutaura mazwi kune mumwe nemumwe, kuseka, kukumbirisa. Izvi zvinokuvadza murume wako. Achave negodo, nokuti manzwiro ake pamusoro pako haana kubvongodzwa, uye hakuna munhu angatarisa zvakanyatsonaka kuti mudzimai wake anokumbirana sei nomumwe. Tinofanira kumurega kuti azive kuti pane vanhu vakawanda vakaita saiye, asi izvi ndizvo zvauri iwe woga. Iwe ndiwe chete.
5. Taura nepanhau remunharaunda, uko kune zvikamu zvakadaro: "Ndiri kutsvaga murume!". Muchidimbu ichi, isa dhadzimai wewawakaroorana naye. Ndapota fungai nhamba yefoni yake. Mhemberero yemushambadziro inofanira kuva: "Ndinoda kuzivana nemurume akapfuma pamisangano yepedyo. Mushure mezvose, mutsivi wepikisano anotarisana nemurume akaroorwa, uye haazokwanisi kuramba zvimwe zvakakodzera kupa. Nhamba dzichatanga, flirty hurukuro ichaitwa iyo inogumbura murume wako. Uye ipapo ichasara kune duku.
6. Gadzira nharo inonyengera. Bvunza iwe unowanzozivikanwa, uyo ari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ari parutivi rwako uye kumubvunza kuti akubatsire. Sezvo iye nemuvengi wako vane nharo, ingave aigona kutora murume akaroorwa kubva kumhuri, uye mubayiro mukuru mukukakavadzana kwaizova bhodhoro re whiskey. Uye pavanenge vari pamwe chete, mupe chipo ichi, asi musakanganwa kuratidza kuti akakunda nharo nokuti anovaona pamwe chete. Murume wacho achava nemibvunzo yakawanda, asi mhinduro ichava imwe chete. Haangararami nemurume anopokana naye.
7. Taura nepepanhau rekune imwe nyika uye shingairira kupupura kwako. Tanga tsamba yako neshoko rokuti "Vadikanwa vanyori vekunyora, ini ndiri muverengi wenyu anogara ndichiverenga uye ndinokumbira rubatsiro rwenyu. Murume wangu akatorwa nomupikisi, aida kuva nemurume akachengetedzwa pedyo naye uye kuwana motokari. Uye ndinotambura, nokuti ndinomuda zvikuru. " Wako wako angangoerekana agumburwa paakazarurirwa. Kune rumwe rutivi, anoona kuti nei akatorwa kubva kumhuri, uye kuti aonezve kuti unoramba uchimuda zvakadini. Rudo rwemunhu runokurumidza kupera. Uyezve vakadzi vanobata pamusoro: chii chavanofanira kuita kuti varambe vadiwa?
12 mirairo iyo inobatsira mukadzi kuchengeta murume wake anodikanwa:
1. Hapana chikonzero chekubvunza mibvunzo isingakoshi. ("Sei wakaunza mari shoma?) (" Sei usingagoni kunditora kupi? ")
2. Haugoni kuzvikudza nerudo rwekukunda.
3. Usasimudzira godo rakasimba.
4. Mune mamiriro ose ezvinhu haugoni kutarisa zvakaipa.
5. Mumwe haafaniri kurega kudzokorora kuti "mutumwa" uye kuratidza rudo rwake.
6. Haugoni kumunzira mufaro, zvepabonde uye zvepfungwa.
7. Mumwe haafaniri kukanganwa mutemo wekutenderana ("Nhasi tichaenda kuna amai vangu, uye iwe uchaona bhora muTV nababa vangu").
8. Haugone kurega kutaura pamusoro pehama neshamwari dzake.
9. Haugoni kumutsvaga, zviri nani kumubvunza shamwari yako nezvazvo, zvaasingazivi.
10. Hazvibviri kuongorora zvinyengeri panguva iyo iri kukura nekufambira mberi.
11. Munhu haafaniri kutendera hama dzeumwe munhu, kutsamwa kwakaipa kana makuhwa kuti amire pakati pake newe.
12. Haugoni kuenda mberi kana pane kukakavara pakati pako. Chirema zvakanaka, iva nechokwadi chekuti iwe wakarurama, uye chete ipapo itai kuita pasina manzwiro asina kufanira uye nokungwarira.
Iye zvino tinoziva kuti zvichabatsira kudzoka uye kuchengeta murume anodikanwa. Rega mazano aya akubatsire kudzorera wako waunoda uye urarame hupenyu hunofadza pamwechete.